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Laila Nasheeba
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Date Posted: 07:52:59 11/29/02 Fri
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sister
's message, "leaving a person who does not pray" on 07:18:43 11/29/02 Fri
As Salaamu Alaikoum,
You come here everyday asking questions in regards to your personal life, and when the questions are answered, you come back and always give excuses as to why you can not do the things necessary to correct your life...sister if you do not have the courage to Obey Allah then there is nothing I nor anyone else can do for you!
On the day of judgement we will stand before Allah barefoot, naked and uncircumcised and he will ask you why did you not Obey him, and he will not accept any of your feeble excuses.
Do you think that you are the only woman who is tested with the man she married? Many were the women of the Sahabah who left their husbands in obediance to Allah rather than stay married to a Kaafir...
Zaynab, the daughter of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). She was married to Abu’l-‘Aas ibn al-Rabee’ during the Jaahiliyyah, but when she became Muslim, their marriage was annulled, and she went and stayed with her father (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). When her husband became Muslim, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) sent her back to him. [Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1143; Abu Dawood, 2240; Ibn Maajah, 2009; classed as saheeh by Imaam Ahmad, 1789. Al-Tirmidhi said, there is nothing wrong with its isnaad].
Abu Talhah married Umm Sulaym and the mahr between them was Islam. Umm Sulaym became Muslim before Abu Talhah. He proposed marriage to her and she said, “I have become Muslim. If you become Muslim I will marry you.” So he became Muslim and that was the mahr between them. [Narrated by al-Nasaa’i, 3340]
The daughter of al-Waleed ibn al-Magheerah, the wife of Safwaan ibn Umayyah, became Muslim before him, and the marriage was annulled. Then he became Muslim later on, and she went back to him. It was narrated by Maalik in al-Muwatta’, 1132. Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr said: I do not know of any unbroken saheeh isnaad for this hadeeth, but it is famous and well known to the scholars of seerah, Ibn Shihaab, the leader of the scholars of seerah, and al-Shu’bi. The fame of this hadeeth is stronger than its isnaad in sha Allaah. [al-Tamheed, 12/19]
Umm Hakeem bint al-Haarith ibn Hishaam, the wife of ‘Ikrimah ibn Abi Jahl. Her marriage was annulled, then he became Muslim during her ‘iddah, so she went back to her husband. [Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah in al-Musannaf, 4/107]
Many of these women had children but no money, no families, no nothing.. but they all had one thing that you yourself admit to not having....COURAGE.
It was because of the Courage and faith these women had that Allah chose to bless them even more..by making their husbands Muslim or in some cases...giving them even better husbands.
You need to stop looking for reasons to not correct your life and instead find the Courage to Obey Allah and do as he has instructed you to do. Your life will never be happy as long as you continue to live in contradiction to his laws and those of the Prophet(saw).
May Allah bless us all with the Courage to Obey his Commands and stay on the path of the Sunnah!
AND ALLAH KNOWS BEST
Laila Nasheeba
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