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What do you do when you're in this position??

Author:
T-Sheena (Confused)

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Date Posted: 23:57:17 04/15/07 Sun

I am 15 years old. I had been dating this guy (Jeffery) for 2 and a half years. And we were sexually active. We never used protection. He said he didnt like the way it felt. That was my first mistake. We broke on November 20, 2006. That was the last time we was sexually active. We didnt use protection. He ejaculated inside of me. I didnt think anything of it. He had done it millions of times. I was supposed to have started my period December 13. I never started. I thought ok its going to be late but no biggy. I finally started January 1, 2007. It was really dark. Not the natural color. It lasted 5 days. I got off of it January 5th. I didnt think anything of it. I was a little concerned. But just ignored the fact that there was a possibilty I could be pregnant. My appetite grew. I started having these crazy cravings. Like Pickles dipped in Ketchup. My stomach startin gettin alot bigger. Then January 14, 2007. Me && Jeffery Had sex for the the last time. He was rough this time. He had never been like this before. And we went until he ejaculated twice. It hurt. I told him that. But he kept on. Then after he was done he took me home and said he never wanted to talk to me again. I was really upset. So the next night...A couple of my guy friends wanted me to go out with them. So I went back to their place. We ended up having a 3-some. The next morning I woke up and there was blood everywhere. I thought I was on my period again. It scared me because I had never bled like this before. It was Really red and was in clumps. It scared me. And I was wondering if anyone knew what that could have been. I told my friends about it and they said that I could have been pregnant and lost it. Someone please write me back at my email atop and let me know your opinion. I need to know this. Its really important.
Thanks!!
T-Sheena

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[> Subject: Re: What do you do when you're in this position??

Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 08:26:43 04/16/07 Mon

Dear T-Sheena,

Did you skip a period in Feb & March too? It sounds like your cycle is not really regular - so maybe it's hard for you to know. The best thing to do would be to take a pregnancy test. You can get a FREE and CONFIDENTIAL test at a pregnancy center, I want you to look one up at this web site:

www.optionline.org

You really probably should see a real doctor though. If you've been sexually active with 3 different guys now, you should be checked (a regular gyn appt) and make sure you're OK and all.

I do want to mention that at your age, I think these guys are taking advantage of you. The "last" time out with your former boyfriend really sounded more like rape to me, and you should NOT ever let a guy do something to you that you don't want him to do.

I also think you need to stay away from guys for a while. You are very young and have your whole life ahead of you. You are precious and unique and God loves you. You do not need to look for love in these kind of guys.

I would really like to talk to you more - I didn't see your email address anywhere, but mine is: Hopkinskc@aol.com

Please email me and we can chat more.

Hugs, Kris

[> Subject: Re: What do you do when you're in this position??
Author: Jena [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 09:02:09 04/17/07 Tue You were having symptoms that indicate that you were pregnant but the fact that you had unusual bleeding does indicate you lost the embryo. For now, lose that Jeffrey guy. He's a womanizer and you need to stop worrying about guys for now and focus on other important things. Getting pregnant is not your priority at your age. Please, be safe.

[> Subject: Re: What do you do when you're in this position??

Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 10:26:05 04/27/07 Fri

Please make an appointment with your doctor. If you did have a miscarriage it's important to make sure you didn't loose too much blood and that your periods return.

As Kris mentioned you can take a pregnancy test. Even if you did loose the baby it could still show positive. It takes a while for the HCG (pregnancy hormone) to stop showing up in the body.

Hugs,

Heather

[> Subject: Possible pregnancy

Author:
Melissa
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Date Posted: 22:03:59 05/17/07 Thu

Hi everyone... I have a few questions- first of all here is my situation. My husband and I had unprotected sex on April 15 and on April 26 I started lightly bleeding but then it got heavier and lasted for about four days on and off. We have an eight month old daughter and were not really trying yet to have another baby, but it may be a good thing. Anyway, I have been having a lot of headaches, and the past few days my stomach has been looking very swollen, much like it was when I was pregnant with our daughter. I have also had some discharge from my breasts and I have not breastfed my daughter since she was four months old. I have taken three tests and all have come up negative but I feel strange. I guess the weirdest part is that my stomach is hard and round, when it is usually very flat. Do you think I am pregnant?