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Subject: Strephosymbolia / Daltonism


Author:
Stephen D Waner (seeking other with simalar vision)
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Date Posted: 13:38:44 10/06/07 Sat

i am doing a study of a rare dysorder of vision which at this point in time N O R D informs me that i may be one of a kind as the reports from the Dean McGee eye Institute prove that my penmanship is normal in appearance only if viewed in a mirror, my doctor had diagnosed my combined visual conditions as strephosymbolia with Daltonism / reading and writeing from right to left of the entire page and precieving colors in the contrast negative color blindness, i am not to sure about the Daltonism as others having it but the mirror image writeing is my main interest
also please keep in mind that these are the results of a TBI head injury as they are not conditions of birth. please RSVP to swaner1@cox.net central standard time.
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Subject: Universities for Dyslexic Students


Author:
Donna Campbell
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Date Posted: 15:55:54 11/30/07 Fri

Our son is 22 years old and has just been diagnosed with Dyslexia. We had had him tested when he was in seventh grade because we believed he had a reading disability. Unfortunately, those tests weren't comprehensive enough, as they didn't examine his reading processing and attention capabilities. The most recent tests were more comprehensive and indicate he has a significant Dyslexia challenge.

Because he wasn't diagnosed during his formative years, he didn't get the help he needed, and performed poorly in school. His SAT and ACT scores were also very low. He entered a community college because he couldn't meet admission requirements anywhere else. He continued to do poorly in college and we recently decided to get him retested for a reading disorder, resulting in the diagnosis of Dyslexia.

He very much wants to get a college degree. We see that many schools will provide additional support for learning disabled students as required by the ADA, but it appears that the students must achieve the admission requirements before they can have access to the programs. We are looking for advice as to next steps for him. Are there universities which waive admission requirements for students with learning disabilities? Are there university level reading courses or programs to help students with Dyslexia? We're not sure where to start to help our son achieve his goals. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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Subject: As we age - does it get worse


Author:
Ellanorah
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Date Posted: 05:11:24 10/15/07 Mon

I was "found out" very early; at about age 4 in 1962. I was part of an experimental group that they developed dyslexia programs with. I have functioned pretty well, thanks to my family working with me as much or more than anyone else. I am now 49 and for the last 8-10 years I have found my "symptoms" reverting back or getting worse. Has anyone else experienced this? Is it the age thing, stress or just normal to wear down and revert at time? Does anyone have an answer??
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Subject: Help for Dyslexic in Tampa Bay Area


Author:
Cindy Wilk (Helpful)
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Date Posted: 12:16:24 12/10/07 Mon

I own a small clerical service from my home. I am currently transcribing an adult man's writing. He has Dyslexia and wants to be an author. He has trouble with typing, spelling, and numbers.

If anyone would like notes, letters written, charts made, dictations transcribed. Christmas cards sent, help with sending packages, etc. I would love to help you.

I charge $13.00 hr plus any materials.
Subject: Just graduated university!!!


Author:
Stefanie
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Date Posted: 08:38:13 12/03/07 Mon

Hya. Just just found this discussion forum after reading the newsletters for 6 months!
Just wanted to let people who have just been diagnosed as dyslexic that its not the end of the world, just the begining of a very exciting new chapter. I went though school thinking, and being told, that i was thick. I always knew that i wasnt just couldnt get the rite words out quick enough in conversation to sound intellegent, well thats my theory anyway... My spelling was always poor however my reading was good but i did tend to skip pages to the intresting parts, well doesnt everyone??? I left school with GCSE results all below grade D apart from Drama which was an A. Floated between admin jobs for a couple of years before having a child and deciding that i wanted to forge a career for myself and be someone my daughter could aspire to be. I applied to college and did an access to nursing for a year which was a struggle before finally applieing to university. I did my first exam and got a result of 92%.The problems really started when i got my first assignment. Reading, writing, spelling, doom,doom,doom!!!! I handed in my draft to be assessed and was called to see my personal tutor 1 wk later. To cut a long story short she refered me for a dyslexia assessment, and the the rest they say is history... I was diagnosed as having dyspraxia, and moderate dyslexia. I was then given software, written help, and was able to do my exams on computers. I practically flew through my three years at uni, acheiving on average 70% and never failing a thing. I have now qualified and have just started a wonderful job, in the intensive care unit. My friend dyslexia really helps me as it enables me to think holistically for my patient and my inquisitive personality ensures that i am always upto date in the evidence based paractice methods used to care for my pateients ( another feature of dyslexia!!!) The moral of this is that anything is possible with the right support.

Stefxxx
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Subject: What causes your dyslexia


Author:
Graeme Wadlow
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Date Posted: 09:27:56 12/05/07 Wed

HI All

Dyslexia is about having problems accessing a secondary man made communication system, The visual notation of speech, which in the culture of the users of this message board is called the written word or text.
Each culture has its own structures and variations of speech or vocal language, and to ad to the complexities each culture has its own variations of visual notation of their speech. Theose in the cultures who can easily access this message board have a visual notation of speech based on a phonics system of sounds represented by single visual marks, which require blending to create a complete word, other cultures have a single character to represent complete words. So to have a universal definition of dyslexia would have to include the problems faced by those in each culture with their version of the visual notation of speech.

The measures used to diagnose dyslexia are educational, but most of the causes have a medical origin. The sensory and motor processing deficits or disorders, and for some it could be a conflicting learning style.

So the real question is to discover the underlying issues that cause you to be dyslexic, which could have a clinical or medical origin, and have far more other problems than just dyslexia, having problems with reading writing and spelling.
Once you have identified the underlying causes of dyslexia it it then possible to define the best coping strategies, based on this information, and select the most suitable support programs for your dyslexic issues. And this means you can ask the program provider if their program helps your specific set of underlying problems before paying out to buy their products.
I am lucky in that i now know waht the underlying cause of my dyslexia is. It took 5 years of researcvh after my initial diagnosis of dyslexia to find out that Auditory Processing Disorder was the underlying cause of my dyslexic symptoms
Subject: Help for my 8 year old!! Halifax area support groups?


Author:
Helen
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Date Posted: 07:34:19 10/01/07 Mon

Hi there,

We have struggled for the past 7 years with our 8 year old son. He has had many self-control issues which we were told from day-care centres is probably ADD or ADHD or ODD...so many labels...
anyway, after changing day-care centres and private centres for years, we are now in the public school system.
We have had our 8 year old son evaluated 3 different times by 3 different professionals. We were told he did not have ADD or ADHD. We were told he was dyslexic. I (his mom) am mildly dislexic, so is his brother. (only subjectively as I have never been tested, but have read about it for years). My eldest had the classic backwards printing, etc. He is 12 and still does this. His printing is terrible and his reading is not to his grade level. He has figured out many stretgies however, so he is doing well, as long as he stays fairly organized.
My ex-hubands father and sister are more severely dyslexic.
When we were told he was dyslexic, I told his then kindergarten teacher (He is in grade 3 now). She told me that most kids at that age display some signs of dylexia.

I had no idea there were so many behavioral issues that went hand in hand with dyslexia. I feel terrible for my 8 year old son. He has such a hard time making friends. He is an A student, but his reading is slipping, he cannot tie his shoes and he cannot tell time. His short-term memory is very "short" or not there at all. He does not know his left from right and his numbers and letters continue to be written backwards (some of). He tells me he has a hard time seeing the white board at school etc. We had his eyes tested, and even put darkening shades in his room, it does not help. If he prints double spaced, he sees things better. I have read about these things.

The problem we are having is that the school wants to take him out of a lunch time and after school program. He is blammed for things that happen if he is "nearby" etc.
They want the school phsycologist to test him. The school psychologist has told the school him from the very subjective score sheet (we filled out) Conners test...that he may be ADD. They are looking to "control" his behaviour, when really they need to look at how they promt our 8 year old and their expectations with his memory etc.
I am trying to get access to an older report, where it was determined he was not ADD, but rather dyslexic, and the psychologist has retired. Now I have to find someone else privately.
Sorry, I am just very frustrated and want to help my son. He tries very hard and is so ashamed and is tired of being "pointed out". Why don't schools understand how painful this can be for a child? These kids need compassion and patience. If he had a broken leg, they would not ask him to run, so why do they expect him to be just another little soldier?
This is a learning disability. I thought the schools would be the perfect place for understanding this. I am afraid that they will go back to insisting he be medicated to stay I refused before and will again. My fesr is that he will have a quick 10 cent diagnosis. I am told I cannot be present for the evaluation. I feel like I am in this fight alone. Can anyone help me. Are there any groups I can call nearby?
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Subject: Finally!


