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Date Posted: 13:28:07 05/24/16 Tue
Author: Anon (what an evil person)
Subject: Re: Getting away from TGT cont...
In reply to: Rob 's message, "Getting away from TGT cont..." on 12:12:55 05/24/16 Tue

Ive coined a new name for your demon- its LGIDNED-
Ive heard via this forum, you discover and deal with this person and she really is evil. But you Rob have almost made it through your version of hell. And you are coming through as much much stronger every day. Good work. You can do this. You ARE doing this.
The good news is that you are almost done and you can start your new life and make it what you want it to be. She may have half your assets, but you are walking away with half of yours too.Some of us were married to closeted men who not only used marital assets on gay sex, but had been hiding and transferring assets throughout the entire marriage because they knew that with one false move their other life could be discovered and then they'd have to split assets, so they hid them in preparation.
Its not fair of course, but it hasn't been fair from the get go because she was a liar about who she really was. But from here on in, its your life to live. Your assets to manage.Your life to really live.
Im no attorney, but when the divorce is signed, she is on her own. You could tell her that she needs her things out by the day things are signed. I wouldn't let her stay even one more second. You could tell her she needs to pick up her stuff the day before the divorce is signed or that her stuff will be put outside the front door on that date and if she doesn't pick it up, you'll call the local charity truck to pick it up. Change the locks. She likes to jerk your chain so maybe communication via e mail alone would be best communication method. These narcissistic types will move on if they see that they can no longer yank your chain. And be prepared when she decides she's made a mistake [by this I mean she will miss her cushy life and her lez girlfriend/ lez life won't seem nearly as appealing as her life with you.... Ive heard of this happening many times-they try to come crawling back to you because they don't really like their new lez life.
Please put distance between yourself and her, She is evil. You seem like a really nice man and do not deserve to be hurt by her any longer. DO NOT LET HER HURT you anymore.
You are almost there buddy , hang on, almost there. Virtual party for Rob the day the divorce is final!

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Re: Getting away from TGT cont... -- Rob (no party here), 13:43:39 05/24/16 Tue
Re: Getting away from TGT cont... -- Mary (Yes! Party for Rob!,), 01:04:11 05/25/16 Wed