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Date Posted: 21:30:20 12/22/06 Fri
Author: Michelle
Subject: Patience required

Dear Friends,

This is one of those nights where I am so angry at DH I could strangle him. May still murder the moron in his sleep.

EVERY single bloody time the oldest SS is off meds, all H*ll breaks loose. Every single time he's off meds DH makes a decision unilaterally and doesn't discuss with me. And then, when it all goes to h*ll , I have to bite my tongue.

I'm FURIOUS. Not so much at the idea that oldest SS can't be given the chance, but at the fact that DH doesn't realize how much AS affects our lives.

Want to cry.

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[> *holding you close* I hope things get better for Christmas Michelle, I'm so sorry you're going through this, did he survive the night? ;) I hope your DH realizes that he needs to discuss these things with you as his life partner and responsible member of the family...it's painful to watch things like this go on and feel that you're on the outside of somekind of thin glass wall...*holding you in my prayers* sending you much love... -- Viive, 01:53:17 12/24/06 Sun


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[> [> He figured it out. Fool had the good sense to stay out of my way and let me get glad in the same pair of pants I got mad in. And, given that our middle one told his brother to quit stomping, I think the "effect" msg got delivered better than I could have. So, lesson learned - AGAIN - he is, as my cousin reminded me last night, a Capricorn Man...and it takes liberal applications of the 2x4 to their hard heads sometimes! LOL -- Michelle, 09:11:50 12/24/06 Sun


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