Author:
Kari
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Date Posted: 10:55:59 11/28/07 Wed

I'm new to this hole message board stuff. But I have to write something as I've been waiting for many years for something like this.

I was always told I was a daydreamer, that I wasn't trying hard enough. I always had problems at school and was alway put in the basic/remidial groups, till one day my mom while helping with my homework noticed that I kept adding words and letter that weren't on the page while I was reading, then she tried an experiment and found that I could read backwards and through a meirrow. Subsuquently my parents fought to have me tested through my school and was dignonsed with dyslexia. This was back in the late 70's early 80's when there wasn't alot known about dyslexia. I was held back a year then put in a special class for two years, I went through social hell!! as all my "Normal" friends couldn't understand why I wasn't in a regular class like them. after two years of working my butt off I went from grade 1 comprehension to the grade 6 level as every one else my age. After that I was intergrated back into a "regular" class with specific accomodation for me. Which made me different then my classmates and opened me up to more teasing.

Now I'm a 34 year old mother of two and I work for a great company and also run a business with my husband who is also has dyslexa (not diagnosed) but you know the old saying "It takes one to know one". I am starting to have major problems at work as I'm having problems with time concepts and time management. I've always hidden my dyslexia as I didn't like how people treated me after they found out, but I felt I had no choise I had to tell my superiors out of fear of lossing my job. My family has been great as not only do I have it but my sister does as well, but even with all my families support they still don't understand me. I've done so well hiding and working around my disiability that I think my family thinks I can just snap my fingers and solve this problem too. I feel like I can't be my true self, I feel like I'm over whelmed, and traped. I want to be set free and given the freedom to let my intelegence soar. I know that I come across as a very intelegent artulate person who can handle alot but really I'm getting exhausted try to fit into the restraints of "normal" life. I truly feel like I've got this untapped ability in me and that's just screaming to come out...I just haven't found what it is yet. I need my job! I can't afford to lose my job. But at the same time I feel smoothered.

I need help to cope with this new pop-up of time issues. any advise would be great. Finaly people to talk to with like minds!
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Subject: I thought I was boderline mentally retarded, seriously!


Author:
Cindy from Texas (Hopeful)
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Date Posted: 12:47:25 06/09/07 Sat

All my life I thought I was borderline mentally retarded. I could never learn like everyone else. I always had trouble remembering things. I was felt cenile, like an airhead. funny and embarrassing! I feel like I can express myself now and be honest especially at my age 33. I'll say things like don't depend on me because I'll forget. People think I'm kidding. I'll also say write it down because in a minute or two our conversation will be nonexsistant. Nobody pays too much attention to my comments they think I exaggerate. Now I want to find ways to get into the school system and teach those children who have dyslexia so they'll never feel left out and ashamed. This has been my life long reason of hating life. I always had to leach to somebody else because I felt I wouldn't make it in this world.
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Subject: Does my daughter have dyslexia?


Author:
Nori Pino
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Date Posted: 09:13:49 10/09/07 Tue

After reading websites on the subject, I am starting to think my daughter might have dyslexia. She is 9 years old and has always struggled with Reading and reading comprehension. She studies very hard, seems to know everything before a test, then does poorly during testing. I've noticed when she reads, she loses her place many times and reads words that are not even on the page and they are words she is very familiar with. She also has trouble reading the board, even after having eyeglasses prescribed and difficulty with left & right. My question is who can help me with diagnosing her? Does health insurance cover this? Once diagnosed, what will help her deal with this condition and be successful in life? How can I help, as a parent?
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Subject: Does my child have dyslexia


Author:
Lorraine (miss mad woman)
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Date Posted: 11:21:14 11/18/07 Sun

My daughter is 5 years old and in senior infants....she is having difficulty in understanding some of her words and with writing some of her letters(writes them backwards) im worried that this is a sign of dyslexia....can you adivse me please.
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Subject: dyslexia


Author:
angel
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Date Posted: 16:58:50 11/19/07 Mon

hi i am 17 and in GED class i have had this for 9 years . i am having a lot of problms. with spelling and other stuff . i am trying to get this dun and get a good job.



thanks 4 lissing if you can help me e mall me at or have the same problem
lei_chick1990@yahoo.com
Subject: need help


Author:
craig
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Date Posted: 22:06:14 11/17/07 Sat

Hi. Im 38 and i have a few of the symtoms of dyslexia.
I get words mixed up and numbers.
sequences and maths is a problem. I dont consider myself dumb but I sure feel it sometimes.
can someone please point me in a direction to help fix this problem?
I find reading hard so looking at a website to long is a problem. i'd like some one on one or class invironment
that can help.
cheers. its good to know that theres all this help now.
craig
Subject: My Friend Needs Help At Work


Author:
Rod Moeller (Has Anyone Overcome These Condtions)
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Date Posted: 08:00:49 10/14/07 Sun

A very good friend joined me in my residential construction business a year ago. He previously managed a local General Motors sales operation for more than 20 years with more than $20 Million in annual sales. They did not want him to leave but the hours were too demanding. In response to his request to join my business, a full year before he left the GM job, I asked for his business proposal in writing so that I could contemplate, and potentially integrate his plans into my operation. My friend never produced one written word of a proposal and never projected any verbal proposal. I asked many times for his proposal always with no response. Now we're into the operation for a year and we're in trouble. My friend should be taking over important aspects of this $3.5 million dollar operation by now. But, he has difficulty finding our jobs even after he's been to them a dozen times. He can't remember the details of revamping of our policies and procedure manuals and their affects on the daily operations. He can't remeber to keep his cheat sheets with him, that guide one through the process of residential construction. He mixes up which task is first or pre-requisite to another and schedules vendors, subs, and suppliers to the jobs out of their requisite order, and that costs everyone a lot of money, and time. When he doesn't have clear and specific direction (provided by me) for the day he resorts to janitorial work to keep him busy which should be done by a sub not by a principal. He is definetly not lazy, he is a work horse which is why I thought he would excel. But he doesn't know grade school math problem solutions. IE: What is the area of the dining room floor? he doesn't know and cannot remeber to multiply the length times the width. Volume problems are even worse. He can't remeber from one day to the next how to read a measurement. Ten feet 8 and 1/2 inches written on a set of plans is 10'8 1/2" is read by him verbally to be "ten eighty one slash two" again and again, he doesn't percieve any dimension at all. We can go over it today and he will read the dimension correctly but tomorrow we're right back to mixed up numbers that don't represent any dimension. He can't read a tape measure, and can't read dimension off a set of plans after doing so now for a year every day. Reading a survey is worse.

Can anyone help me find help for my pal. I'm hoping to find a learning methodology that begins to overcome the challenges he faces above and if he can, the work horse mentality that makes up his normal demenaor should give him great success. (And send me off into retirement as I had hoped to be by now)

My pal struggles with all driving directions. We're in Florida and he's from Maryland. He says he's from "down" in Maryland, he says, "When he first came "Up" to Florida,
He can't point to the Atlantic Ocean accurately, can't point towards Canada with any confidence.

When driving he will often times stop at a stop sign and say "I need to turn left don't I? I respond yep!, and he'll say "I know that because I want to turn right so bad I can taste it," He's lived in this fairly small town for 25 years, and must rely on others for directions to everything.

If anyone else has overcome these type of symptoms would you please share your resources with me. I'd really like to help my pal get started getting over this. He's 48 years old.

