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Subject: So embarrassed it happened... Author: Mélissandre [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:12:00 03/27/23 Mon I really am so ashamed about what happened that weekend. I didnt want to talk about it to anybody.. But i feel so embarrassed i cant keep it for myself anymore.. I dont look for advices, help or so, just a good ear, and it's easier on the internet. For those who dont know, i'm 25 yo from France, but still live at my parents home, with their rules etc... I've been grounded a few times during the past few months, have been threatened of more "serious" discipline but you know it's like the Loch Ness monster, you dont know if it really exist if you didnt see it. So to make the story short, yes i have been in trouble this weekend. It began with curfew violation.. I mean on satursday evening i went to the cinema with my fiance and we went to the restaurant after.. Then it was midnight, time for me to be at home but i wanted to enjoy a little more and we walk like an hour outside. Then i go home, all the lights were off so i didnt do any noise.. I think everything was ok, but the next morning mom told me i was in trouble because of yesterday.. Then we got a big huge fight and i said very bad words to her, and i finally slammed the door and ran outside in the town.. I also turned my phone off.. When i turned it on there were 17 (i remember the exact number) missed call... I keep time to calm down and came back to home. I thought my parents would be furious but there were very calm. I remember they first ask me quietly if i calmed down... But they also said i exceeded the limits this time so i'ld get the discipline they threatened me for a while.. I was asked to go to my room, with jeans and panties down.. Then what i feared the most happened. Dad came with the martinet and asked me to stand with hands on the wall, like i used to do when i was a teen... Then the first lashe came.. The first thing which came on my mind was i definitly couldnt remember it whipped that bad.. The second thing was i couldnt get more than that.. The third thing.. there was no third thing as the second swat came. By the third one i wasnt a 25 yo woman anymore but a little 12 yo girl who coundt fight it anymore ... I totally get like 10 strokes that way... Then i stayed in my room all the day, i couldnt face anyone after that ... Now life has to start again, but i feel like so embarassed of what happened, like i dont think anyone my age who has lived that... Hope it will make me feel better to have confessed that.. Mel. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: So it happened... Author: Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:22:03 03/28/23 Tue I'm glad you took the courage, to type your story. How does it feel now; in your heart, mind, and bottom. Now that some times has passed. Please answer back soon. We are all here for you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: So it happened... Author: Mélissandre to Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:49:26 03/28/23 Tue Thanks Mandy for what you said .. My bottom is still sensitive but nothing compared with what it was after it. My heart and mind are ok, but still cant believe and am so shameful having got it at my age... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: So it happened... Author: Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:42:33 03/28/23 Tue Well trust me; your not the first.(&) But by no means, are too old; for a much needed spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: So it happened... Author: Mélissandre to Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:47:30 03/29/23 Wed Thanks Mandy. Do you know poeple my age (or not much younger) getting that too ? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: So it happened... Author: Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:19:34 03/29/23 Wed Yes several. But mostly with paddles, & rods/canes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: So it happened... Author: Mélissandre to Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:40:28 04/01/23 Sat I think the use of this or that implement is more a cultural thing ! Who are those "several" poeple you know for you ? Mel [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: So embarrassed it happened... Author: Just a mom (you should be) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:22:07 03/29/23 Wed Dear Melisandre You should'nt be emabarrased for you were spanked, but of what you did to deserve it. Personally I don't like this martinet you mention, but if you were my daughter I would have put you over my knees for a good hand spanking and maybe you have tasted the hairbrush too. No mater you age of course. Btw, I would have pulled down your pants and panties myself to increase the embarrassment you are talking about. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: So embarrassed it happened... Author: Mélissandre to "just a mom" [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:52:40 03/29/23 Wed Hi "Mom", Yes what i did wasnt good, but i assume everyone can make mistakes .. Byw , why you said you "dont like" the martinet i mentionned ? You said you are a mom, how old are your children ? Mel [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: So embarrassed it happened... Author: Just a mom (to Mel) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:13:48 03/30/23 Thu Hi Mel I agree that everyone can make mistakes, that is why some spanking from mother (or father) are good and will help you to not forget them. I don't like martinet because I rather prefer the direct contact between mother and daughter. The over the knee position is preferable even though you are not a child, and the hand spanking causes sting enough and will mantain heat in your bottom some time for you to think in these mistakes. Maybe a few slaps with the hairbrush are adecuate for a grown girl to complete your punishment, and some corner time to complete the embarrasement you deserves. I have two daughters 12 and 16 It's a pleasure talking to you. Are you from french? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: So embarrassed it happened... Author: Mélissandre to Just a mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:43:19 04/01/23 Sat Hi, Yes i'm from france ! ANd i assume your daughters get it the way you described. How often is it for then ? Up tu which age you got it when you were younger ? Mel [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: So embarrassed it happened... Author: Just a mom (to Mel) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:28:41 04/01/23 Sat Mel, my daughters get the spankings in that way: over the knee, with my hand, sometimes my hairbrush and or slipper, and they have to spend time facing wall or in the corner after and before spankings. How often? Sometimes they receive two or tree in a month and sometimes two months go by without receiving any. Of course it depends on their behavior. Personally I received the last spanking at the age of 23. I can speak french if you prefer [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: So embarrassed it happened... Author: Mélissandre to Just a mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:14:38 04/01/23 Sat Hello, Yes it makes sense with your daughters. Thanskfully i dont have corner time thing here. How long is it before and after for them ? Well so we can call it once a month average .. Oh 23yo was quite old too ... Was is done the same way ? Vous pouvez parler en français oui, mais je pense que c'est préférable que l'on reste en anglais car c'est un forum destiné aux anglophones avant tout.. Mel [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: So embarrassed it happened... Author: Just a mom (To Mel) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:31:38 04/02/23 Sun Melissandre, thanks for your answer. In your case, how often do you get spanked? Is it always your dad who does it or is it sometimes your mom? I've seen that martinet is a frequent instrument in France, and I wonder if you are left with a lot of stinging afterwards. Have you ever spanked by hand? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]