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Subject: turn back time

Author:
annie

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Date Posted: 18:58:17 08/27/07 Mon

Can you turn back time. I would give anything to go back to august 17th at 10am and stop myself. I can't believe i was so selfish and cowardly in thinking i couldn't do this on my own. I'm older, educated, great job, house, and family. Why was i so worried about this "messing up my life." What kind of excuse is that? The father didn't want it so it just made it seem the easiest thing. He doesn't know how to help and by saying "i still think it was the best decision in the long run" doesn't help me in the present. I can't even be around my 6 week old nephew for long before i have to leave and go home and breakdown. I'm jealous of pregnant wowan...actully i hate them. That is horrible to say! Why were they brave enough to face the world and have their child. Why didn't i think i could do it. why. i want a do over. now. I fell in love with this child from day one, decided i couldn't do that, aborted it, and now i want it back. When am i going to stop hating myself. I'm scared it will never be better.

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[> Subject: Re: turn back time

Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 09:45:33 08/30/07 Thu

Dear Annie,

It's important for you to find the healing you need. Please call a local pregnancy center - 1-800-395-HELP can direct you to one in your area. Ask for their free Post-abortion counseling. If there isn't one in your area, you can find similar help online. Visit these sites for more information:

http://www.safehavenministries.com/

http://www.optionline.org/hadabortion.html

Please don't let up on seeking the help you need to heal -

Hugs,
Kris