Thanks in advance
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Subject: sample test questions


Author:
TERRY FRASER (confused)
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Date Posted: 12:38:56 10/14/07 Sun

Hi, I took the sample test and answered yes to almost every question, I don't believe or I am confused or denial if the answers are yes to be considered dylexic.I feel up set about this test.
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Subject: Is it dyslexia


Author:
Monica
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Date Posted: 08:12:29 11/14/07 Wed

I am 23 years old and just started expeirncing dyslexia symptoms i am going to my doctor on thursday to ask him to have me tested but my symptoms are:
-always confusing left and right
-seein numbers mixed uo
-writing few letters in reverse
-difficulty putting letters in words correctly especially when typing
-mixing cursive and print when writing(it comes so naturally to me that way)
-i transpose numbers
-i have a real hard time remembering what i read
-and some similar math symbols confuse me
-sequencing difficulties
-having problems with learning new words

now please bear in mind that 99% of these problems just started occuring in the past year after i delivered my son is it the stress or the delivery process did i bump my head old age or is it really dyslexia?
Subject: Where can I get Help


Author:
Yamilee
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Date Posted: 13:19:34 11/13/07 Tue

Hi,

I have always had problems with spelling, gramer and writing. I was told about a year ago by my sister that when I was in the 1st grade my mother was informed that I had dyslexia. I do remember going though a program and being left back. But in the 2nd grad my mother moved to Florida and all of that stopped. I haven't had any help since then. The problems have not gone away and they are really holding me back on my job. I teach high school American History. I really need to know if I have dyslexia and if I do how can I get some help. It is becoming very depressing to be a 37 year old teacher who has to produce thing with typos everywhere. Please help.
Subject: Where can a good mechanic w/ dsylexia find employment?


Author:
Ann Jones (Sad)
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Date Posted: 17:04:09 09/06/07 Thu

We recently discover that my husband could possibly be dsylexic. He is 46 years old and it took until now for us to realize there is a strong possibility. He has not had any testing to confirm this yet but from my research on the different symptoms of dyslexia, I am almost positive that this is the case. The most frustrating thing at this point is that my husband is a normal intelligent person but is unable to reach his full potential with this problem. He is one of the best mechanics around. He was employed for over 20 years as an automotive mechanic and has been laid off for the last two years. The most agonizing thing for him right now is the inability to find employment without having the ability to complete an application by himself. He is uncomfortable sharing his struggles with anyone for fear that they might judge him. He believes in working hard and taking care of his family but is unable to do that not being able to find employment because of his disability. Any suggestions??
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Subject: Re: How can I help dyslexic adult


Author:
Caddy Van Amburgh (Kind of stressed and helpless)
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Date Posted: 11:53:15 10/24/07 Wed

My wife has dyslexia.Now she is in the RN Program to become a nurse.The technical reading and the retention required is really starting to weigh on her and of course the overflow comes my way. I need some insite or ideas for a method to help her study so that her comprehension is better.Does anybody have any ideas that I might be able to work with. to help her?
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Subject: I am struggling with my study


Author:
Amelia (Sad)
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Date Posted: 09:58:34 10/17/07 Wed

Hi
Since i was a child i had problem at school, the doctor told my parents that i might be suffering from dyslexia but i never believe it since i start work. My mum told me try to have a look on the website and see if i get the same symton and i was really shock when i read it. I would like to know what i have to do next. Is there any website that i can register myself to get help?? Sometime i feel really stupid and depress please help me ??
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Subject: Looking for some answers, please help!!


Author:
Nikki
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Date Posted: 23:29:40 11/07/07 Wed

I was diagnosed with dyslexia as a child (80's) In my case, it centered around gross motor skills, telling time, tying shoes and math. I was unaffected in the reading, writing, and speaking areas. In my late 20's my math skills seemed to improve. Now I'm 35, and in the past 6 months I have started having major problems with speaking, such as saying one thing but mean another, using the wrong word, and so on. I notice this also in my writing. So far reading seems unaffected. Is this my dyslexia coming back in another form and why? I've had to check several of my words here because I started to write the wrong thing. I've gotten freaked out thinking I have a brain tumour or something worse, but are these things dyslexia realated? Am I having a nervous breakdown? (I do have an extreme amt of stress in my life)I'm really scared about this. I keep telling hubby that one day I'm going to be a bumbling senseless fool. I don't know what to do or where I should go, but this is really bothering me. If someone could help that would be great. thank you.
Subject: Software for grammer checking


Author:
Chris
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Date Posted: 17:44:35 10/31/07 Wed

I have suffered with dyslexia my whole life but recently I have had more and more trouble with correct grammer with e-mails and other electronic means of writing. Spell/grammer checking helps but does not identified correctly spelled word that are not used correctly such as roll vs role, their vs there, to vs. too, ect... Does anyone know of software that I can cut and past the body of an e-mail into an application that can give advise/suggestions as to how I am writing a sentence or the use of the correct sentance structure?
Subject: feel less alone? i need to a local class or a suport group.


Author:
Noodle_noggin (confused)
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Date Posted: 16:10:24 10/14/07 Sun

okay so i am 19 years old. i live with my parents. i am in special ed. i have never been diagnosed with Dyslexia. i have Depression, and ADHD. i have always struggled with reading and spelling. i am looking for a support group. or a class where i can get help with my LD.
if you know of one in MN. please email me!

youngwiser@yahoo.com

thanks!
Subject: student project


Author:
danielle farrel
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Date Posted: 11:14:38 10/09/07 Tue

hi

im a media student and as part of my course i'm doing a project on how the UK press convey those with dylexia. I would appreciate any views on this
Subject: Re: Choosing a college


Author:
Kurt
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Date Posted: 07:19:56 10/09/07 Tue

Mark

I had a similar problem when I started college back in the mid-80s. Today the ADA act of 1990 is your key to getting help I graduated from the University of Phoenix online because I had an instructor that set me down and asked me if I was dyslexic and I told him yes from that point on things changed I sit down with the counselor and got the help that I needed Phoenix purchase software for me that read my books to me textaloud is the name of the software and Dragon naturally speaking a voice recognition software that helped me write my papers. TextAloud you have to use electronic textbooks or e-books you can cut and paste the chapters into the software and it will read it for you is a really cool program. Dragon speak you have to train it takes some patience but when you have it done it works great.
Subject: Technology


Author:
Kurt Loehner (info)
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Date Posted: 06:51:27 10/09/07 Tue

I was diagnosed with dyslexia in the fourth grade. After struggling for years and years I finally finished my bachelors degree at the age of 40. Today I am a aircraft mechanic, my duties include a lot of reading and troubleshooting of aircraft systems. My problem is spelling whenever I find an issue that needs to be written down in a clear correctly spelled manner, my fourth grade anxieties is sitting in a classroom waiting to be called upon to spell something and getting laughed at comes back there are a few people that I work with know that I have dyslexia but it does not stop them from ridding me and having fun at my expense. Is there anyone out there that can give me some advice on technology such as a PDA or Franklin Word speller that can help me with my anxiety.
Subject: Re: directional disorder


Author:
idamarie craig (vindicated)
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Date Posted: 06:08:38 10/09/07 Tue

where have you guys been all my life?
I can't believe this is real. I can't believe this is a real condition. I
m not crazy. Thank you guys. I also have problems getting lost. But not with left or right. I am lefthanded and so are all four of my kids. I really appreciate this info. All my dreams are about getting lost My daughter is 32 she just found out that she is dyslexic. We probably all are.
holler back.
Subject: Reading disabilities affect ones life


Author:
Arlene allen (Lack of understanding a reading disabilities.)
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Date Posted: 17:22:46 10/07/07 Sun

Discrimation, If chid protective services enters the picture of a person with reading disabilites you are treated with disrepect because you cannot read or understand the materials handed to you! I have witness professional psychiatrist hired by this department lie under oath that this person could read the test questions when in fact I took the same test myself and the questions were similiar and worded differently! I know this person would have a difficiult time in reading these questions right The fact I witness how this person was treated by this agency, tactics used by this agency were used on me through an underhanded quick home study full of inaccuratre information! Because of not having money for a lawyer to fight for your rights as a parent you are treated unfaily as retarded and means they can feel you are not proper to raised you your own child! How inhumane can we be to let this sevice happen? Yes we can say this is not true or so there are other reasons for having a parent lose their love ones but this is one of the main reasons child protective services here in Hancock county Maine! Dyselxia reading and writing can help you lose your love one! In fact during a foster care and grandparents class this is one of the reasons quote in the material, learning disabilites along with drug used, alcoholism. Its is happening!
Subject: Advise me please.


