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Subject: thoughts for hua

Author:
mun

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Date Posted: 05:41:48 10/27/04 Wed

dear dear

you may feel that your family is abit dysfunctional and is not like how the ideal family is like. true, it may not be such a rosy situation as how the rest of us are with our family.

like jy who is v close to her family. i am sort of close to my mum but i dun tell her mimi, not like jy who can confide in her mum in almost everything. there r so many people out there who do not enjoy a close relationship with their parents.

u may feel that your family do not support u emotionally or financially. but then, who is the one who see that you receive a proper education? emmm i dunno if u paid your nus sch fees with cpf or wat but most prob, your parents r working hard to support yr education.

i do agree tat your mum is abit extreme when it comes to your sis but tat doesnt mean tat she dun care about you at all.

your family can become your pillar of support though u might not see the possibility of it happening in the near future. but when crisis really happens, your family is the only people who wont leave you.

saddening view. to me, friends are undeniably a great source of support. but the pragmatic side of me tells me tat u cant really rely on your friends thoroughly. they have their own lives n families. at the end of the day, only your own family will be the remaining ones standing beside you thru thick n thin.

hua, i tink i can safely say tat i understand how u feel with all that conflicts in your family. but pls pls dun give up on them. they r still your pillars of support in life, juz tat they show in different manners.

i may not go to my family when i encountered relationship problems or when i juz feel down. but i do noe one thing for sure. i can always fall back on them if i want to open my hearts to them.

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