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Date Posted: 05:22:40 07/13/07 Fri
Author: Texasbrat
Subject: Let's head inside for this one........
In reply to: Theresa 's message, "RE: Texasbrats quote from Pamela. It makes me wonder why in the world people in the military have families if they can't put them first. If that's the choice you make for your life, then not having a family would logically be the sacrifice if you're not around for them anyway. Or don't start the family until you're out. It makes no sense to me." on 16:14:06 07/12/07 Thu

Army, Unit, Family is really not any different than the way most companies have been for years. Remember your history about the industrial revolution, when people would work 18 hour days for just pennies a day, & would lose their job if they got hurt or didn't show up one day. And I also remember all the TV shows & movies about people making a decision about whether they wanted to continue climbing the corporate ladder, or get to know their family. At one time there was a real atmosphere in many companies that was company first, you know the "company man" idea. That was a time when it very unpopular for people to take off just to go see their kid's soccer game. That type of climate has changed during the last 20 or so years, but you can still find some companies or bosses with that type of mentality. My hubby worked for one, and he left after two years cuz he didn't want that type of life.

Army, Unit, Family, along with Duty, Honor, Country, are big deals to the military. But it doesn't mean they are down on families. It has to do with their training, from boot camp onward, they are training to defend our country at all costs. They are trained to do a job within their unit, for the job given the Army, so that they can ensure their family continues to enjoy the freedoms we have in this country. Family is what keeps them grounded, brings them home & the family has always, always fought the battle on the homefront, by living life one day at a time.

And another thing to remember, this show is focusing on women and men whose spouses have been deployed on a tour that is unaccompanied & in harm's way. The military has lots of jobs to do, and not all of the require the soldier to leave the base. Many of the soldiers go to work and come home to their family every night, just like civilians.

Okay, I'll shut up for now.

TB

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