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Subject: My Story


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David
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Date Posted: 16:59:58 04/15/26 Wed
 My name is David and I am a white guy from the Midwest. During my mid-20’s at a large university I met a fellow graduate student beautiful girl from India, Sari, and we got together. In her culture women are expected to run the home. Delightfully, our sex life included impact play which we both enjoyed.
After we got married, there were a series of small everyday irritations. At some point she said, “I really wish I could spank you hard the way my mother used to spank me.” I responded, “Well, I wasn’t spanked growing up but believe me, you often make me feel the same way.”
So we reached a deal. We set forth a series of rules for each of us. Then we meet once a week to see if there have been any violations, or if any rules need to be added. If warranted, and this has actually been happening less and less over the years, we schedule a punishment session or two.
We try to keep the ritual for those the same regardless of who is doing the spanking. The one to be punished wears a bathrobe with nothing underneath. And carries in a pair of tight boxers. (S)he is told to remove the bathrobe and gets warmed up by hand OTK. Then (s)he is told to assume whatever position the punisher orders and (s)he uses as many implements and for as long and hard as desired.
Fortunately, because of our experience with erotic play (which continues) each of us has pretty good insights into the other’s limits and emotional reactions and is willing to trust the other person to do the right thing in the punishment context.
When the punishment session is over, the punished one is told to pull on the briefs and the bathrobe. We hug. The slate is wiped clean. And we move on, often together to the shower.
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Re: My StoryTim18:46:57 04/15/26 Wed
Re: My StoryKevtoDavid20:11:55 04/15/26 Wed

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