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Subject: Re: Reasons for divorce Author: Laila Nasheeba [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 16:47:15 11/07/02 Thu Author Host/IP: dhcp024-210-245-129.woh.rr.com/24.210.245.129 In reply to: Naeemah zakiya 's message, "Reasons for divorce" on 16:03:57 11/07/02 Thu As Salaamu Alaikoum, The Hadith you gave here does not say the woman divorced him FOR NO REASON. She divorced him because HE COULD NOT FULFILL HER DESIRES SEXUALLY. And that is what she meant when she said she does not want to commit an act of Kufr. When reading hadiths, you have to know the story behind them. You can not take a Hadith and interpret it any way you want. A woman MUST HAVE REASON to seek a divorce from a man. Here are examples of acceptable reasons for a woman to seek a divorce as answered by Shaykh ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Abd al-Rahmaan ibn Jibreen: If a woman dislikes her husband’s treatment of her – for example, he is over-strict, hot-tempered or easily-provoked, or gets angry a lot, or criticizes her and rebukes her for the slightest mistake or shortcoming, then she has the right of khula’ [female-instigated divorce]. If she dislikes his physical appearance because of some deformity or ugliness, or because one of his faculties is missing, she has the right of khula’. If he is lacking in religious commitment – for example, he doesn’t pray, or neglects to pray in jamaa’ah, or does not fast in Ramadaan without a proper excuse, or he goes to parties where haraam things are done, such as fornication, drinking alcohol and listening to singing and musical instruments, etc. – she has the right of khula’. If he deprives of her of her rights of spending on her maintenance, clothing and other essential needs, when he is able to provide these things, then she has the right to ask for khula’. If he does not give her her conjugal rights and thus keep her chaste because he is impotent (i.e. unable to have intercourse), or because he does not like her, or he prefers someone else, or he is unfair in the division of his time [i.e., among co-wives], then she has the right to ask for khula’. AGAIN.. I encourage you to join the classes at our website to learn the Basics of Your religion and to avoid making fatwaas on things without the proper knowledge. AND ALLAH KNOWS BEST Laila Nasheeba [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]