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Subject: HERES "SCOOTER GIRL"!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 01:27:16 10/14/04 Thu

[> Subject: CLICK ON PICTURE FOR VIDEO


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Mark
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Date Posted: 15:17:51 10/11/04 Mon
OR RIGHT CLICK PICTURE AND SAVE TARGET AS
[> [> Subject: FUN!!


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 20:59:47 10/11/04 Mon
I had a blast on that thing!! I only wish it were faster!!
[> [> [> Subject: cute


Author:
Nancy Buscarino
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Date Posted: 08:10:02 10/12/04 Tue
Looks like you're having fun. Did you get any of your flowers planted. Chilly here. Rain tomorrow. Good for your plants. That was sure some cucumber your Dad got. I hope you are having a good week. Love Aunt Nancy
[> [> [> [> Subject: HI AUNT NANCY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:32:25 10/12/04 Tue
I was having a lot of fun on that thing. It doesn't go very fast, only about 25 mph tops. But it's fun to ride around Dad's neighborhood on that thing. It belongs to a friend of Mark's. Dad keeps telling me I should buy one. I told him to remember me at Christmas!! He said they sell some that look like little Harley Davidson's. That would be a blast!

I got 225 bulbs planted this week. I still have another 300 to go! It's supposed to rain some between tomorrow night and Friday so I think I'll wait until after then. The ground will be softer.

I'm glad you liked the birthday post I had on here!! I got your email, I can't wait for you all to come up!! I sure hope Aunt Jo is feeling good these days. Tell her hello and I love her.

I love you and miss you!
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: UPDATE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:27:16 10/14/04 Thu
I decided to go ahead and plant the remainder of the bulbs today. I'm so glad that's finished. That's a lot of work!!

Subject: BALTIMORE RAVENS


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:19:36 10/14/04 Thu


Opponent: Kansas City Chiefs
Site: M&T Bank Stadium
When: Monday, Oct. 4, 9 p.m.
TV: ABC
Radio: WJFK (1300 AM), WQSR (102.7 FM)

Next up: Washington Redskins, Oct. 10


I KNOW WHAT I'M DOING MONDAY NIGHT, HOW ABOUT YOU??


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[> Subject: BUMMER


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:52:40 10/05/04 Tue
BUMMER!! They lost 27 to 24. Kansas City played a good game.
[> [> Subject: I FELL ASLEEP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Author:
Mark Preston
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Date Posted: 07:59:01 10/06/04 Wed
I managed to stay up till 9:30ish,at that point we were still winning! I fell asleep till the next moening! Then I saw the news we lost on TV!

Hopefully we'll kick some A** this weekend in DC!
[> [> [> Subject: GO RAVENS!!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:19:36 10/14/04 Thu
GO RAVENS!! They beat the Redskins 17 to 10!!


Subject: SO......


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:23:02 10/11/04 Mon
SO...... what's going on in your lives?
[> Subject: Me and Brian are headed to Cecil County DragWay tonight. He's going to run his orange ChevyII!


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Mark Preston
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Date Posted: 07:56:21 10/06/04 Wed
HOPEFULLY SEE A 10 Second PASS OUT OF IT TONIGHT!
I'll have the camcorderb too!

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[> Subject: Howdy!


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:12:37 10/06/04 Wed
Hi Stacy!

I'm on vacation this week. Just trying to get some errands done around the house. Obviously I can't go away for the week, since Patrick is in school. So I'm doing a lot of chores that I would normally do on weekends. Exciting, huh?

When the doc told my dad that his chemo had been as successful as they could hope, and that they couldn't find any more cancer to treat, he told him that there would be monthly x-rays for at least 3 months to make sure the cancer didn't come right back. Well, the first x-ray was last week, and it looked good. So we're all happy about that. He's slowly regaining the feeling in his feet. Apparently that Taxol lingers in the body for a long time, and it may take months for his feet to return to normal. But he's using his walker much less now. Needless to say, my mom has been in a good mood lately!
[> [> Subject: HOWDY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:23:00 10/09/04 Sat
So how has your vacation at home been? It's always nice to just simply be away from work. Doing your chores early should leave you with lots of time this weekend for FUN!!! There's a car show this weekend in Ocean City plus it's Octoberfest down there too. I won't be attending either but I thought you might like to know.

