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Subject: Re: My wife and I practice DD


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Dean
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Date Posted: 10:38:17 04/06/26 Mon
In reply to: Scott 's message, "Re: My wife and I practice DD" on 13:29:48 04/05/26 Sun
 What you describe is what I like to think of as DD. It seems there are two different kinds of DD. One is like non-sexual parental discipline. Spanking is strictly a punishment, and it has the effect of actual punishment. Nobody wants a spanking, and that makes it effective as discipline.

The other kind is also discipline, but it is sexual. If the behavior is fine, desires are left unfulfilled when spanking is not needed. The solution is spankings that are not really discipline. In that kind of DD, the purpose of spanking gets confusing to me and, when real punishment is required, it can lose much of its potency.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that, for me, it is the idea of disciplinary spanking that is exciting because the actuality of it is just punishment. If the couple both feel this way, then the sexual relationship is enhanced. There just needs to be some time between punishment and pleasure so they are experienced as two separate events, and also the sexual relationship can still be expressed without the constant need for spanking as sexual foreplay.
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