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Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Elsie [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 14:53:24 05/11/26 Mon In reply to: Elsie 's message, "Me again" on 11:03:58 11/09/25 Sun My bestie and me had finals today. We were sitting in the grass in the sun and my backpack spilled out. Along with my chromebook and books a vile of 5 hour energy rolled out. My friend picked it up and said "What's this?" I said you know what that is. Then she goes "Does your mom know you have this? She wouldn't approve of this would she?" I was like why you all up in my grill? I just had it in there in case I needed it, but I didn't. Me and her love coffee, but I've never had one of those. She said "What would your mom do if she knew you had this?" I said I don't know and she said "She'd use that paddle to beat your little butt, wouldn't she?" On the one hand I was really ashamed and felt like she was justified as my friend, but on the other hand I felt like what tf is it any of your business. She said "I should tell your mom that you have this. She'd want to know." I started like begging her not to tell my mom. I felt like a 2nd grader. My friend goes "We'll just drop this in the trash and pretend it never happened." So what is going on here? So Missy, I think your wrong. I don't think she has any interest in getting spanked herself, but I think she is sure interested in me getting my butt beat. Maybe there's something else psychologically going on there. I don't know. Tbh, it really turns me on. This isn't the first time she's acting like this with me and that goes back before she knew I got spanked. Even before I did get spanked. In a way it kind of pisses me off, but it really turns me on. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: pat to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:12:47 05/11/26 Mon Perhaps your bestie wants to span you ohne time with the paddle and you can arrange it that your Mum surprise you both [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Ams [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:38:32 05/11/26 Mon You should let your friend give you a light spanking for being sneaky. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:23:48 05/12/26 Tue Don't think I haven't thought about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Missy to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:13:14 05/12/26 Tue Hi Elsie, I made a few notes to put in a post to you but your thinking about getting spanked by your bestie opens a whole new dynamic to this. I'll have to think more about what may suit your desires. But I still think there is a good chance that she wants to get spanked by your Mom and doesn't know how to ask for it! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:37:07 05/12/26 Tue Therefore, it would be good if you were surprised by Elsie's mum... with all the consequences. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Missy to Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:16:48 05/13/26 Wed Hi Elsie I have the perfect response next time Bestie says something about the cutting board. Just say "stop that! I know you are just trying to get me spanked so you can watch! I can tell that you wanted to have it used on you sometime and if you keep that up Mom is going to do just that!" Mom will probably ask her if that is true and when Bestie protests you can say to her that you and I both know that! BTW - Don’t lie unless you want another spanking!! Just use innuendos! Good luck! Missy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:09:10 05/12/26 Tue That's the thing about fetishes. You can get turned on by things that scare you, embarrass you, or don't even fit who you are as a person. It's a push and pull of something that both repels and attracts. It can be dangerous, because you don't really know what you will feel like if and when it actually happens. But nothing ventured, nothing gained. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:54:19 05/14/26 Thu Yeah. I found out that I really don't like spankings. I do kind of like how your butt is kind of hot and sore sometime after and if it's a really bad one, the next day your butt is kind of sore. I kind of get tingles from it. I do love the way the dynamics have kind of changed between me and my mom. She's always been kind of strict, but there were no really clear consequences. I love knowing that if I misbehave or get carried away I will not like the consequences. I think I'm less likely to get fooled or badly influenced by people. I think that now I can be more open with my mom. So overall I'm glad I did it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:42:46 05/14/26 Thu I had another friend over the other day. We have a final today (that I'm unfortunately not real well prepared for) and we were studying for it at the kitchen table. I had meant for her to sit at the other end of the table so she wouldn't see the paddle but I was too late. I noticed she kept looking at it and I noticed that she'd kind of squirm when she did. I don't know if it had any connection, but maybe her mom has one similar. She might not have even noticed, but it's pretty obvious that it's not used for cooking. So Missy, I took your advice from a while ago and said to my mom "I think she's asking for it." It kind of backfired because my mom said "I think YOU'RE asking for it." and then I got a lecture about my attitude. So thanks a lot. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:29:27 05/14/26 Thu Hi Elsie, I really like to read you very mich and I really want to help you. Why don't you just talk openly with your best friend: what exactly she wants and how, and that you'd be happy to make it happen. Even if she just wants to spank you with that paddle. Are you as brave and open with your friend as you are with your mom? Then you'll definitely have a great experience together. Good luck and have fun! