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Date Posted: 00:05:06 09/30/16 Fri
Author: Lucy (new board+more responses)
Subject: Re: Is my husband gay
In reply to: TD 's message, "Re: Is my husband gay" on 09:22:32 09/28/16 Wed

There is a new SSN forum-link below your post ----aways down.

You'll get more feedback if you post on the new board.

As to the question as to whether he is gay-there are a lot of red flags here-

1]comment by x wife-too bad she didn't tell u the truth and help you avoid this nightmare
2]getting job where he is gone from home a lot-perfect opportunity to 'play'
3]getting drunk to dull his self loathing
4]repeatedly making passes at men and blaming it on being drunk-do you attempt repeatedly to make out with your girlfriends or younger women if you've imbibed a little too much?
5]sleeping in another bed-no hetero guy that I have ever known avoids sex at any time, even when ill

Please reread your post as if a friend, daughter or patient had written it. What advice would you give? Step away and think about your answer.
Good luck and keep posting-we've all been where u are and we understand . Hugs

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