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Date Posted: 13:50:34 12/29/01 Sat
Author: Michelle
Author Host/IP: 216.40.138.163
Subject: Rhonda

Hi Rhonda...I'm sorry you are feeling poorly...please take it a day at a time and hopefully things will look better.
I did have a question for you...Every August I think of you, and how you are doing during the anniversary date..

Does Lorne give you the room to grieve about Lynn?? Does he let you grieve or try to shut you down?? I just wondered..
My husband shuts me down all the time. I had a miscarriage in 98, and every Christmas, I have a very hard time. Yesterday, I finally had the guts to ask the doctor what the pathology report said. Up until this point, I didn't want to know. I didn't want to know sex, age, any of that.
Well the report said that it was a blighted ovum, and it would have never gone to term. It was inevitable that I would miscarry. In some ways, it was a relief...I didn't do anything to cause it. But my husband doesn't want to talk about it...my mother doesn't want to talk about it...I should have "been over it" years ago. I don't know what to think anymore. I am grieving all over again, and kicking myself for putting myself through hell for 2.5 years.

I just wondered if Lorne gave you the room to work your grief through...cause not having that room makes life miserable..

Thanks for listening.

Love, Mikki

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