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Subject: Photo Comments Author: ? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 01/16/14 Thu While view a current titleholder's FB page, I notice that someone commented on a picture that she looked "F*****g Hot" - now, it was spelled out completely and other comments were made after that, even by the queen herself. Do you think that a comment like that should be removed since it was on a public FB page or should it remain? Mind you, this is for a contestant in a Big 3 pageant happening in the summer. Just seemed really odd that the comment was left for all to see, including directors, etc. Just wondering ~ [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Sadly, too many dismiss the "F" bomb as just another word in our vocabulary. I am still shocked by how easily the younger ladies just throw it out there like it's no big deal. It's very classless and to use it on FB is in equally poor taste. If it were on my FB, I would be deleting it immediately and letting the person who put it out there to not do it again. But hey, that's just me. Personally, I hate that word! 01/16/14 Thu I've seen things like that and think it's trashy and reflects poorly on the titleholder. But unless she removes it, there isn't much that can be done. IMHO 01/16/14 Thu I have lots of friends holding titles. I don't hold a person liable for what they didn't say. Lots of queens have friends who hold different opinions and they don't always word them in a PC way. . I wouldn't read too much into something like that unless the titleholder said it herself. She may not even know its up! Or maybe really have read closely what they said. Unless it came from the queen's mouth I wouldn't think less of someone for it but I would PM her to kindly let her know her friend isn't making her look good She's obviously a FB friend-I'd PM her and share your concerns 01/17/14 Fri whomever's photo it was must look damn good! good for her. WOW 01/19/14 Sun Poster, no one even saw the photo other than the OP so I don't know why you are even taking it in another direction. I have judged for two of the Big Three and this is not what we want to see when we are doing our research on FB. Sorry, but that is what a good judge does. We do not blame the contestant if a friend posts verbage of this nature but it does have a tendency to make you question the type of friends that they have. Whether you like it or not (and I do not) the world judges you by the company you keep. Tell your friends to keep it clean when posting as it reflects poorly on you. -- JMHO, 01/19/14 Sun I agree! I too have seen foul language by friends and then the queen continues the comments by saying thanks or something else, it just looks bad. -- Not a good idea, 01/19/14 Sun I agree; you are judged by the company you keep. If it is your photo, you can delete the comment. The queen should delete comments that contain bad language. easy fix 01/19/14 Sun About the company you keep... (click in) -- You should hear some of the things I've heard family members say, 01/19/14 Sun I think you are taking things too far and reading in too much. Competitor? Much a do about nothing. 01/21/14 Tue Sorry but I don't even want to be around women who enjoy hearing "you're f'ing hot" from random people on their fan page. Sorry but I love my husband and random nasty compliments are not classy. -- IMHO, 01/24/14 Fri