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Kris
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Date Posted: 10:01:50 05/10/08 Sat
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Kris
's message, "How to move forward. Have so much resentment" on 00:08:43 05/05/08 Mon
Dear Kris,
It would be important for you to take care of YOURSELF at this point. You need to be kind and caring and loving to YOU, not to your bf. I think it's critical that we pay attention to our own needs, getting healthy, mentally, physically and spiritually, in order to even begin healthy relationships. I'm not meaning this in a selfish, self-seeking way kind of thing. I mean that You need to find Your peace and your healing and sometimes keeping the past around us doesn't allow for that.
Have you looked into the post-abortion counseling? It's super important for you at this point. At a minimum, it would be good to journal your thoughts and feelings and work through your conflicting emotions that way. It's better to have a sounding board and a voice of reason though (say, through a counselor).
I'm not saying walk away from a man you think you love. I'm just saying, it's important for you to love yourself first, then you can better love the people around you. A time away from an intense relationship can sometimes clear things up about how your really feeling.
Hang in there,
Kris
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