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Subject: Re: Dyslexia Author: pete [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 22:15:56 04/29/11 Fri In reply to: Juliette 's message, "Dyslexia" on 03:58:55 08/07/10 Sat Sometimes this is not understanding what is required of him. I had to learn this - how strange is this I think to myself. It could be he has nothing to say. Remember he is a male and not a female. Females are far better in socialising than males. males are often loners (males together is one up man ship - I am better than you), and if one can't compete then one stays alone a lot of the time. This is dyslexia and it isn't. Because of problems with using words and thinking with short term memory loss one cannot perform with guys very well, as a guy. Once guys think you are not as good or quick as them then the bullying starts, better to stay alone. It would be better if you asked him if he could respond to your message even with one word. Also he might not want to write as it would give the game away that he wasn't as good as you and therefore you would reject him.Not everybody is understanding most are very cruel. Females are better than males for understanding but some are into the male one up man ship as well. Building trust is important for this one. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Dyslexia Author: Kathleen [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:32:56 09/03/11 Sat I am hesitant to type stuff to certain people to. I am very self conshus(sp) about my spelling and the way I put sentences together. I am much more willing when I know the other person or group of people im writing to are understanding and wont judge me when i mess up and spell something wrong or mix things up in a word and dont see it until days for some times hours later. I switch things around all the time even when I know how to spell it for sure. Like the word "from and Form" or "The and het" I know i dont tell alot of people that I am Dyslexic. Some people figure it out and if they ask I tell them that iam dyslexic. I know how he feels and the best thing for you to do is to be patient and show him htat you dont care that he is dyslexic. I usually feel better wrtitng/typing after i know they will handle it okay and not make fun of me for making mistakes.