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Subject: Servus James, es geht schon so halbwegs, in particular when I don't need to leave the house and can hide from that stupid hay fever.

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Alie

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Date Posted: Thursday, May 01 2003, 4:56:24 GMT ( - 8 )
In reply to: James 's message, "Hey" on Tuesday, April 29 2003, 11:12:22 GMT ( - 8 )

I have to agree with Duckie and Trevor. Either he's a complete dork or he has to have at least a faint inkling. He also seems to think that you are not a complete dork as he didn't run. I think he may be waiting for you to make the first step. You obviously know for sure hat he's gay, so he has to be out at least to his friends. You are not out, so he's very likely a bit hesitant to risk getting whacked upside the head if his gaydar gave false signal.

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[> Subject: Hey James, I want an update!
Author: Alie [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: Thursday, May 08 2003, 13:25:43 GMT ( - 8 ) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Ok here's whats been happening...

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James
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Date Posted: Friday, May 09 2003, 18:03:26 GMT ( - 8 )

I haven't actually seen Russel around to ask him out or anything for the time being. Actually, I think it might be a mistake to take things too quickly - after all, we don't even really know each other, and he's pretty cold until he gets to know you, apparently.

However, I had a really long chat with a female friend of mine today, for hours. I never talked to anyone before in r/l about gay stuff, but I'd told her a while back but we didn't really say much about it... but today we talked about it and my crush on Russel. It may just be talking, but I felt a hell of a lot better about it afterwards - like it's been stored up for a long time, and now I can be open about it to her at least, and also a couple of other friends.

So basically, I've recruited her to help me get to know Russel. Anyway, we're all going out for tea tomorrow (tea in UK = dinner by the way, or is it "supper" in the US?), and then a couple of cocktails. I'm going to invite Russel - it could be good fun.

Anyway, things are happening, which is something. I guess its good tho' that I've got plenty of stuff on now - 2 essays per week, loads of reading and work to do, and I meet up with my friends at night. I have a little less time to think about Russel - which makes me more likely to actually meet up with him or something. Anyway, I'll keep you posted!

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[> [> [> Subject: This sounds like a good start - I'll keep my fingers crossed!
Author: Alie [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: Saturday, May 10 2003, 10:34:07 GMT ( - 8 ) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]