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Subject: Re: I just cant go on


Author:
Mary
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Date Posted: 23:10:28 06/03/06 Sat
In reply to: Devin 's message, "I just cant go on" on 14:14:54 06/02/06 Fri

Devin,

Hi, my name is Mary and Cheryl51 wanted me to write you. First of all I want you to know that there is hope, healing and forgiveness. I am sorry for your loss and I will do everything I can to help you through this. I want to give you my email so we can talk privately and talk more often. There is alot you need to know because abortion can effect every area of your life if you don't go through the healing process, specially relationships. Go to these web sites and also we can send you information on healing and recovery. Please write me back too. www.operationoutcry.org www.hopemonument.com www.afterabortion.org

I submitted to an abortion when I was 17 so I now the grief and sadness that happens after. You are doing the best thing you can do by reaching out for help and we are here for you!!
My email is mjschoettle@aol.com

Hugs,

Mary

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[> Subject: Re: I just cant go on


Author:
Pat
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Date Posted: 01:04:09 06/04/06 Sun

Devin,

I am so sorry! I have a sense of what you are going through because of some experiences in my own life.

Please do not harm yourself. We love you, and God loves you, and forgiveness is possible.

The other women said some really good things. I don't have a lot to add to what they have already said.

Try not to associate with your boyfriend as long as he is treating you so badly. Just make it clear to him that his treatment of you is unacceptable. Tell him that you need to not see him, and then stick to it. He has some issues to work through. Don't take the blame for the coercion he applied to you, and the lies he told you.

Just know that we care, and we'll be here for you.

Please pray and seek forgiveness from God. He will forgive you. I won't go into a lot of detail right now because I don't know where you stand on the question of religion and faith, but it is something I am more than willing to discuss.

Hugs,
Pat



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