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Date Posted: 15:05:45 09/20/09 Sun
Author: Ani
Subject: Re: Believe it or not!
In reply to: Edie 's message, "Re: Believe it or not!" on 04:32:47 09/20/09 Sun

Welcome Edie,

In answer to your questions, late as they are as I was waiting for a call from Mon this evening to discuss this further.
It was discussed briefly to start with but yes it was street wear. Dark tracksuit pants with a white stripe. Perhaps The Geelong Cat's colours. Lol. 'Go Cats' this weekend and I'm looking forward to that game. Blue T shirt which was exposed due to the bubbling spa. The spa fits 8 people wearing normal swimming attire so this would have been a fairly obvious diversion from the what we consider regular bathing suits or DOOKERS as Dave fondly calls them. A heavy material and not a light swimsuit fabric which would have been very cumbersome on her face. The comments from others were more that they felt sad that she had to sit like that. Warm, steamy and fully clothed, face and all. However, I pointed out to Mon that it's a choice she made, she doesn't have to wear it.

My initial comment was that I wouldn't be in spa with all those people anyway and no amount of chlorine would ever be enough to convince me that it's clean. It's not the men in the spa, I just don't like sharing, germs or anything else. lol When my other friends with the Bed and Breakfast caught a couple having sex in their spa, that did it for me. Never been in one since.

The comments from the other parties in the spa were that they thought the husband wasn't just keeping an eye on his wife!! Now I'm no spring chicken and neither is Monica but so we figure by now we know the difference between a normal glance and ogling.

You asked if a Western Man watching his wife would make Monica feel uncomfortable? She'd be fine if he was watching his wife but this man made it obvious that he wasn't. I put it to her that he could have been just watching, perhaps never having been in a spa, looking or ogling and her answer was that he was ogling. To such an extent that Monica went back to the pool.

When I stated that Monica is voluptuous, she's 61, fair complexion and hair. Tanned and healthy looking as she just got back from 5 weeks 'camping' in WA so looks good presently. (Obviously) She looks and sounds just like your average Austrian woman does. She's no mermaid though and when we go out on Wednesdays she never attracts unwanted attention, it's not her style. Maybe some women thrive on that but she's a Oma with 4 grandkids and happy with her lot.

You also asked if other partners stand around watching or looking and the answer to that is also no.

Monica says she would have been happy if he was in the spa and sitting with his wife, and not looking straight at her the whole time. I think there comes a time in our lives when we know a glance from and ogle. Well I think I do and if a man was staring at me for about 10 minutes straight I'd probably leave the spa as well. Muslim or Western, I'd just move.
I have trouble making eye contact with guys as they appear to be talking to my breasts. I'm not huge but it's so obvious at times.
I watch that T shirts aren't too clingy or revealing. It's a fact that some men ogle.

Knowing Monica for over 30 years I know she's not racist. Like myself, doesn't HATE Muslims. She does voluntary work for a charity 3 days a week and minds her grandkids every chance she gets. Most of this voluntary work is sorting out clothing for, wait for it.... MUSLIMS and Sudanese families.

No doubt we will have a 'Saint Monica' comment but I actually think she's almost there.

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Replies:

Re: Believe it or not! -- Edie, 00:37:01 09/21/09 Mon
- Re: Believe it or not! -- Ani, 01:52:33 09/21/09 Mon
  - Re: Believe it or not! -- Edie, 08:04:45 09/21/09 Mon
    - Re: Believe it or not! -- Ani, 09:46:54 09/21/09 Mon