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:54:57 05/14/26 Thu So, this other friend of mine, she's not a close friend, I don't really know her that well, we were just studying because we've got the same class. She's a real geek and awkward like me, but we've never really talked too much. I have to admit I didn't ace it, but after class we waited for our grades. She came up to me all excited and said "I'm so glad I aced that test! My mom would KILL ME if I got anything below a C." My first thought was a C? Then she took my phone and put her number in and said "Keep in touch ok? I'll see you in September ok?" Then she hugged me. So here's what I'm thinking and I may be way off base. I think her mom spanks her and that's why she kept looking at the paddle and she knows my mom uses it to spank me. 'My mom would kill me' could mean a lot of things. It could mean she would ground her, it could mean she will yell at me, it could mean she will be disappointed in me, it could mean she'll give me the stink eye, but I think she saw the paddle and she wants to open up to someone who understands. She can't just come right out and say "I know your mom spanks you and I get spanked too." I may be reading way more into this. I hope I'm right. Maybe she'll tell me about it if she gets spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:02:36 05/14/26 Thu So it would really do you good to talk openly with your girlfriend about the fact that you get spanked when and because it's necessary. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:05:10 05/15/26 Fri Got a message from her this morning like this "Getting all settled in. Nice to be back home. Hey, thanks for inviting me over to study in your kitchen. I'm glad we finally got together. I've always liked you from afar. I always thought we had a connection and now I'm sure of it. I hope we can get together more next year. My mom said we are going to have a long talk about freshman year this weekend. How are things with you? I hope we stay in touch over the summer and I hope we get together more next year. Good clean fun. I think our moms would get along real well too. Hope you reply." In a way I'm like woah, too fast. but I've always kind of liked her too, from afar. I'm sure in this message she's saying she knows what the paddle is for and her mom has one too. No way am I going to tell her I'm new to this and it was MY idea. What do you think? Am I way off on this and reading things into this? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: dad [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:43:20 05/15/26 Fri I think you're right and you should tell her directly and discuss with her what you both deserve and need with the paddle. But you can also ask to your mum what scheint thinks about it and perhaps she will talk to her mother... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:13:40 05/15/26 Fri First, tell her what the paddle in the kitchen is for... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Collette [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:36:50 05/15/26 Fri I recently picked up my sister from a party. Bunch of screaming, giggling stupid prepubescent girls. Just in the door was this little foyer or mudd room or whatever and a divider to the living room. On a ledge on the divider was a hairbrush. I don't know if it makes any difference, but they were an Asian family. From what I could see it was one of those houses where nothing is out of place. That hairbrush (btw, no hairs in the bristles, bristles were very smooth and untouched) was DEFINITELY out of place. So, I'm assuming that that paddle as you described and the picture you provided is DEFINITELY out of place hanging on the wall of the kitchen. I'm sure your friend noticed that. She may have watched you sit in class after a recent paddling and being very familiar with having a roasted butt knows what to look for. She may have listened to things you said. There are certain things you say and ways to say them that indicate you have a secret and may (even subconsciously) want to let that secret out. She probably does the same thing. Putting 2 and 2 together she concluded that your mom spanks you. You watched her stare uneasily at that paddle and even squirm in her seat. "My mom would kill me" is not something a college freshman would openly say to a casual friend unless she's giving clues. And to suddenly be hugging a virtual stranger and texting you indicates that she feels a kinship with you. Especially the text she sent, telling you she feels a 'connection' with you and telling you that she and her mom are going to have 'a long talk'. She's making an admission and hoping you will just come out and say "My mom spanks me." And why on earth would she say your moms would get along? Also, I hope this doesn't make you cringe but I'm pretty certain she has had a crush on you all semester. As for your bestie. I don't think she wants your mom to spank her. She might be curious about what it's like to get spanked, but I think moreso she just delights in you getting your butt beat. She likes to tease you and whether or not it's sexual, she gets off on it. It's like that strange curiosity we have when someone is in trouble. We secretly like it, although we feel compassion. Does your friend or bestie know that YOU initiated this arrangement with your mom? I've got to tell you that took guts. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What happened today Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:24:51 05/16/26 Sat I totally get this. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]