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Subject: Re: He wants to pick my son up for the weekend


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Heather
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Date Posted: 13:12:15 04/18/07 Wed
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: He wants to pick my son up for the weekend" on 12:41:14 04/18/07 Wed
 THis is what I told him now and I am sticking to it:

I told him that I would love for him to pick him up. I would love for him to be a dad to him. I told him we can meet with a mediator at the court and that all he would need to do is take our court papers down there and ask how to arrange a meeting.
I told him that this has affected all of us and our son is the one that is is going to continue to affect if I allow it and I will not because he needs to be healthy minded. His future depends on it. I also reminded him of the things he told me about his head and the way he was feeling and the way his body was feeling and how if he is not healthy, how does he expect to be healthy to take care of our son.
I was nice, generous and that is all. I told him I am making changes in my life and that this is one obstacle that I do not need to conquer.
So I left the ball in his court. If he is serious he will do what he needs to do. This is just a situation I am choosing not to deal with any longer.

What do you think? I handled it good?
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Re: He wants to pick my son up for the weekendShelly17:34:13 04/18/07 Wed

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