| Subject: How did spanking come up between you and your significant other? |
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Anna
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Date Posted: 06:13:54 01/04/26 Sun
Hello, one topic I am very interested in is how did the topic of discipline and spanking get discussed the first time between you and your husband, wife, or significant other?
For me, I knew having a kind, but no-nonsense/somewhat dominant guy, who sometimes gave me good spankings if I was bitchy or nagged would be the only kind of marriage that would succeed. Guys my own age were just never mature enough to trust with telling this. When I met husband, who is almost ten years older than me, he was much more mature, and self confident than "boys" my own age. He was old fashioned l, polite, and liked to hold doors for me and pay for dates. When we argued, if it needed to end, he would lower his voice and give me "the look," so I knew he was able to use some dominance, but in a caring way.
However, when it was clear he soon may propose to be married, I still needed to tell him about my need for spankings. When I finally was brave enough to tell him, he was polite, but not eager to think about causing me pain. We continued to talk a lot about it. I sent him videos of spankings that looked very realistic, and also web sites about domestic discipline. Eventually the first spanking happened. While it was not the best one, it did sting me good, and he continued to learn. I now think my husband is an expert, so much that when I get spanking ls now, I am on my best behavior for months. When we first started out with domestic discipline, spankings happened maybe six times per year, now it is just two or three.
The rest could be many topics for later, but I would love to hear how others had these first very intimate discussions about spanking.
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