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Subject: Re: i just had unprotected sex Author: Kris [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:54:47 04/11/07 Wed In reply to: scared798 's message, "i just had unprotected sex" on 23:23:59 04/08/07 Sun Dear Scared798, Well, as a Christian, you should first repent. Fornication is a sin, but God forgives you for that when you ask Him to. Repentence means you recognize what you did was wrong, you are sorry, and you will not do it again. You also need to ask the Lord for strength to resist the temptation again. The wonderful thing about being a Christian is that we do have the Lord to go to when we are scared or worried, or whatever. You can trust that He already has the matter well in hand. You should also explain to the young woman you were with that what you did was not right, and you have decided to not do it again until you get married. However, you need to also assure her that you will be there to stand by her and support her if she is pregnant. You will need to be responsible for your actions. Finally, please understand that the "pull-out" is not a method of any kind. There is sperm in the fluids you produce to provide the lubrication. Honestly, the only 100% effective b/c is abstinence. Every single other "method" is flawed and women do get pregnant while on the pill, using IUD's, diaphragms, condoms, etc. Check out this site also: www.getthetruth.net Hope that helps, Kris [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]