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Unplanned Pregnancy Discussions

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This board is for women who are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy, and don't know if they want to keep the pregnancy going. You can post your feelings and concerns and fears. Women normally will receive responses from people with both views, prochoice OR prolife. Please understand that by posting here, you will receive a lot of different advice and ideas - these are other people's views and feelings, use them as information as you decide what is the best answer for you and your life. It helps to know all sides of the story when trying to make a difficult decision.

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Subject: devastated

Mommy of Three
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Date Posted: 10:02:39 08/07/09 Fri

Hello, I didn't find anywhere else to post. I am 9 weeks 3 days pregnant.... something I wanted so badly. I had a great job and everything was going well. That was till 2 weeks ago....

I was the only one working in my family, but it was a great job and it got us by... I lost my job because I was out of FMLA time and my attendance was horrendous when my daughter was in the hospital and then I had a day of morning sickness... I went from makeing $50k a year to $0.00... with no savings.

Now I have a house and car I can't afford. Three kids I can't take care of. I live in a state where people are begging the state for unemployment extensions after their 72 weeks are up.... my husband has no job skills (even though he and I are both looking for jobs). People aren't going to hire me knowing I am pregnant... and its wrong to not let them know...

I wanted this baby so much. I was so excited when I found out. I was so amazingly happy about having a baby again (My older children are 16, 11, and almost 2 yrs)... I had everything. Now this pregnancy isn't fair to this baby. It isn't fair to my other children. And I don't know what I am going to do. I don't want to end it, I love this baby. But what other options are realistically out there? Especially since I have to be a responsible mother?....

I almost would rather just hurt myself... but then I leave 3 kids without a mother. I just don't know what to do anymore..

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Jordyn b (overwhelmed)
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Date Posted: 00:27:06 08/03/09 Mon

my names jordyn and im 18 years old. Im 7 weeks pregnant, the father doesnt want the child and expects me to get an abortion. Ive already had one abortion and to be honest im very pro choice but it honestly has ruined my life, and now im going through the same thing but the father doesnt wwant me to have it even thought i said i wouldnt tell anyone it was his and he didnt have to give me child support or even be involved with the childs life. im so confused everyones telling me different things but i dont know what i want to do=[

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Subject: I Don't Know if Im Pregnant

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Date Posted: 23:14:23 11/29/05 Tue

Im 16 I had sex on August 26 and started my period the same day. I've had my period every month but its been light. I've been nashus, very tired, light headed and my brest have been sore, also my stomic is hard and getting bigger. I can feel a heart beat in my lower stomic. I've taken 3 epts and they were all negitive. Could i still be pregnant?
Please respond someone i dont know what to do

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