Yep, the Taxol can have lingering side effects for up to a year or even longer. It took a long time for me to "recover". I have to wonder though, has your father noticed a difference in the amount of bug bites he gets? When I was on Taxol I didn't get bit by mosquitos or any insects at all. That was a wonderful side effect until last year. Keep in mind that I had Taxol in 1999 and it "protected" me through 2002. I used to get bit ALL THE TIME until the Taxol!! Gee I must have sweet blood. When spring hit in 2003 I started getting bit again. Needless to say, the drug I'm on now doesn't offend them. I get bit just as much now as I did before Taxol. Ask your Dad if he's noticed a difference. It would be interesting to know if that happened for anyone else.


[> [> [> Subject: Vacation, insects, etc.......


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 00:23:02 10/11/04 Mon
My vacation activities consisted of 1) sleeping later than usual; and 2) doing chores around the house. It was NOT too exciting. But at least I got more rest than I do when I'm working.

The skeeters have always left my dad alone. Maybe it was the Vitalis in his hair, or the Viceroys on his breath (although he quit smoking 20+ years ago). So we can't tell if the Taxol provided any extra protection!
Subject: DAD MADE IT TO THE AEGIS NEWSPAPER!


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 13:28:43 10/09/04 Sat

Subject: HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNT NANCY


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 08:30:02 10/09/04 Sat


HERE'S THE BIRTHDAY GIRL!!



I LOVE YOU AUNT NANCY!!

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[> Subject: Big thank you


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nancy buscarino
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Date Posted: 08:30:02 10/09/04 Sat
Thank you so much Stacy. That was nice. Sorry I missed it. Pegs was nice too. I got a picture of your Dad holding that big cucumber from Mark this morning. Sure is big. Have a great day. I hope to see you soon. When jo can travel we are coming up. Thanks so much for my lovely birthday card. Love Aunt Nancy
Subject: DALE EARNHARDT JR WINS TALLEDEGA!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:01:34 10/06/04 Wed
Dale Earnhardt Jr. charged from 11th place to a victory and the series points lead in the last five laps of Sunday's NASCAR Nextel Cup race at Talladega Superspeedway. This was his 14th career victory and fifth of the season. This also moved Earnhardt from third in the point race standings to a 13-point lead over Kurt Busch, who finished fifth!

GO JR * GO JR * GO JR!!




[> Subject: Such language!


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:01:34 10/06/04 Wed
Junior needs to have his mouth washed out with soap! (25 points worth of soap, apparently.)
Subject: MOVING


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:03:53 10/05/04 Tue

Subject: soap opera


Author:
danersmiff and gal-pal suzy..
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Date Posted: 21:17:21 10/04/04 Mon
sue and i dated when we were in our 20's. we had absolutely nothing to offer each other, and we drifted apart. no hassles, just qwit caalling each other because we both thought we were staring at a dead end?
we both got married to folks that didn't work out. so 25 years later, a mutual friend, who knew we were both single, put us back in touch. he died of cancer 2 years ago. i will miss him.
but the incredible ms gresham and i have been co-habitating for almost 2 years. we almost had a fight at 11 months. since then, life continues to throw darts at us, but we continue to do the stroll. we call each other shithead, and laugh.
pinch me!
if you pinch hard enough i will marry her,- but she has to stop laughing every time i bring it up....how weird is this?
i have lived a tough life. i have regrets, who doesn't? but if the good lord swoops down tomorrow, and takes me to answer for my sins, just pinch me, i stole the cake!!LOL
[> Subject: PINCHED


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:28:18 09/23/04 Thu
CONSIDER YOURSELF PINCHED
[> Subject: all the Way from KATY,TEXAS! Heres the Dynamic Duo!


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Sue & Dan
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Date Posted: 13:13:56 09/29/04 Wed

[> [> Subject: SUE & DANA


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SUE & DANA
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Date Posted: 13:15:24 09/29/04 Wed
missed an "A"
WHOOPS!
[> [> [> Subject: ok so here's the deal.


