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Subject: Need a reality check


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Heather
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Date Posted: 16:40:08 07/12/06 Wed
 ok I need a reality check. Why oh why is my stomach hurting over this stuff still? ok first the rehab will not honor the suponeau for the records, and I have to finish up the paperwork to give him supervised visits as long as a drug hair follicle test is completed. This is giving me a headache and putting me in a very bad mood. I so want him to be in my son's life and help me raise him, but we all know the deal. I asked him for a drug test cause apparently he is clean, but he has not changed the way he acts at all. up and down still. I finally told him that we will not have this conversation again. He knows what he needs to do but comes up with excuses left and right. I've asked him not to call my house but he continues to call. Why do I feel sorry for him as if he deserves no consequences to the actions he performed for nearly 5 years? Or has it now been longer than that? Each time he has called in the last month he has a different attitude and pretends to forget what was said on the last phone call. He told me that Bernie's son just gave him a five year contract to do the cleaning for the company that Spencer got fired from for first drugs and then cheating on his time card. He is getting things handed to him. He has not worked for any of it. Bernie says it - he gets it. He will not learn that way right? I don't think he has cause now he expects me to hand over my son to him and I just cannot do it. Am I wrong? Should I just start believing him? I can't wait for the judge to sign these papers so that I can just let it all go. I went to a place today to see if they would honor the supervised visits and they said only if my son was taken away by authorities. Well I never let that happen so now what? My family does not want to deal with him and neither do I.
I need help with this. I feel like I can't let go of this until I get it all figured out for the paperwork and then I will be able to live Spencer free. I don't want to deal with him at all.
Heather
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Re: Need a reality checkShari21:21:49 07/12/06 Wed
Re: Need a reality checksusan f21:29:00 07/12/06 Wed
Re: Need a reality checkHulalea22:45:06 07/12/06 Wed

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