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Subject: 我的討論點


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Date Posted: 09:32:46 01/15/04 Thu
In reply to: Hate it 's message, "You can't justify" on 11:07:27 01/13/04 Tue

我的討論點是人應否在已經有伴侶下,再有第二個第三個情人等,我想辨清自由的觀點,如果你有第一間屋,之後你想再買第二至第十間,又或者你已經有平治,之後想買富豪、寶馬、法拉利,去買吧!每個人都有這個自由。但若然有第一個女朋友,之後想有第二第三個,我覺得說到底是想滿足一個人的貪欲而已,與自由與否無涉,但人可以擁有十間八間屋,十部八部車子,因為它們是死物,它們之間不會爭風吃醋、沒有感受、沒有自尊、也不會覺得受傷害,但人郤有感情的,所謂己所不欲勿施於人,若同樣不幸的事發生在自己身上,自己都覺得吃得消,覺得很好的話,才去做吧。

同情戀被視為禁忌的觀念始自聖經,不自然的說法,可以說是聖經對西方人的影響,又西方人對現今幾乎全盤西化的現代世界的影響,故不可以概括成所有文化對同性戀的觀點。例如在古希臘、羅馬等地有一段時間,是崇尚同性戀的,認為是高崇的感情,而古代中國男風亦盛,不單野史有載,連明代以後興起的文學小說,也有類似內容,而且寫得像民風習慣一般。事實上在自然界有很廣泛的同性戀行為,令當初發現動物有同性戀行為的科學家不敢公開所發現的,認為是對創造萬物的神有所不敬。然而每一種觀點都有其發展的過程,例如日本的武士道精神,原來是發展自佛教的禪宗思想,當然後來結合了愛國主義,變成發動戰爭的動力,所以我們不妨辨清一種觀念,一種思想是怎麼來的。

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[> Subject: 你是否不滿你的partner對你不忠,所以想找藉口對她不忠? 其實你若是專一的,你可以堅持到抵.你若非專一的,你可以勇敢承認. 是否有點迷失? 試試不沉迷,不貪戀,不欺騙(自己),也許會"發現"自己.


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Date Posted: 11:03:32 01/15/04 Thu


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[> [> Subject: 是否搭上別人就叫"不忠"?或者自以為很愛一個人又霸著她,要全部擁有她更恐怖吧?你真的專一嗎?當你對她沒有不忠,你又有否不忠於自己來生活?你可以勇敢承認. 是否有點迷失? 試試不沉迷,不自義,不欺騙(自己),也許會"發現"自己.


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Date Posted: 01:40:06 01/17/04 Sat


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[> [> [> Subject: *不忠=不忠實,不忠誠* 沒有partner而搭上別人就不叫不忠. 有partner而又向partner透露已搭上別人,也不算不忠. "很愛一個人又霸著她,要全部擁有她"我沒有霸或被霸的經驗,所以不知"恐怖"是否一個appropriate adjective. 我有真的專一的經驗,也有真的不專一的經驗. 我沒有不忠於自己來生活. 我又沒有不承認. 現在沒有感覺迷失. 已經不沉迷,也不欺騙自己. & i've just discovered myself. & u?


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Date Posted: 04:26:55 01/17/04 Sat


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[> [> [> [> Subject: 尊重對方的同時,其實是對自我的肯定,有足夠自信的人,不會在兩人之間的差異點上大作文章.


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Date Posted: 11:18:33 01/17/04 Sat


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