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pinched
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Date Posted: 19:30:19 09/29/04 Wed
i brought up the idea of marriage again tonight and before it's over she is laughing again. so i suggested she ask her mom. she said her mom would probably start laughing, too! damned the luck. now mind you it is not laughing at me, or i would throw her out of the house-- it is just laughing. seems to me this is perty serious. what is up with this?? so why would a woman start giggling and laughing when a man starts talking about marriage? it kind of reminds me of a salesman who starts grinning too much just before you close a deal...scares the shit out of me.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Hmmmm


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:31:18 09/29/04 Wed
I guess it all depends on HOW you're bringing up the subject. Maybe she doesn't think you're serious. Or maybe the idea of that kind of a committment scares HER!! I know the idea of marriage is the furthest thing from my mind. Who knows, maybe women are changing these days and don't want to get married. I'm definitely not the right one to ask about it. Good grief, I don't even want to date anyone let alone get married. Suggest a date to go get a marriage license and see how she responds.
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: more soap opera


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Date Posted: 21:13:15 10/04/04 Mon
ok- we are on this diet. it involves a lot of vegetable soup. i called my mother today and we discussed a few things, including this diet. (i must add- i am losing weight.) we discuss costs of living, cost of insurance, cost of a lot of things. so my mother-(in all her glory)-suggests that along with marriage comes cheaper car insurance and an extra dependent on the old w-2, as well as all the other attributes of marriage. then she backs that up with her old man Howard,(married to mom,& not my father), who says that if i don't marry Sue he will? i told him the line started at the front door, and it was not short. in the meantime Ms. Sue, (the incredible Ms. Gresham) is howling with laughter..today's SOAP is- pressure from my family, (again). why is it that her family does not feel the need to say anything, but mine does? strange, is it not? the ongoing saga... Be Sure to Tune in Next week....(will she say yes?- does danersmiff know the answer? or, is he just fooling himself? the shadow knows!!)
[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: why did this rotate up to the top?


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d---
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Date Posted: 21:17:21 10/04/04 Mon
i wanted to be under junior, where the soap opera belongs.
Subject: A PICTURE IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:43:10 10/03/04 Sun

Subject: 41st CHEMO


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:41:07 09/29/04 Wed
I had my 41st chemo yesterday. The nurses always draw blood first to check the counts of the red blood cells, white blood cells, hematocrit, hemoglobin, and platelets. If everything is within a decent range, I will receive chemo.



These are the descriptions of the different types of cells within the blood:


Platelets – blood cell particles involved with the forming of blood clots. If they are too low and you get a cut, you could bleed to death. Normal range between 140 - 440.

RBC – red blood cells measure the number of blood cells available to carry oxygen to all cells. Normal range between 4.20 - 6.10.

WBC – white blood cells are the body’s primary defense against disease. White blood cells help fight infection. Normal range between 4.8 - 10.8.

Hematocrit – measures the volume of red cells that transports oxygen through the blood stream to all cells of the body. Oxygen is needed for healthy organs. It is an indicator of the mass of red blood cells. Normal range between 37.0 - 52.0.

Hemoglobin – a chemical compound inside red cells that transports oxygen through the blood stream to all cells of the body. Oxygen is needed for healthy organs. Hemoglobin gives the red color to blood. Normal range between 12.0 - 18.0.

I almost didn't have chemo because my platelet count was so low. It was only 91. My red blood cells were only at 3.66, my hemoglobin was 11.8, the hematocrit was 33.9, and my white blood cells were right on the border at 4.8. You can read the normal ranges above. This definitely has an impact on how fatigued I get. Well I definitely had to have the shot of Aranesp in my belly to replenish my blood counts.



My nurse, Tracey, talked with Dr. Hahn to determine whether or not I would get chemo. He decided I would get it but only 60% of the dosage he normally gives me. Normally I receive 2000 micrograms but this time I only received 1200 mg's. That's the first time we've had to reduce the dosage. Fortunately that was the last treatment of this round so I will be on a break next week. My blood counts should recover nicely.

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[> Subject: Week off


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 00:15:49 09/18/04 Sat
I guess having every fourth week off from chemo helps, huh? My dad seemed to think so. It gave him a little extra time to get his weight back up a little, regain some strength, and get his blood counts back up. Maybe you'll be strong enough to leap tall buildings in a sinle bound!
[> [> Subject: HI CLIFF


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:16:22 09/22/04 Wed
That 4th week always helps. I have been REAL tired this week so I am relieved to have this week as a break week. I called the nurses today to ask them if I needed to come in to have my counts checked this week since the platelets were low last week. They said no but I need to watch for bruising for no reason. If my platelets were down to around 50 then I would have needed to go back in to be checked.