Author:
Sheila (Very frustrated.)
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Date Posted: 07:35:43 08/21/07 Tue

My 13 year old daughter will be attending middle school this year. She has been diagnosed with dyslexia for 3 years now. I knew there was a problem when she was in first grade. I had a Neuro-Psychiatric Evaluation done on my own. I had given the report to the school and nothing was done, the only thing they gave her was more time for tests. I am so frustrated with the school system. Why does it seem like when you mention dyslexia to any teachers, they act like its taboo, and insist that she gets too much tutoring, or I do to much for her, and she should be accountable for her own actions in school??? If I didn't supply her with tutoring, she wouldn't be where she is today, don't get me wrong, she cannot spell and her reading is at a fourth grade level. Yet the school keeps sending her report cards home, with "needs more improvements" and a below average grade in reading and spelling. I have been through PET, every year, and every year, she doesnt qualify for Special Education. She has been in "reading recovery" for the past 2 years, which kept her "above" her head in reading, but still did not help her with her needs, on how to read, especially with Phonemes. I am really afraid that this year is going to be the same as all the other past years, nothing. What do I have to do to get her the help she needs? Peer presure is tough,I dont want her to fall through the cracks, which I feel she is, I just don't want to admit it. Please, anyone out there going through the same thing as myself? Advice?
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Subject: In the workplace


Author:
Nikki
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Date Posted: 03:54:45 06/18/07 Mon

Hi,

My husband has his own business (Small) and we have recently employed one of his life long friends who suffers severely from Dyslexia. We were aware of this before hiring him. We would love to give him more responsibilities but he would need to be able to correctly read a tape measure and map book before we could do so. I personally think that with a bit of help he could comfortably do these tasks. He however does not have the confidence. Does anyone have any tips on how we could help him with these tasks. Thanks for your help.
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Subject: James Nuttal (or anyone else who uses voice rec software)


Author:
Shelly
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Date Posted: 18:50:41 09/15/07 Sat

I posted a little while ago asking people about speech recognition software and i got no response then i noticed that you use it and speak about it in several of your posts, im trying to decide what to purchase, in your experience is the vista built in speech recognition good or is the dragon naturally speaking better and if so what are the advantages, thanks for being a valuable resource on these boards
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Subject: To Ann-Marie


Author:
Cath
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Date Posted: 13:51:55 10/01/07 Mon

You sound just like the type of person I'd love to employ, but unfortunately I'm across the atlantic.
Subject: Reading speeds of adult (wpm) dyslexic?


Author:
Kelly
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Date Posted: 11:16:31 10/01/07 Mon

Hi,I am a mom who is just beginning to realize that I am
dyslexic? I began to notice my son was having the same issues with reading and writing that I have. I am quite puzzled though, because I love to read(silently) hate to write : order,spelling,penmanship,grammer,are lousy. Also I am a slow writer, I justthought my brain went to fast for my hand to write it down. I can't take any notes but remember a tremendiousamount of information from the speaker. Once I see the overall concept. I just need to write down quick details.I now know it is a visual processing issue. I miss small words, exchange words, leave endings off of words, and sometimes mix up letters. (untied and united) although my comprehension seems ok in reading. My son is the same he reads on a 6th grade level (4th grader) but oral reading is a mess, comprehension is fine.
So my question is this? What is a good word per minute speed for an adult reader? I tested myself wpm 172. I looked up avg wpm for an adult is 250-350. Is it possible to have this learning issue and still understand what
you are reading? I always read like I am study the text.
So when I am finished I am able to explain what I have
read. Should I worry about my son having these same reading
issue's? As long as he can get what he is reading?
Thank you
Subject: I need help with my 9 yr.old son


Author:
gina
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Date Posted: 18:26:33 09/26/07 Wed

I am new here. My son is 9 and in the 4th grade. I have always been an at home mom and worked with him which has seemed to be enough in the past but not lately. He is stuck reading at a 2nd grade level and his word fluency is below that. Math has always been his strong point until recently when they began word problems and long division showing the work on paper. I was recently told that he should be evaluated for dyslexia because he shouldn't be still writing letters backwards. I had him evaluated by an eye doctor and his vision was fine but the doctor said my son displays many of the "classic" signs of dyslexia. So I did some research on line and not only does my son display most all the symptoms, but his dad and I do also or atleast at one time or another have struggled with many of the symptoms. I have requested an assesment from the school and I guess it's just a waiting game and I am unsure what happens now.
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Subject: Need some feedback...I'M feeling Blue.


Author:
Sandy
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Date Posted: 22:52:12 09/07/07 Fri

I have read thru most of the site. Never been diagnosed, but I believe I have dyslexia. As a child it took me awhile to learn to write, I confused Bs and Ds and many other letters. Kids would make fun of me. I still have to remind myself of which side is right and which is left. My memory has never been worst. My reading comprehension is not the best my writting is ok but it takes me awhile to bring my ideas together and to make sense of what Im thinking.(can I have a pity party? JK) Im a nurse and I work in sales. I worked very hard in college and I have a demanding sales job. And for me the hardest part is to be "normal" in a social setting.Is very frustrating for me to have conversations at time. I loose focus and tend to forget what we are talking about. Also, sometimes I take to long to respond to questions. It takes me to long to digest the questions and say the words, often I completly blank out! Or I cant find the words to explain myself,(even if I used the word 4 sec ago). And I feel like an idiot. It starting to take a toll on me. Stress seems to bring these symtoms out even more and my confidence is going down the tubes. Do you guys think that my symptoms correlate with dyslexia? And I NEED suggestions about any help or resources for verbalization and concentration isuues. Also, Im 40 yrs old should I get tested? or just leave it alone, I was thinking about going back to school.(Im apprehensive)Thanks!
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Subject: What sadist came up with this word...


Author:
Kirk
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Date Posted: 23:08:30 09/27/07 Thu

I mean really, who came up with the word Dyslexia? I have to ask my wife how to spell the word so I can find out about my learning disorder on the web.

I just found out that I might be… probably do have dyslexia. I was talking to a friend who teaches children with learning disabilities and she said she always suspected that I had dyslexia. The more I read the more I’m convinced that she is right. But I really do need to get tested.

I’ve always known that I have some kind of learning disability but I didn’t think it was dyslexia because as far as I knew I never saw letters backwards. I thought that was the only type of dyslexia there was. (I also wondered what was the big deal, if I always saw the letter backwards, wouldn’t it always look the same? I mean if every time you pointed at something I saw as blue and you and everyone else said it was green, well I’d associate “my” color blue with green, isn’t it the same as a backward S?)

I could always read well (though I’ve discovered that I’ve learned to read by recognizing whole words rather than by phonetics) But I couldn’t spell hardly at all and when the teacher would tell me to look it up in the dictionary I didn't know how to spell the word well enough to find it. One of the great early joys in my life was discovering the bad spellers dictionary. It was like magic. The words were spelled just like I imagined them. Now what keeps me employed is the Spell Checker in Word and other programs

My other weakness that I’m legend for is my bad sense of direction. If there is a detour I need to add at least another 20 minuets to my drive time because I will get lost.

My short-termterm memory isn’t the best in the world. If I’m listening to someone giving me their telephone number I have to re-listen to the message at least twice to get it down, then check it again to make sure that I haven’t transposed a number.

I started learning to write detailed notes for myself because I never knew when I might forget something really important. And that is the real irony of my story. Because by learning to document everything I fell into becoming a technical writer. No, this is not a joke.

Life just has a way to making things exciting. I never wanted to be a technical writer. I mean it’s hard to take myself seriously when if I’m not paying close attention will misspell the word “writer” (I seem to want to spell it ‘writter’) But the strange thing is I’m good at it. The task is mainly learning new things and then explaining them to others. I have to work three times as hard on the writing but one of my early coping skills was knowing that I had to learn to understand things completely and quickly because I was never going to remember them by rote. I’m 50 years old and I still can’t seem to memorize my multiplication tables. I’m also very inventive and have discovered way of making tools work for me.

