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Subject: Re: Need some help!!!!


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Tammy
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Date Posted: 11:29:14 06/13/07 Wed
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: Need some help!!!!" on 09:59:59 06/13/07 Wed
 Thanks Heather,
I made a copy of the Helpful Tips and outlined some things that I thought they really needed to take a look at. I wrote a letter to her boss, I don't know if it will do any good but at least they will know how I feel now. As far as my daughters little girl, we have raised her but what is more important right now is how her daughter feels and she is very confused because my daughter keeps telling her that she will be moving back in with her when she gets well. Her daughter is afraid that she will no longer be living with us and is afraid that she will have to move when mommy gets better. Her daughter doesn't remember anything different then living with us and she has come to know us as mom and dad and our other children as her brother and sisters. We have not forced this at all and left it up to her on what she wanted to do and that is what she chose. For that counsler to even consider the fact that we should just give her back to Anna like she didn't have any say or thoughts on it was stupid. That little girl has feelings and thinks beyond her age, she's not stupid and knows that her mom is the one that carried her in her tummy and that is why she is her mom and she knows that my husband and I are her dad and mom because we are the ones that take care of her, love her and are there for her no matter what. Sorry to go on about this but it just hits a hard spot with me because I have seen so many grandparents that have raised their grandchildren for years and then when the addict gets clean they come back and want the kids back. It not only tears the grandparents up but most of the time the kids are ripped in two because the parents are mad at the grandparents and won't let the kids see the people that have been loving them and taking care of them for the last few years. What is funny is in the end the kids either get old enough and move back in with their grandparents or the state has to step in again because the parents relapse and they go back to the grandparents anyways. I just don't want to see my little girl go through all that hell.
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