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Subject: Re: I knew it was coming and still Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:57:09 06/25/25 Wed In reply to: Belle 's message, "I knew it was coming and still" on 04:47:43 06/25/25 Wed Well Belle, the good news is as you get older you'll find the bottom to brain connection works better and you'll not be so tempted to keep going --- unless of course there's part of you that wants, needs, a burning bottom. Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: I knew it was coming and still Author: Belle to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:17:24 06/25/25 Wed I’ve been spanked for so long (im in my 40s) im pretty sure I need it now to help my behavior [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I knew it was coming and still Author: Alfred22 for Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:35:33 06/25/25 Wed Mindy is always the voice of Wisdom when it comes to all things spanking. Depending on how problematic the behavior is, you might try banning being spanked for it. See if that "works in reverse." From what you said, I don't think that you need it harder or with more certainty or with a more biting implement. One thing you could try is just accepting all aspects of the situation. Was there ever a time when spanking worked better for you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I knew it was coming and still Author: Gisela for Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:37:07 06/25/25 Wed ...the good news is as you get older you'll find the bottom to brain connection works better and you'll not be so tempted to keep going... Dear Mindy, it's an interesting question whether this is actually the case. The equation “stubborn head = sore bottom” is so simple that I had already internalized it as a very young girl. Of course, with age comes the ability to correctly assess consequences. It becomes easier to resist strong temptations because you can better weigh them against the consequences. But whenever I was disobedient as a girl, I knew very well what it would mean for my rear end if I got caught. I don't want to contradict you, I'm just pondering... Warm regards, Gisela [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I knew it was coming and still Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:15:17 06/26/25 Thu Hello Gisela, nice of you to write and pondering is good. Makes for good conversation. No doubt the neural pathway for bottom/brain connection is wired differently for each of us. Unfortunately, while as time passed mine worked better there were still short circuits and I needed rebooting so to speak. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I knew it was coming and still Author: Gisela for Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:02:08 06/26/25 Thu Thank you, Mindy, for your kind reply. Yes, the short circuits... you'll probably never get rid of them completely. And then you're lucky if there's someone there who can restart things with empathy, but also with strictness if necessary. I was lucky enough to have that. First my father, who was perhaps more strict than empathetic, and then my husband for over 45 years. Perhaps we will occasionally find topics on which we can exchange our experiences. All the best—Gisela [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I knew it was coming and still Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:15:28 06/26/25 Thu Hi Gisela, I too went from my parents to Mork and that's but one of wonderful things about my guy! Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]