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Date Posted: 07:03:49 06/03/10 Thu
Author: Joel to Bill
Subject: Re: Unfinished Business: Joel's First Post-High School Ass-Chewing
In reply to: Bill to Joel 's message, "Re: Unfinished Business: Joel's First Post-High School Ass-Chewing" on 09:16:47 06/02/10 Wed

Hi Bill,

Saw your reply to mine, will try to answer here.

I guess what seems to be the "apparent unresolved conflict, if a person wants to call it a "conflict" between me and Kyle's dad, and if there is a "conflict" of interest, could be that Kyle's dad never liked I wasn't spanked as a kid growing up if I misbehaved with Kyle and was "caught" at it.

My parents didn't believe in spanking, which I just found out last December, and gave me other punishments instead, but from time to time Kyle's dad has commented to me alone and to my dad other times, that I "should have gotten my little ass spanked" when I misbehaved with Kyle or I misbehaved alone and Kyle didn't so much to deserved punishment.

It really started with the broken window, and Kyle wanted to "take the heat" for it, and spare me punishment if he could! I wanted to that day, was scared, and followed what Kyle told me to do.

Kyle's dad has been nice to me over the years of my growing up and friendship with Kyle, and I believe he NEVER really wanted to make a big deal about that day and continue over the years to, and has never come out to criticize me bad for it. But I'm wondering now he believe I still should have gotten spanked for that day, and believe he has thought other times I should have gotten punished when he knew I should have or my dad mentioned in conversation to Kyle's dad I should have been punished different times when I misbehaved and he probably said to Kyle's dad, "I should have given Joel a spanking for that!"

Growing up, I never heard Kyle's parents or parents of other buddies I played with, say I was a "bad kid" and their kids shouldn't be hanging around me, because I was bad news!"
It was just looks by them sometimes that I maybe I should have gotten spanked and them telling my folks sometimes that I needed a good spanking.

I did have problems when I was younger growing up to having some kids "pick on me" or "label me with names" (one was he's a momma boy) that hurt my feelings because I was smaller in size then them, and with Kyle being bigger he decided to "fight" some of my "battles" I wanted to fight or did fight some and get the snot kicked out of me. That's why I always took to Kyle as a "big Brother" and he to me as a "little Brother" and us liking each other like brothers, same interests, sports etc., besides going to school together and playing together.

I will admit, and Kyle can read this thread as I have nothing to hide and I've told him many times, sometimes I think if he gets "mad" at me or "disappointed in me" that he tries to get me to be "tougher" to prove myself or to make up when I wasn't, he has caused "things" to happen, and I will admit that maybe Kyle wanted me paddled one last time to "prove a point' when April 4 anniversary of my first paddling in life happened at school in 2009 when I volunteered for it to happen!

Kyle and I have kinda "talked" about this, and it was hard for him to really "admit" and hasn't "really", but I told I wanted him back as a Big Brother and stop "whatever" he was trying to do, and he did and came back to me!

I would like to believe, probably there is "unresolved conflict" between me and Kyle's dad or "things" about me over my lifetime he might not have liked about me and happened, with Kyle and I or by myself if Kyle's dad knew about it, and if it would make "things better' if there is a problem about me and Kyle's dad, I'd like to "resolve" them, but have in the back of my mind what if he wants to resolve by like you say "heat my seat."

Over the last year, Kyle's dad changed from spanking Kyle with a paddle on his bare butt to using his belt. I don't fear now getting a bare butt paddling from a person, but I don't know about an adult whipping my little butt with a belt, which I've never had done before and scares the crap out of me!

What if I "talked" to Kyle's dad and said if there's a conflict that needs resolved between him and me and if I told him if there was a way to resolve it I would be glad to hear his suggestion. If he says, like you say, to resolve the matter and says I need a good old-fashioned spanking and that he wants to do it to me, I could at least listen.

If he does, I feel he's going to say it would resolve the matter and because he spanks Kyle with a belt I could expect the same then done to my butt by him with a belt!

If Kyle's dad did want to do this, I'm ashamed to say it, I'd want to be a woose and not want to accept him doing it to me. Nobody's going to whip my butt bare with a belt!

I know I'm suppose to be tough, l8 yrs. old, an athlete, and be able to take pain and punishment without resisting. And I've come to learn to accept responsibilty for any wrong action I've done or caused, but I don't want to have to take a bare butt whipping from Kyle's dad and I believe that's how he would want to do it if I told him go ahead, and believe he wouldn't use a paddle, to make things right.

If my dad decided, and I couldn't talk him out of doing it, I would accept taking a bare butt belt whipping from him without a battle, but I won't take a bare butt whipping from Kyle's dad, and will accept being called a woose!

If you want, go ahead and think of me as a woose, but I'm not going to "take any medicine' like that. I realize too, unresolved conflict isn't good too, so I don't know what I should do then, but if you want to think of me as a woose go ahead, I won't hold it against you!

I will still be willing to be friends with you, if you want to, and not think of you less, even though you might think of me less, but not tell me in a thread in this forum.

So you've heard my thoughts, answer if you like?

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