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Date Posted: 02:29:32 01/14/05 Fri
Author: Chris
Subject: Re: wise advise on bringing up young naughty kids
In reply to: ts 's message, "wise advise on bringing up young naughty kids" on 00:48:14 01/14/05 Fri

Maybe you should invite the Supernanny ;-)

Honestly, most of what Supernanny says is not so bad. However I think a wrong approach is that she absolutely and categorical ostracizes any form of beating and replaces it by the "quiet corner", i.e. replacing beating as a last resort with putting children in kind of isolation arrest in a well-defined corner of the house as a last resort. Acoording to my understanding this is not really helpful and makes both parents and children suffer and struggle much more and much longer than a well-dosed spank. But beating should be done only in really very rare and extreme cases as a last resort, and in a way that does not debase the child, i.e. never slapping in the face or things like that, and also never in a mood. In case of any doubt, never beat. The best approach is to really talk much with the children and respect and love them very much, and being a good example in everything.

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Replies:

An academic answer -- Mike K., 02:57:13 01/14/05 Fri
- another important thing -- Chris, 03:26:43 01/14/05 Fri
  - A poem -- Chris, 03:28:43 01/14/05 Fri
    - Translation -- Mike K., 04:34:14 01/14/05 Fri
      - Re: Translation -- Chris, 05:38:01 01/14/05 Fri
        Re: Translation -- Mike K., 09:48:08 01/14/05 Fri
        Re: Translation -- Chris, 11:50:39 01/14/05 Fri
  - Re: another important thing -- ts, 06:13:24 01/14/05 Fri
    - Mindset -- Mike K., 09:52:35 01/14/05 Fri