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Subject: i dont know...


Author:
amy
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Date Posted: 17:58:24 04/28/07 Sat

my boyfriend and i had sex but didnt finish. i made him stop because i didnt want to do it and i am a christian. he is too, and i feel like we are both failing miserably. My period was supposed to start 3 days ago. i took a pregnancy test and it was negative. that was 6 days after we had sex. can i be pregant if we didnt finish? can the test inacurate after only 6 days? im 17 and scared, but he says im worrying too much about it.

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Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 08:50:29 04/30/07 Mon

Dear Amy,

If your period still hasn't started, take another test, and follow the directions carefully.

You can also go to a pregnancy center for a FREE and CONFIDENTIAL test. Look one up near you at this site:

www.optionline.org

You can get pregnant even if you didn't "finish" because there is sperm in pre-ejaculate fluids. Anytime you have sex, you can get pregnant. Even if you had used b/c - the only 100% effective b/c is abstinence.

Stress can make your period late - and since you're worried, that equals stress. Try to relax if you can, and hopefully things will get going.

You're welcome to email me if you want to talk.

Hopkinskc@aol.com

Hugs, Kris
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Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 01:27:59 05/04/07 Fri

Amy,

You mentioned you are Christian and it sounds like both of you know it's wrong. I want to encourage you with scripture. I want to help and not condemn or tear down.

13] Let us behave decently, as in the daytime...not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. [14] Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature. Romans 13:13-14. New International Version.

[3] But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. [4] Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. Ephesians 5: 3-4. New International Version

God Bless,

Heather
songofjesus@yahoo.com


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