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Date Posted: 22:50:57 11/28/01 Wed
Author: Michelle
Author Host/IP: 216.40.136.2
Subject: Re: Why should I care anymore
In reply to: leslie 's message, "Why should I care anymore" on 22:39:32 11/28/01 Wed

Hi Leslie....I care. It breaks my heart to hear of your story. Are you on any medication right now??? Therapy is very helpful as well....but if you are not on meds, please see your family doctor or pdoc, and tell him what is going on with you. Thoughts of suicide are serious, and with some help you can get on the right path again.

I am sorry that you cannot have children. I doubt that you are deformed...something just isn't right for having kids.
I can't have any more kids either. I do have a daughter who is 13, and I lost one (a daughter) in 1998. I can't carry for a couple of reasons...one is my medication, and two is my uterus. I guess I have come to grips with it...but it still hurts..so I know somewhat of what you are going through. I will tell you what everyone else has probably told you....you can adopt a child. Many children are in need of homes. Medical intervention can happen as well, depending on what is wrong. So please don't give up..or give up on yourself.

I also feel like God turned his back on me. I'm not a religious person, but I do believe in God. I have raged at him more than enough times, and I get no confirmation good or bad. That is a struggle that I continue to deal with.

If you need to talk, please do so. People here are great, and I check in occasionally as well. I left my email address if you want to talk.

Take care, and welcome...

Michelle

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