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Subject: Re: Dealing with creepy people


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Sonya
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Date Posted: 19:01:04 03/12/25 Wed
In reply to: Melissa 's message, "Re: Dealing with creepy people" on 09:43:14 03/12/25 Wed

Sweetie, that is terrible. I can't believe that your parents would punish you to keep a "family secret". I know it has happened to many families, and do know some people that have had family scandals like that, but it's just so wrong and there is no defense for it. I hope he eventually got what he had coming to him.

In my case, it wasn't family, it was one of those "boys will be boys" situations. I was an early bloomer. My breasts started developing at nine and it got me a lot of attention at an early age. Boys would pop my bra or pinch my boobs and when the behavior was reported, I often heard the "boys will be boys excuse." There would be other boys who would smack or pinch me on the butt or pull up my dress or skirt when I would be wearing one. Again, I heard "Sonya honey, don't take it so seriously, boys will be boys." After talking to the school and getting no support, my Parents sat me down and told me "Baby Girl, you don't have to put up with this. Next time some boy puts his hand on you, you beat the daylights out of him." It wasn't but a few days later when push came to shove with one of the bullies. He came up to me and grabbed my breast squeezing it hard and twisting it yelling "Titty Twister". I screamed out loud and it got the teacher's attention. But before she could say anything to stop him, I punched him square in the face. Even though he was a little bigger than me, I laid him out then got on top of him beating him up. We both got taken to the office and were both paddled. My folks had a meeting with the Principal the next day. When word got around about what I did to him, that was one bully who kept his hands to himself. No I didn't get punished at home for that one.

There were other boys who were giving me attention I didn't like, but that was when Mark and I started going together and he put a stop to it.

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Re: Dealing with creepy peopleJim W to Sonya23:45:33 03/12/25 Wed


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