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Subject: Re: For those of you that are an addict/were a user


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Heather
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Date Posted: 09:08:11 07/30/06 Sun
In reply to: Shari 's message, "Re: For those of you that are an addict/were a user" on 20:18:38 07/29/06 Sat
 Thanks. Yes I knew but in speaking with him last week, he insinuated that I had issues and wanted to control him. He just doesn't get the fact that I just want him to go away cause he makes us all very sick.
I got my court date in the mail yesterday so that made me feel so much better. Life is coming together - although I cried my eyes out last night, and not over Spencer. Over the fact that I let this happen to me and my kids and I am paying for it. I was naive to it for so long and that is the only reason for years that this happened.
And now I feel good about starting to date, but that is the hardest thing to do. Everyone seems to make it so complicated - then my friend told me yesterday that I am not the same person I was before, not as bold and forward. I actually love myself alot better now than before. Before I didn't have the experience of hardship, now I do and it has humbled me. There are not too many humble people out there. I found one and he is scared of getting rejected. Guess what. I like him. I am so picky with people that I allow in my life now and that is a good thing. I would like to get to know him better but I think he has been hurt really bad and is scared. I guess Spencer made me think that all men were made of steel like Superman, but I guess it was just the meth that made him feelingless. Makes sense.
Today is my son's 5th Birthday and he woke up so excited. He already asked me if his dad would be there and I said No. He didn't say anything else about it. It's like he just knows. I wish he could be there but under the circumstances it is not a good idea. The judge will have to tell me that he is allowed to see him. My son is having trouble in school and when I told them what was going on they said it makes sense to them now. So they will offer counseling to him mid August and I am taking him to see one next week because he told me last week that his dad did something to him. Not sure if he made it up but it was said and the phychologist said it is important not to ignore but that kids do make things up. I'm not sure he would be able to just make this up. We will see though.
Thanks for all your support.
Heather
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Re: For those of you that are an addict/were a userHeather20:34:42 07/31/06 Mon
    Re: For those of you that are an addict/were a userShari16:57:08 08/01/06 Tue

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