Anyway, all this brings me to the point of my story, ( I know, you didn’t think I had a point did you?) If you are at all computer literate and I’m supposing most everyone on this forum is since they got on the Internet to find this place. I suggest using a Wiki (sort or a poor man’s Wikipedia) to write down task and appointments and phone numbers and so on. While mainly created for collaboration with groups of people, you can make one that is completely private for yourself. The great thing for me is that as long as I have a computer and an Internet connection I have my information. I tried a Franklin planner and it worked pretty good but I had too much information of procedures, passwords, and telephone numbers, and other stuff that frankly I didn’t want people to see how much I depended on it. Also, I couldn’t bear to see how badly I misspelled the words on the page. And I couldn;t read half of what I wrote.(Unfortunately, another one of my early coping strategies was writing illegibly so the teachers wouldn’t take off as much for spelling errors.) Now I just write up a how-to or a remember-this and it’s there. I make backups regularly and when at work I always have it up but minimized. It has increase my productivity ten-fold, which in part is just by removing the anxiety about forgetting things.

Well that is my two cents. Hope it helps someone out.
Subject: typing disabilities


Author:
giving up
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Date Posted: 19:42:51 09/19/07 Wed

I have a very hard time typing, I either type slowly (30 wpm) or if I try to speed up I make a lot of mistakes. I am looking for articles and/or books that mentions about the connection between dyslexia and having trouble with typing. I was told when I was a kid that I had some of the symptoms, but my parents never follow up. I will follow up with a doctor, but in the mean time I would be grateful if could provided any information on the topic.
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Subject: Searching for over 20yrs for answers


Author:
Z (I feel relieved "I am not alone")
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Date Posted: 08:07:46 04/12/07 Thu

I don't know where to start. I am 33yr old male, I have all the symptoms (problems) you guys have... I hated school, because of subjects like English and Maths, which I could NEVER UNDERSTAND. I failed English one year and had to repeat a whole yr. I took the easy way out, by taking easy subjects like typing and ditched Maths, unfortunately I could not ditch English, I would have if I could. I am now probably 15yrs out of school, never went to college, because I thought I was just useless and that their was something wrong with me, and that I would never succeed. I am employed but I have NO CLUE what I'm good at and what career I should follow on this earth. I have taken two profile analysis test on myself and still have no clue, I feel like my life is passing me by because I can't find the right job for "me" because of my limitations. I think in black and white only, lact confidence majorly, only good with repetitive tasks,I don't grasp what ive just read easily, I would need to read a passage atleast 3 times or more. My spelling and the English language spelling is completely different.My memory is so bad, if I see a 6 digit number on the screen and try and write it down I would need to look back at the screen at least twice.

Guys/Girls, this is the first time in my LIFE I feel relieved, relieved because all of you are saying all the things on how I feel inside. I feel happy today 12-04-07 and teary inside because "I'm not alone and thought I was".

This is honestly a mirracle, finding this website. I will visit it everyday from now on, now that I know, their are lots more people out there like me and i hope to learn allot from you guys. I enjoyed reading the articles, touched my heart in a big way.

N.B now that I know what's wrong with me, where, how do I start the fixing process.

Z
South Africa
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Subject: Work issues


Author:
Karen
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Date Posted: 14:01:06 02/06/07 Tue

Hi I was wondering if anyone out there can help, I have a work problem and it is as follows: I have just started a new job and on the application form and at the interview I revealed that I was dyslexic this did not seem a problem as I was taken on, at the interview I asked if I was successful would it be possible to put a screen reader on my work station to help me with reading text , they said it would not be a problem.
Now that I have be with the company for 4 weeks there seems very much a problem and I have been asked for allsorts of question and been told I needed to be sent for testing.

This has upset me as I informed them from the start and I feel that if I had a problem that you could see (i.e. one leg) I would not have been told I have to go for testing!

I feel that I am not trusted and that they do not believe what I have said about my dyslexia
They said that as I did not have a piece of paper with it on and as I was told it so long ago then needed an up to date record
Am I over sensitive about this matter?
Does anyone know my rights ?
Thanks for any help given
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Subject: wrting


Author:
michael treacey
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Date Posted: 06:20:01 09/14/07 Fri

I am retired now,at the age of 66,years old.I took a test 5years back and told I was Dyslexic,as far back as I can remember I no schooling until I was 8years old,they sent you to specials in my day,basically the boys did woodwork and metalwork,very little academic work,os i left school at 16 not able to read or write my own name.For the past 50 years I have learnt myself to read and write in a fashion.Throuout my life I have found ways to around reading and writing,and avoid being put on the spot so to speak,I learnt every trick in the book to avoid being found out that I could not read or write.A long time ago I read a book by Emily Bronte(Wuthering Heights)from that moment I felt a passion to write,I have just finished my first noval and have started College to get my GCSE in English,I am hoping to get into university English Literature and still write my novals,they say you are never too old to learn,I am putting that to the test/ha.
Michael.
Subject: first time on here


Author:
Paulette Fortini (good)
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Date Posted: 15:17:55 09/09/07 Sun

I am 30 years old female In Colorado Usa. I have suffer most of my life with learning disability. I was told by the schools that I had learning disability at early age. I was never told what kind of learning disability it was. In high school I was told my reading was of 3th to 4th grade level. I found high school to be hard for me and drop out in the 9th grade.
My problem is with reading, writing, spelling, math and short term memory. I some times get letters confuse like b,d,q and p. I also get confuse remembering right from left. I never known about dyslexia and found out about it few month ago online. I have taken the test for dyslexia online. I find it hard to tell my friends online about dyslexia, I have been hiding it for years from them about my learning disability. I also find it hard to find a good job some times because of me not finishing high school and having reading problems. If I did not have my computer, I would be lost because it helps me with reading and spelling.
Subject: Dyslexia + health care


Author:
Amanda
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Date Posted: 14:01:02 05/25/07 Fri

Hi,
Are there anyother dyslexic nurses health care professionals out there? if so, how do you overcome any difficulties you have experienced?
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Subject: work


Author:
zoe
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Date Posted: 15:42:14 09/08/07 Sat

After 4 years at my job with no major problems with my dyslexia (why is the word for it sooo hard to spell)I've just got a now manager. She seems out to get me. After telling her I had dyslexia every thing I did was wrong, Much more than other staff.Called me into a meating with big boss and her without warning. Wanting to know how they could 'help me' with my problem. Does anybody know if this counts as discrimineation?
Subject: petition


Author:
tracey
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Date Posted: 03:32:34 09/08/07 Sat

Did you know..
Around 10% (1 in 10) people have dyslexic tendencies, with about 4% severe and 6% mild to moderate problems. Dyslexia can affect all backgrounds and abilities, from people with literacy difficulties to people with advanced doctorate degrees. Most people associate dyslexia with reading and spelling difficulties, however, difficulties include poor short term memory, you also have dysbraxia what is co -ordination fine motor skills and balance, then there is dyscalculia what is maths. I suffer from this entire thing and was not diagnosed until I was 20! when dyslexia if picked up in the early years between the ages of 4-7 can be helped and can make a big difference in the future that is why I want EVERY child to be tested when they begin school, so theses learning difficulties can be helped and the child can have a happy school life and not have to worry about being "stupid" and do not want other children to suffer in silence like i did.

