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Subject: Re: i just dont understand Author: lauren [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 00:47:21 08/30/05 Tue In reply to: kasey 's message, "i just dont understand" on 02:44:54 08/22/05 Mon you know what, that isnt crazy to say. im in the same situation. the only people that know i had an abortion is my boyfriedn and my parents. but they all act like nothing happened.. and if i say something, its like they dont know what to say to me so they change the subject. it makes me really pissed. makes me resentful towards my boyfriend, because its almost like i feel he did it to me. you know what i mean? and then you feel like you're being dramatic when you get upset about it.. but.. i dotn know, its definitely a touchy subject. but you're not the only one that feels liek that... if that helps at all. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: i just dont understand Author: hottrini [Edit] Date Posted: 23:06:36 10/15/05 Sat i read your letter today are you still together? well if you are maybe he is not pretending remember he is a man he is different from us our way is talking about it there way is well they don't talk about it and that there way of dealing with the it because to think about it what can they do about it whats done is alreADY DONE its not that they don't feel bad they just deal with it inside have you ever thought that he does not want to load you with his emotional baggage? maybe his silence is his way of dealing with this don't probe into things that may not be there you may only be pushing him away by thinking that he does not care.