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Date Posted: 08:19:08 12/03/09 Thu
Author: Joel to Rick
Subject: Re: The Challenge...ARE YOU SURE?
In reply to: Rick to Joel 's message, "Re: The Challenge...ARE YOU SURE?" on 17:16:08 12/02/09 Wed

Hey Rick,

How you doing big brother???

I'm doing great, my butt is as back to normal as its suppose to be.

I've been focused in school and in basketball practice despite the ordeal I have been through.

Rick, you can look at the message I've left Steve, and see my views and ideas on this matter.

But first off, the CHALLENGE IS STILL ON, AND I'm GOING TO WIN! SO NO CALLING IT OFF! DAVID IS GOING TO BE TAKING A PADDLING FROM YOU, WHICH HE AGREED TO IF I WON THE BET!

Rick, Kyle, (his girlfriend to for date), Sean, Luke, and I are still going to my grandparents for our dates with the three girls for the Holiday Festival.
The real reason is to, is that I'm going to confront my grandma, with Kyle, Sean and Luke (Julie if she wants to) to see if my dad was ever abuse while growing up in getting spankings/paddlings/whippings from grandpa.

The information I get then I will use, if needed, when I get back Sunday night or if I have to wait until Monday night, to meet with my dad. I'm going to have it out with him why I was never spanked while growing up. If we get back late Sunday then I'll meet Monday night with dad and the guys over!

I won't chicken out, to help if needed Kyle, Sean and Luke said they will be there if I need help from them to get my point across with my dad-He's going to give me the spanking I never got and want! No taking no for an answer!

I feel this will be my only chance because I will tell my dad a day later about what grandpa did to me. Kyle, LUke and Sean said they will help me tell! I promise and I'm not lying!
But I got to get the spanking from my dad, because I feel I won't ever get spanked after I tell on grandpa. I won't bring up if dad got abused, if he was and I find out, but I will insist that he give me a spanking like the other guys are getting and NO for an answer!

Kyle made me a homemade paddle, used the measurements that David said his paddle are made like. Kyle drilled holes in it and my name is on the handle. Now, dad can't refuse not wanting to use a paddle on my bare butt, the other guys get one used on them and Kyle, Sean and Luke will back me up.
I'll be telling dad that I deserve to be like the other guys, should have all these years, etc. Sounds like David talking, doesn't it? But, its going to be me.

I got a speech, rehearsed it over and over, and I've tried it on Kyle and he says my "ass should be on fire before the meeting ends" with me and my dad!

I feel I need to wait one day after I get the paddling to tell about grandpa because that would not be right to have the bad news about grandpa told on the same day. That would make my dad feel he should never have given me the paddling! Dad won't probably ever want to paddle me again after the news is out about grandpa!

I know you and David believe in God. THis might sound crazy, but I had a dream from God and He told me how to confront dad to get the spanking and I would be rewarded! This happened a day or two after I got the whipping from grandpa, thinking things over and I did alot of praying for grandpa and for him to get help.

When Kyle, Sean, Luke and I go to my grandparents we will make sure nobody is left alone with grandpa, and when we sleep over Julie will lock her bedroom door from the inside and us guys will lock ours as usual, so everyone will be safe!
If something should ever happen with Grandpa on this visit and we are threatened we will get out butts out of there and go home!

Now about David.
I can see again how he and I are alike, and why he took to me as a buddy and me to him. It's cool!

David shouldn't be taking this hard. Otherwise it sounds like the excuse I was using when I told you and David I was screwing up in my mind with mind games, etc. blaming myself when David lied about not getting spankings under age 9 and I said it was messing me up in football and school.
I know David cares for me like a brother, and I do for him, so I hope he get's his act together!
It was NOT his fault thinking he suggested buddies get into the trading swats on their butt thing.
Wasn't I the one who started that, and you had imput and Steve did to, or did I miss something, but yes David imput too, so everyone did. I know I asked you and Steve for suggests to give swats and David to, so the sole idea was not on David's shoulders!

As for you and David trading swats, yeah curiosity got the better of me, so did Kyle and the other buddies. Grandpa had a razor strap and everyone wondered the difference it would feel from a belt hitting butt. David should not feel guilty and think it was fault!

The CHALLENGE was a good motivator, and its worked! You and David, especially David, have helped to try to get the courage up to ask my dad to spank me, I've tried it lone and couldn't get over the hump, but now with things happening and the dreeam I've had-I'm told this is it, Don't get scared and go got it! I won't have another chance I feel!

So Rick, don't talk David into taking a paddling for the whipping he thinks he might have caused for me in the barn, not to run out of there, etc. I was stupid, and didn't understand. It was grandpa's fault for whipping me, I realize that, I'm going to tell on him to get him some help, but only after I get my paddling from dad first.

When I get my paddling, I'm going to post it in the forum that I've won the Challenge, and then David is going to have to take the bare butt paddling he promised he would take and get from you. He needs to post about it, and I know he will and it doesn't have to be a masterpiece! Rick, I want you to post about you giving David the paddling too, so we have both sides and thoughts about it! Please! It doesn't need to be a materpiece from you!

By the time I see your posts, depending on how soon you have time to get David paddled, I will have told on grandpa to help get him help.

Rick, it has to be like this, I can't tell on grandpa before I get my paddling from my dad first on Sunday or Monday at the latest.

I can't tell on grandpa right now, until I talk with grandma and see if dad was abused as a kid and if he might use that as an excuse why he never spanked me.
So you and David, please don't be disappointed in me not telling right away? Can you understand?

Thanks for the caring words about me proving myself in sports when I needed to, and yo thinking I need to prove myself as Team Joel.

I will dude, but it's got to me my way! I'm going to get only one chance I feel to get my first and probably last paddling and I'm goin to it!

So don't be diappointed in me? You have the right to say what you want, have in the previous messages and now I want to hear from you again.

We can exchanged messages up to Saturday morning before Kyle, Julie, Luke and Sean and I leave for my grandparents.

I had to laugh, Luke commented to me that how was I going to play basketball Tuesday night IF want to get my dad to paddle me on Sunday night.
I had to explain to him it will be a piece a cake. I played the night after I got the razor strap whipping from grandpa without problems, why would a paddling from my dad be any worse.

One thing that hasn't been decided-how many swats I'll get from my dad! It's going to be a real paddling and he's going to make it that, so no matter what I will still end up with a sore, red butt! Any predictions what dad might give me?

Rick, will I make you proud of me with this decision I've told you about to wait a few days to get my dream to come true? Or are you disappointed in my ass?

Waiting to hear from you, and I'll post a separate message to David!
Oh, any suggestions on anything?

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  • Re: The Challenge...ARE YOU SURE? -- Joel to David, 09:13:25 12/03/09 Thu
  • Re: The Challenge...ARE YOU SURE? -- David to Joel, 17:17:05 12/03/09 Thu
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