Please sign the petition to help out the younger generation!!!!

http://petitions.pm.gov.uk/Im-not-stupid/
Subject: friend


Author:
dawn
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Date Posted: 16:23:15 08/08/07 Wed

hi my name is dawn l am 44 and was told 3years ago that l was dyslexia .l was just woundering is anyone finding organizetion a very hard thing to do and would enyone have some great ideas to help. l have retuned to school and finding it hard to remeber everythink l have to do.l am very intersed in an ideas you may have. l was so pleased when l can across this sit it will be nice just to talk about it.thank you
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Subject: Dyslexia and entrepreneurism


Author:
Stuart Ali
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Date Posted: 05:07:19 08/22/07 Wed

I am just wondering why so many entrepreneurs are dyslexic - some reports estimate as much as 40% are!
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Subject: COPING AT OLDER AGE


Author:
DENA MERKEL
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Date Posted: 08:08:01 09/02/07 Sun

JUST FOUND OUT HOW TO POST,I FOUND OUT AT AGE 60 THAT I AM DYSLEXIC.WAS FORCED AS A CHILD TO USE MY RIGHT HAND AND STOP WRITING BACKWARDS,MY DAD THOUGHT I WAS A BIT RETARTED.HOMEWORK WAS A TORCHER,WITH HIM STANDING BEHIND ME TO WATCH WITH A LOOSE HAND.I LERNED TO READ UPSIDEDOWN (STILL CAN TODAY)ALWAYS GET UNBELIEVABLE LOOKS WHEN I READ ALONG WHAT SOMEONE IS WRITING AND THEN TRY TO HAND IT TO ME TO READ.DO FAVOR MY LEFT HAND,BUT USE BOTH,IN THE 60'S THEY SAID LERNING PROBLEMS CAME FROM TRYING TO MAKE A RIGHT HANDER OUT OF A LEFTY,IT MESSES WITH THERE BRAIN!!!
BELIEVED THIS TILL I WAS TESTED.USING A CAP PRINT BECAUSE OF BAD EYES,HAVE SO MANY GLASSES CAN OPEN A STORE,MY LONGTIME EYE DOCTOR ARGUES WITH ME EVERYTIME ABOUT WHAT STRENGHT I NEED FOR READING,BUT NOTICED A WILE BACK THAT I NEED TO CHANGE GLASSES AT DIFFERENT TIMES OF DAY AND THINGS I DO.CAN'T WEAR BI AND TRYFOCALS AS I LOOSE MY BALLANCE EVEN WITHOUT THEM.SEEN A WRITE UP ON THE INTERNET ABOUT EYE PROBLEMS ON SOME DYSLEXIC'S WITH THERE STRENGHT CHANGING AT RANDOM.RECENTLY CHANGED COMPUTERS AND NEEDED TO HAVE THIS ONE RE PROGRAMMED WITH WINDOWS XP,SOMEHOW MANY THINGS WHERE LOST,INCLUDING THIS ARTICLE FOR MY OPTOM.DOCTOR.FOUND ONE WAY TO EXPLAIN TO PEOPLE WHAT DYSLEXIA IS:FOR INSTANT
AMERICANS SAY LUCKED OUT,NOW MY BRAIN SAY LUCK IS OK/GOOD,
"OUT" IS GONE,SO HOW CAN "LUCK'D" & "OUT" MEAN THE SAME THING???? THANK GOODNESS FOR MY GOOD FRIENDS,THAT I TOLD AT THE BEGINNING OF LERNING THE COMPUTER (PLEASE BABY STEPS,LIKE A KINDNERGARDNER)THE ONE,TWO ,TREE STEP,AND NOTHING LEFT OUT,LIKE GO UP OR DOWN,CLICK ONCE OR TWICE,ARROW DOWN ETC.YOU GET THE IDEA.HOPE THIS HELPS NEW LERNERS,AND IF ANYONE HAS THIS EYE ARTICLE ABOUT CHANGING STRENGHT,PLEASE SEND ME AN E MAIL.
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Subject: Dyslexics, reading books


Author:
Edward H (Happy)
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Date Posted: 01:33:37 09/04/07 Tue

Hi Louise ,I have just read your note posted on voy Forums :Dyslexia Adults Link, referenceyour own type of reading books for Dyslexia people. I am most interested in your products and I would appreciate any help you can offer me. Could you please forward on to meany information , examples of your productd, and a brochure.
I am presently at UNI and require help with my dyslexic problems. Few people really know how to help. Best Regards Edward
Subject: ROFL


Author:
Alix
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Date Posted: 21:05:29 08/04/07 Sat

For a few good laughs:

I have discussed my dyslexia with my friends and family and feel they understand what I am talking about. A few months ago, I fell down and broke my right wrist. I'm right-handed. When I told a long time friend of mine I had broken my wrist and was having problems writing anything down. She told me she could not understand what the problem was because I was ambidextrous. With a laugh, I explained to her I am dyslexic not ambidextrous. rofl

Now being a dyslexic, I run my marble mouse sideways. My right hand rolls the ball, and my left hand clicks the buttons. Now that I can only use my left hand, I can run the mouse right-side up. Go figure.

Alix
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Subject: READ 108


Author:
Sheila (Is this a good reading program for dyslexic?)
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Date Posted: 10:54:27 08/30/07 Thu

My daughter is in the 7th grade. She was diagnosed 3 years ago with dyslexia. Of course she doesnt qualify for Special Education. This year, the school put her in a "Read 108" class???? I don't think its part of the OrtonGillingham method. Does anyone know about this program does it work?? does it help??
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Subject: Diagnosed but thinks it gone now


Author:
Kim
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Date Posted: 09:53:39 03/05/07 Mon

My husband,46, was diagnosed as a child with dyslexia. He was sent to Sylvan for treatment and now says he was cured when he was a child. He claims he does not "have it" anymore. (although he is willing to get help) When we talk about dyslexia he gets very upset. It has put a huge strain on our marriage. We are not able to grow together as a loving couple. He is a dyanamic mechanic and an avid football fan! He also has little self esteem and is very negative. He is a very happy person in his comfort zone. Anything out of this comfort zone leaves him confused. This causes frustration and anger. It is very difficult for us to resolve any issues which make it hard for us to learn, and grow together as a couple. Who do we see to get help?

Thanks, Kim Belden
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Subject: speech recognition software


Author:
shelly
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Date Posted: 11:24:39 08/28/07 Tue

does anyone know which is better the dragon naturally speaking or the vista with built in speech recognition, any one who has experience with either program I'd appreciate your opinion, thanks
Subject: e-Books


Author:
Daniel
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Date Posted: 18:18:24 08/26/07 Sun

Hello
I am a student suffering from a severe reading disability, I was diagnosed at age seven, and together with my friends have fought all my life against discrimination. I Am fairly intelligent, exceeding at university level this was only achieved through determination and added help from friends.
I am currently studying for veterinary science and use several reading and writing programs.
My query is finding scientific books compatible with read and write gold.
I’m looking for anything, electronic libraries, e-bookstores, even companies that scan books.
I tried several bookstores but they all place so much copyright restrictions on the books that I cannot download them or print them or even attempt a scan from their file.

kind regards
Daniel
Queensland Australia
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Subject: Software advice


Author:
Kevin Fisher (Happy1)
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Date Posted: 06:53:22 08/17/07 Fri


I have been using a computer since Windows 3.1. I have upgraded from Win 95 to Win 98 and now I use Windows XP. At first I used “Text Help” Read & write4 with dragon naturally speaking and omni page, which is “Scansoft”. At that point in time they had compatability problems, it was workable but very frustrating, An upgrade to “textHELP” was Read and Write Gold 6. This program was an all in one. We had huge compatibility problems to begin with until service patches were added. Okra scanning software, at that time, was still in it’s infancy. I found Speech to text too difficult to use and I haven’t upgraded since this program. I am thinking of upgrading to Texthelp Read & Write Gold 8.1.
This program includes “Screen shot” which allows me to take a photo of the image on the screen and run it through “Okra” so it can be read with a screen reader. Some Flash, PDF files and web sites are unable to be read with a screen reader. http://www.adobe.com/macromedia/accessibility/gettingstarted/validate.html
New software available now will allow the use of a digital camera, for example to take
a photo of a Poster and to transfer it to my computer, where it can be read with a screen reader. I have not tried this as yet. This is available in Texthelp Read & Write Gold 8.1 http://www.texthelp.com I believe this is Version 7 but there is a Version 8. I believe this to be “Scansoft /http://www.topsoft.com.au/fr80/fr80.html http://www.nuance.com/omnipage/professional/features.asp”. A similar program to Texthelp is http://www.freedomscientific.com/ I will upgrade to Vista and possibly Fine Reader 8 pro. Has anyone any advice for me as I cannot afford any mistakes, it has cost thousands already.
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Subject: Help I am looking for an audio book


Author:
monica
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Date Posted: 19:15:50 08/24/07 Fri

Hello all,

I am currently enrolled in college (my senior year) at the age of 36, with four children and a full time job. I was diagnosed at 7. I need to read several books for my next literature class and I have been unable to find them on audio.:( The titles are:

One Hundred Years of Solitude by Garcia
House of Spirits by Allende

any help will be greatly appreciated.

