The thing is I don't know if she is this way with all guys are not. I don't have that much experience with her around other guys. The issue that I had more than anything wasnt the flirting it was cuddling up to him that bothered me more than anything. But your right that just might be the way that she is with guys. .......... (go inside for more) -- NSYNC Skeedettes

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Date Posted: 23:53:52 05/05/01 Sat
Author: j-skee
Subject: The thing is I don't know if she is this way with all guys are not. I don't have that much experience with her around other guys. The issue that I had more than anything wasnt the flirting it was cuddling up to him that bothered me more than anything. But your right that just might be the way that she is with guys. .......... (go inside for more)
In reply to: C-Skee 's message, "I dont see anything wrong with what you wrote. May have been better to just talk to her about it, but I know that is easier said than done!!! Had she brought it up at all? I think that the way you approached it as far as letting her know how much your friendship means to you was the best way to do it. I wouldn't worry too much if I were you. I certainly underestand why it was bothering you! Question to you, do you think he is interested in her? ..." on 22:43:00 05/05/01 Sat

But when I asked her if she liked him and she said no and that I should go for it she should back down and stop the cuddling and some of the flirting. But no she didnt cut down. Im glad to hear that you think what I wrote in the letter was okay. I had been worried all day and everyone said don't worry about it. But when I got home she didnt talk at all with me about it. Is it my place to say something to her or hers to respond to the letter that I wrote her. Because when I sorta tried to talk to her the other day about what we should do if we both liked him she kinda just shrugged of the convo. I just don't know how do deal with the situation. I don't think that I have ever had a problem quite like this one before. Not that I havent had friends before and we liked the same guy but this seems so weird. I'm so confused as to what in the heck is going on. I also don't know if he likes either one of us. I want to maybe try and talk to him and see what he says but you know how I am when it comes to guys. NERVOUS and way to SHY. You also know that I am really picky about guys and that it takes an awful lot for me to like someone. He is really nice and polite and yes he is even cute and so what he is short (but he is only 18 plenty of time to grow taller). I also have issues with the fact that Catherine seems to already like two other guys. One of them I think she would be perfect with, so I am trying to continue to push that subject as much as I can. I don't know what Josh's opinion of me might be. We all got kinda drunk on my bday and when Catherine went to bed Josh and I SPOONED (I had to put that in there for old times sack c-skee) and talked for like an 1 1/2. And when he finally went back to his place I got a little kiss, not a kiss, kiss but a "peck". So maybe it was the alcohol, or maybe he likes me I just don't know. Why does my life have to be so complicated. Why do I have to always seem to have the most interesting life when it comes to guys, my emotions, my anxiety, my nerves, heck everything. I really need everyone to pray for my sanity right now because I think I am about to go off the deep end. Things have been so stable in my life (as stable as can possibly be for me) and now this whole situation comes up and boom things are complicated again like there were in high school and college. Ya know it was better off when I didn't have a guy I was interested in, I wouldnt have to worry to much or have a nervous stomach. Okay enough of me spilling out my guts to you guys. I should pop on tomorrow before I go to work and find out if anyone has added anything enlightning to my post. I love and miss you guys.

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My thoughts ---> -- Silver, 02:53:50 05/06/01 Sun
- Gosh silver you are always there for a good laugh. (inside) -- j-skee, 08:34:20 05/06/01 Sun