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Date Posted: 16:31:21 01/12/07 Fri
Author: Sandy
Author Host/IP: 24-176-72-102.dhcp.hckr.nc.charter.com / 24.176.72.102
Subject: Dave
In reply to: Dave 's message, "In The Name Of Lonliness" on 07:07:54 01/12/07 Fri

I understand that loneliness. It's hard to find that "special someone". People have so much baggage. And, most people have gone a breakup or two that has left them afraid to open themselves up enough to really trust someone with their heart again. I know I have that problem myself.

Do you have friends you can hang out with? Or is there a veterens association where you could find friends you have stuff in common with? While you're waiting to find that someone special just hanging out with friends can help the loneliness.

That's what I'm trying to do on weekends. I work through the week so I don't have much time to feel lonely until the weekend. Lately I've been trying to at least get out and do something with a friend or family member on Saturday or Sunday...both days if there's something to do. I know it's not the same but it helps occupy my mind.

Loneliness is a terrible thing. I hate it. But I've found that in the past I tended to jump into relationships because of being lonely, only to be miserable when they failed or weren't going well.

I wish I knew how to be of more help but I don't.

Thinking about you.
Hugs,
Sandy

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  • Muh...I agree with Sandy -- Rhonda K, 16:48:01 01/12/07 Fri
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