Monica
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Subject: Right is Left and MORE......HELP ME


Author:
David Alan Smith
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Date Posted: 19:41:18 08/21/07 Tue

PLEASE READ THIS AND HELP IF YOU CAN..

A friend just told me of a problem she has. This problem is very unusual and new to me!

Her world is like looking in a mirror. Things that are on the right are on the left. When looking at a key board the "?" is the "Z" to her. When looking down a hall with the bathroom on the right and bedroom on the left, she sees the bathroom on the left, and bedroom on the right. When she uses a screw driver, she sees it turning to right, but feels it turning to the left to loosen the screw. When looking at a door to open, and the knob is on the left, she sees the knob on the right with hinges on the left.

She drives a car and has a job.

Any one know of this problem?
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Subject: Helping my boyfriend


Author:
Andrea
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Date Posted: 12:50:41 08/22/07 Wed

I have started dating a wonderful guy that is Dyslexic. I really like him and I don't know what the do's and don't's are. I would LOVE some advice.
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Subject: Help with dyslexia research needed !!


Author:
Richard West
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Date Posted: 03:21:49 08/20/07 Mon

Please could you help me ?

I am a research student investigating the accessibility of Web 2.0 for people with dyslexia (Web 2.0 is a term often used to refer to new types of websites that involve a high degree of social networking and user collaboration)

The main focus of the research is "social bookmarking" - the ability to share your lists of favourite websites with other people.

I am looking for both people who have dyslexia, as well as those who do not, to complete an online questionnaire. The findings from this research will raise awareness of the accessibility issues that people with dyslexia face whilst using these online services, with the aim of improving how they are designed in the future.

The survey can be accessed by following the link below :
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=bAJNmGPgyvNDrL4OHlrdjw_3d_3d


If you can complete this short questionnaire I would be extremely grateful. All responses are anonymous, and kept in the strictest confidence. If you have any questions regarding the survey please contact me, Richard West at abbn202@soi.city.ac.uk

Many thanks

Richard West
Centre for HCI Design
City University
London, UK

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Subject: Am I dyslexic?


Author:
Kate
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Date Posted: 10:13:17 08/22/07 Wed

Hi I'm wondering if I have dyslexia, I have big problems in remebering numbers and words if I have to change eye focus, such as writing something on a piece of paper which is shown on a computer screen or blackboard.
Can anyone advise?
Kate UK
Subject: Enlightening


Author:
Kevin Fisher (Happy1)
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Date Posted: 06:45:02 08/22/07 Wed

On a daily basis my experience as a dyslexic has included problems such as signing documents which I am unable to read at the time because of my disability. Finding out that I have signed for costs which were not explained to me at the time. One instance cost me $2,500.00 pa for mortgage insurance which I didn’t need as my assets exceeded the actual mortgage. If I had been able to take the documents home to sign or could have
photographed them at the time and taken them home to read with a screen reader, I would not have found myself in this situation in hindsight. Other areas where I have experienced difficulties has been with work qualifications, where I have either had to travel many kilometers to take oral tests (not available locally) or take the test in a classroom setting which is designed for people who can read and write! This can be very embarrassing. When I request the class material they refuse and suggest that I do it orally. I point out that there is an anti-discrimination act and this leads to heated debate!
When taking my senior first aid certificate I overcame this by finding the relevant information on the internet and doing the actual test because I had memorized what I had read with the screen reader. The practical test also gave me insight to what was required.
and I was able to answer sufficient questions to obtain a pass. I have found one that was user friendly when doing my boat licence, the subject matter was on a cd and then it had a practice test. By this method I could see what was right or wrong. I passed this test
100 percent. The technology varies from state to state in Australia. I hope that what I have said here will enlighten people who prepare education training courses etc., These experiences have been informative and enlightening and has helped in my daily life. I would like to help others by sharing these experiences which have been confronting but also constructive.
Subject: Inventing Marni: A Reading Tutor for Personal Computers


Author:
Ron Cole (Hopeful)
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Date Posted: 18:44:20 07/30/07 Mon

Hello. My name is Ron Cole. For the past seven years I worked at the University of Colorado with a talented team of reading researchers to develop a computer program to teach children to read, especially those with reading challenges. My son Jordan, now 15, is dyslexic. While learning to sound out words, it was heartbreaking to listen to him slowly sound out a word and then do it all over again for the same word in the very next sentence. The Boulder Valley school district placed Jordan in special education and he received tutoring in small groups several days a week, but it was not nearly enough. My wife Pam and I estimate that we spent over $6,000 for one on one tutoring over a period of about four years. Jordan reads now, and is doing well in school. By fifth grade he was reading at grade level, although he was given more time to take the statewide reading tests. Most of Jordan’s teachers today do not know he is dyslexic. We believe that the personal tutoring he received from expert tutors was responsible for Jordan’s success. The reading tutors used a program developed by Dr. Barbara Wise called Linguistic Remedies.

For the past seven years, I have been working with Dr. Wise and a team of reading researchers, computer scientists, teachers and students to develop Foundations to Literacy. The research was funded by over $6 million in grants from the National Science Foundation and NIH’s National Institute of Child Health and Development (NICHD). The program uses a lifelike computer character, Marni, who is programmed to behave like a sensitive and effective reading tutor. Marni produces accurate visual speech, head movements and emotions synchronized with a recorded human voice. Marni instructs, encourages and challenges children in learning games and interactive books to learn the names and sounds of letters, to build and recognize words, to learn vocabulary, and to read and comprehend text. Marni’s behaviors and the selection and pacing of the learning activities are based on a sophisticated study plan that adapts to each child’s behavior to optimize their learning. The design of the entire program is based on scientific research on what works in reading. Foundations to Literacy has been tested by over 1000 children in over 50 K-2 classrooms in Colorado schools, including inner city schools in the Archdiocese of Denver, with positive learning outcomes and rave reviews by students, teachers and school principals.

In order to make the program available to everyone, I recently left the university to work at Mentor Interactive, a small company that has received a grant from the NIH to turn the reading program into a commercial product. The NIH project has two phases. The goal of the first phase of the study, which lasts six months and ends this September, is to demonstrate that the program can be installed in homes over a high speed connection, and that children and parents have a good experience using it. The goal of the second phase of the study, which lasts two years, is to improve the program, assess its effectiveness and make it available to parents and teachers. The home trial will begin in mid-August and last for several weeks.

The program used in the home trial is designed for beginning and struggling readers—children who are having difficulty learning to recognize letters and words and comprehending stories. The program is designed to move these children to the level of a first grader about three months into the school year. If your child is just beginning to read, or seems to be having difficulty learning to read, and if you have a PC (sorry, the program does not run on Apple computers yet) and a high speed internet connection, you may be able to participate in our free home trial. Up to two children can use the program in your home. At the end of the trial, which requires about 2 hours of your child working with Marni at their own pace, we will ask you to fill out a questionnaire about your experiences and impressions and suggestions for how to improve it.

As a token of our appreciation, you will be able to keep the program, and receive free upgrades and product releases in the future. If you are interested in learning more, please email me at hometrial@mentorinteractiveinc.com. I will send you more information about the program, and a short questionnaire to determine if you are eligible to participate.
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Subject: My Girlfriend is Dyslexic


Author:
Urs (casper)
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Date Posted: 07:29:58 07/14/07 Sat

Hi,
I just came across this link. I am now in a new relationship with a woman who is 29. Just 2 days ago she threw a major hyperactive fit, then started trying to make out, in the bed. Nearly her full body weight was on top of my back at one point while she laughed. She would not stop and after she asked mw whats the matter she denied what she did. Then she got nasty, yelling and screaming, telling me to leave.

