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Date Posted: Friday, April 22, 03:12:18pm
Author: Sher
Subject: Re: Yes or No
In reply to: Luna 's message, "Yes or No" on Friday, April 22, 11:45:56am

Hi Kristin, I'm really sorry that you feel the way you do... I don't quite understand why you feel left out though, as you yourself have stated everyone greets you when you enter the chatroom, as we do everyone. But I also feel that it is perfectly natural for people to "talk" or type in replies to what is currently being said in the chatroom. Personally I know that there have been many times that I have notice that you or someone else for that matter have been quiet for long periods of time and have asked "Hey Kristin (or other persons name) are you still with us? Did we lose you? Or something along those lines. And I know others do the same thing when others are quiet.

Like you, I have not been here "from the very begining" but, I was never made to feel as if I was not welcomed by anyone who was in the chatroom. When I first started coming into the chatroom it was harder for me to keep up with all that was going on in there, but I find it easier to follow along now. Whether someone has been there from the begining or has only been in a time or two, yes they are a MOD Squader. We are all there for the same reason, to chat about Dara and her work, to chat about what is going on in our lives, to generally go in meet people, talk, and have a great time.

To answer you first four questions.....
1. Anyone here feel a little left out? My answer would have to be NO. Not now, and not when I first joined the chat.
2.Almost like they know you are there but don't want to talk to you? Again my answer would be NO. Not now, or in the begining.
3. Ever asked a question and no one answers it, till you have asked it at least three times? My answer to this one would have to be YES! And the reason being, and I have done this myself, with so many conversations going on it is only natural that a question can be overlooked. I have had to ask several times, or in some cases I have recieved an answer 5 minutes down the road. Simply becuase the person who it was addressed to just noticed that I had asked a question. But I have never felt that they simply ignored what I had asked.
4. Ever go into the chat room and have everyone say hi, but if you don't talk they forget your there? My answer, YES & NO. And I will not go into too much detail here because it was addressed earlier. Yes I am greeted when I enter the chatroom. And NO because I try to include myself in whatever topic may be in progress. It is hard to carry on a one way conversation. One must speak if they wish to be spoken too.

Whew... sorry, didn't mean for that to be so wordy!

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