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Subject: Re: He wants to pick my son up for the weekend


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Heather
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Date Posted: 12:41:14 04/18/07 Wed
In reply to: Hulalea 's message, "Re: He wants to pick my son up for the weekend" on 12:09:31 04/18/07 Wed
 Well I told him he needs to bring a drug test for current, a current hair follicle test result from a clinic and my child support, then he can take him for a visit. Other than that, my son will not go, this will not be discussed with my son. This is between him and I and my son will not be there when he shows up cause I do not want any false hope for my boy. If he doesnt have those three items, he will not even show up, I know him. This is all talk. =) He says our boy is his only family and he will stay committed to him yet two weeks ago he states that his head is so screwed up and he does not know how to stay commited to anything or anybody. He really needs to see someone and it isnt my son. He needs major professional help.
I told him that he will not use my son as an anchor for his life, that he needs to be strong enough for himself. He also seems to think that he has never told my son inappropriate things concerning our relationship.
I have no time for his games, I have no energy to deal with his illness and I will not throw my son to the wolves so that SPENCER can feel better about himself.
I really am stuck at this point.
Do I go get an emergency restraining order so that we can face the judge on this? Or do I just say we are busy and if he really wants a relationship with our son, he will do all the work to get that. ???
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Re: He wants to pick my son up for the weekendHeather13:12:15 04/18/07 Wed

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