I really dont know what i may have gotten myself into, and its freaking me out. Has anyone got any tips/advice, i cant handle another break up right now. My therapsit, who would know the answers, is on holidays. my email is ussie_98@yahoo.com if anyone would like to email me there, as i use her computer.
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Subject: Reading backwards


Author:
Ralph DeMattia
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Date Posted: 07:16:24 08/03/07 Fri

I discovered in the First grade in San Antonio Texas, that I read backwards. I was kept back twice, untill a wonderful yound woman saw what I had, and since her son had the same thing-we both see everything backwards-she worked with me at her own expense after school, all that summer of 1955 and through 1956 and she taught me how to see it backwards but read forwards, but it's never had a name, and I'd like to know if some professional person could tell me what it is. I found out years ago about it being a form of Dyslexia but never learned what it's called. Thanks ahead to anyone who can help.
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Subject: dyslectic computer users


Author:
Kevin Fisher (Happy1)
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Date Posted: 05:22:02 08/08/07 Wed

I am a first time user of this forum. I am an advanced computer user. I have been using a computer for l5 years and set it up with two screens to assist my short term memory. I use Text Help and a screen reader. I can barely read and write. By installing a second video card in the computer it enables me to attach a second screen which then enables me to view a web browser and at the same time open MS Word for example. If I am on your web page and find the word for example “dysfragmia” I can go to the second screen and highlight “dysfragmia” by using Ctr C ( copy) I can go to the second screen and open the web browser and go to Google and Ctr V (paste) the word dysfragmia and search the web for it’s meaning or a dictionary. Combined with a screen reader I can research anything I choose by this method. With two screens I can have subject matter on one and any anything I choose on the other which gives me endless opportunities to
Access any subject I choose. I believe with perserverance other computer users will find this a valuable as a screen reader. I bank online, I pay my bills online. I can scan documents and read them back on my computer. In the past I have passed my boat license by this method.. Australia seems to have little help for people like me. I feel like Robinson Crusoe without Man Friday! I would welcome feedback from other users.
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Subject: Dyslexia symptoms


Author:
Julia
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Date Posted: 12:23:15 08/06/07 Mon

My 10 yr old son has some symptoms of dyslexia but I have been told he is not dyslexic. He is very bright, can read well but slow in writing and thinking and has a bad memory. He cannot tolerate loud noise or music. After reading lots of literature on the subject I am sure he has some form of dyslexia. His school would not offer any help as he is not a priority and as he approaches his final year in primary school, I am worried that because of his slow writing he would not be able to complete the exam that would give him a good grade for secondary school.

I am supporting him at home with practising writing but feel I am pushing too hard. Does anyone have any ideas of how to go about this without pushing? Any suggestions would be appreciated.
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Subject: help!!


Author:
erica (worried)
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Date Posted: 07:12:08 08/07/07 Tue

My husband was diagonosed when he was a child with dyslexia and he has struggled his whole life. He gets very embarrased and mad when asked to read something aloud. He is currently un-employed now and has tried many ways to get a job. He is currently in a class to be a MET to help save peoples lives. He asked if the instructor could read the test to him and the instructor refuses. My husband is very bright , but his dyslexia causes him to have a big crutch in his life. Are their any way that the instructor would have to read him this test or make any arrangements due to his dissability. if anyone could help please respond!!
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Subject: Looking for a friend


Author:
Ana (looking for some one who understands)
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Date Posted: 21:21:21 07/08/07 Sun

I am looking to talk with other dyslexic people who understand the frusterations of daily life. I live a lonely life and have no friends or job. I am a stay home mom and could really use a friend.
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Subject: new at this


Author:
penny (help)
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Date Posted: 13:34:13 07/31/07 Tue

I am fairly new at learning that i am a person with dyslexia self evaluation. Just by reading the info on and taking part in testing on line. My main problem is with right and lefts and sequencing.Can you please help me with some ideas on how to help these two areas. I live in a small city in Canada where they don't have any educational tools to help me with this.
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Subject: Children dyslexia?


Author:
Ann
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Date Posted: 11:23:24 08/01/07 Wed

I have a 4 year old that has been writing things backwards(her name,reading time backwards etc)it seems like she sees everything from right to left.I have read that diagnosing dyslexia is hard before a child turns 7 but I don't know what else the problem would be.She is very smart otherwise and once you point out the problem she easily corrects herself.We have been reading to her since she was born every night and since she was two we have been having school time once a day(working in workbooks etc)and I have her enrolled to start preschool.I'm just wondering if there is anything else I can do?
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Subject: A Book that will teach all children to read


Author:
Lynne Joseph (very happy)
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Date Posted: 14:17:39 07/31/07 Tue

There is a new book out there that will help children JK to grade 3 read, comprehend, focus and orient better. It even helps with emotions and hyperactivity. It is called Magic Glasses. Simply go to www.lulu.com click on browse, then in the search engine type Magic Glasses. It has already helped my kids. By teaching the young ones how to read by this book, how to focus and orient themselves, I have a much happier time with them. Try it out.
Subject: Does dyslexia affect your ability to keep your things tidy?


Author:
Vicki
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Date Posted: 02:48:00 03/26/07 Mon

Please help! I'm 25 years old and i'm moving out into my first house with my boyfriend in a weeks time. I'm dyslexic and find keeping my personal belongings neat and tidy really difficult. I don't know why i can't seem to keep my bedroom tidy nor keep my paperwork filed - it just gets thrown on the floor and i get too stressed to tidy it away! I'm not a unkempt person and have pride in my appearance - people would never guess just how messy i am at home - its driving my non dyslexic boyfriend mad! I'm desperate to be tidy but just find it so hard to do.

Does anyone else feel like this? Am i alone? could my dyslexia be worse because of all the added stress with moving? Got any tips? please help!!
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Subject: SPELLING :(


Author:
meg
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Date Posted: 13:08:50 07/17/07 Tue

hi, i cant spell for my life! (thank goodness for spell check!) but im having a problem in work, whenever i can use a computer it isnt a problem but there are charts that need to be filled out by hand, and memos... its really embarrassing and most people when they see my spelling automatically think im stupid and dont take me seriously,(i dont blame them cause without spell check its really really bad! i spell on a first grade level) does any 1 have any suggestions on how to get by when things need to be written by hand? also i would really love to learn how to spell and i havent completely given up, i have tried various things in the past but with little success, does anyone no of any programs that have helped them learn how to spell or any methods for teaching themselves? Or should i give it up and focus on trying to find ways to compensate? any advice?
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Subject: developmental disabilities and dyslexia


Author:
gina
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Date Posted: 09:08:03 07/10/07 Tue



Hello,

I was tested for having a developmental disability at the age of 19. With an I.Q. of 76. Now 31 I was tested for having a reading disability such as dyslexia. I don't see things backwards I just have problems in Reading comprehension, writing,spelling,math all signs of someone that is dyslexic. The problem I have a question about my I.Q. What is the normal intellectual copacity for someone with a learning disability?. I just recently completed the W.A.I.T and I guess I scored an 80 or higher I think. I'm just guessing. Can someone help?
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Subject: dyslexic husband


Author:
Emmy (EmmyEm)
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Date Posted: 19:13:39 06/17/07 Sun

My husband is having serious difficulty with reading, spelling, math etc. I was not fully aware of his problems until recently. Does anyone know of any tutors or educators that help adults learn coping strategies? I have NO IDEA where to start and feel helpless. Any info would be greatly appreciated. Many thanks. EmmyEm, TX,USA
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Subject: relationship issues with a dyslexic husband


Author:
Anne Hamilton
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Date Posted: 10:24:36 07/17/07 Tue

I need information and help to deal with my dyslexic husband. When he was diagnosed as an adult, he learned certain coping mechanisims related to the more obvious difficulties in reading, spelling et al. For the most part, he maintains a positive attitude in the work world, in spite of messing up royally. The biggest problem lies with the psychological aspects of the dyslexia which are having a huge effect not only on his business but also on our relationship issues. If anyone, professional or not, has anything helpful to offer in the form of personal experience or published material, I would be most grateful. Anne
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