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Date Posted: 11:17:48 01/06/05 Thu
Author: Nikki Jo from "Cal ee for NEE AH" (heehee)
Author Host/IP: pool0015.cvx11-bradley.dialup.earthlink.net / 209.178.188.15
Subject: HAPPY 2005!

Well another year is here.
May yours be full of happiness and blessings!
I am sorry some people do not really take time to READ your site.
They just look at the pictures and think this is only about being GAY. When in your story(profile) you say you are looking for a woman.
I am sure they just do not understand that to you happiness means being yourself even if it is not what other people set as "normal".
Some people see a soft, nice, caring, wonderful man like you and say,"Oh he must be gay..."
No I have nothing against gays, It is sort of sexist that people think that though.
Let me give an example: I have read all the Harry Potter series and I really am drawn to the DEEP messages inside the fun and magic.
I have started to wear Things that remind me of the story. People mistake me for a witch.
I am not, I don't hold anything against witches either, I have friends that are witches. There are two things that Harry learns to do in the book/movie "H.P. & the Prisoner of Azkaban" and I am using these ideas to work with my depression and anxiety.
Bottom line, we all need to stop labels.
We all need to accept the fact that people can dress differently and that does not make them something else,(gay or a witch, etc).
People find themselves in dress-up and roll playing.
It is normal.
Peter, I really love what you're doing here.
I do not have anything against the people that write with the idea that your gay. I just think that sometimes kids might visit here and see some of the letters and get wrong ideas...("you look yummy", "I want you", etc...)
I think people should think about YOU and your site, READ it perhaps and get to know YOU...not just see the outfit and jump to their own conclusions.
Take care,
Many Blessings to you!
Nikki "Ruby-Stone" Lucero

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