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Subject: Re: dont kno what to do..................

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Laila Nasheeba

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Date Posted: 05:02:22 11/16/02 Sat
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In reply to: Khan 's message, "dont kno what to do.................." on 22:18:30 11/15/02 Fri

As Salaamu Alaikoum,

Praise be to Allah.

First of all it was not your job to watch your sister.. that is the job of her parents. Secondly no person is held accountable for the sins of another.

Allah says in the Quran, the interpretation of the meaning,

"...that no bearer of burdens can bear the burden of another.." [Quran 53:38]

Thirdly, your father was wrong to give you the email to those girls because it is forbidden for a man to talk to a non-mahram female alone even if it involved learning Quran.

Forthly, Islam prohibits the marrying of a person against their will.

Brother I suggest you continue to maintain your deen and realize that you are not held accountable for no one but your own soul. Also stay away from girls. If you are interested in marriage then first make sure you can provide for yourself and then approach your parents and tell them you are ready to marry..

AND ALLAH KNOWS BEST

Laila Nasheeba

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