I don't have the problem of losing weight. I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not. LOL! I have definitely put on a few pounds thoughout this journey. I'd like to lose some of it but they say you shouldn't lose too much weight while on chemo. Supposedly it helps to keep weight on.

How is your dad doing these days?
[> [> [> Subject: Hi Stacy!


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:23:24 09/23/04 Thu
My dad lost a little weight during chemo. They had him eating all kinds of things--stuff that would normally be considered fattening--to try to keep up his weight as much as possible. He was eating ice cream every evening! I'm sure your doctor is happy that you can keep your weight up. Dad is doing quite well. In fact, I had a message from my mom yesterday. She said:

Flash!!!! Pop's x-ray today showed no tumor!!!!!! The doctor was so pleased, we both got the impression he doesn't often get to give such good news. We saw the first x-ray and todays. I am glad I didn't see the first one then, I saw it today and the tumor looked huge to me!!!! But todays showed nothing!!!!! We are indeed happy. We know too, that if a single cell got away it could turn up somewhere else. but that is not on our minds, we are just going to enjoy every day as it comes.
He still has the numbness, that could take months to go away. Pop says it is just a mite better, he doesn't use the walker so much now, just if he will be walking distances without anything to lean on. In Wegmans he uses a cart, today he walked all over the hospital to have the x-ray and then hand carry it to the doctors.
[> [> [> [> Subject: CONGRATULATIONS


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:41:07 09/29/04 Wed
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR DAD!! I bet he's thrilled there's no tumor!! That's wonderful news!! Yea, the numbing can take quite a while to go away. Maybe even up to a year. I will continue to keep him in my prayers. I will pray that the cancer doesn't come back.
Subject: IMPORTANT POEM REQUEST


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:51:29 09/23/04 Thu
This poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a New York Hospital.


SLOW DANCE

Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,"Hi"
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.

The music won't last..

When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower

Hear the music

Before the song is over.


I received this as an email. Please copy this and send it as an email to everyone because this is the request of this special girl. She will soon leave this world due to cancer. This young girl has 6 months left to live, and as her dying wish, She wanted to send a letter telling everyone to live their life to the fullest, since she never will. She'll never make it to prom, graduate from high school, or get married and have a family of her own. By you sending this to as many people as possible, you can give her and her family a little hope, because with every name that this is sent to, The American Cancer Society will donate 3 cents per name to her treatment and recovery plan.

One guy sent this to 500 people! So I know that we can at least send it to 5 or 6 --- (just think, it could be you one day). It's not even your money, just your time!

PLEASE PASS ON AS A LAST REQUEST

Dr. Dennis Shields, Professor

Department of Developmental and Molecular Biology
1300 Morris Park Avenue

Bronx, New York 10461
Subject: BUMMER


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:05:38 09/21/04 Tue
Today is the last day of summer. Tomorrow is the first day of fall. BUMMER!! I've had a blast this year outside, I don't look forward to the cold weather coming in. We may still have some hot days but the sun goes down earlier and it's getting darker sooner. Oh well, at least I'm still here and get to enjoy each day.
Subject: HAPPY BIRTHDAY JENN!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 12:42:56 09/20/04 Mon
Today,9-9-04 is Jenn's Birthday!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JENN!!!!!

[> Subject:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JENN!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 18:56:54 09/09/04 Thu


HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JENN! WISHING YOU THE BEST ONE YET!!


[> [> Subject: Thanks Stacy & Mark


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Jenn
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Date Posted: 12:19:26 09/10/04 Fri
Thanks for ALL the Birthday wishes it makes me feel good that I have some really wonderful people in my life.. I saw on mark's website that he is running his wagon tonight at Cecil are you going up with him? We are going to stop by we are taking Dana for the first time so I don't know how long we will be there depending on how she likes it. If you are going hope to see you...
[> [> [> Subject: WELL??


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:36:43 09/13/04 Mon
What was the verdict?? Did Dana enjoy herself? It was nice to finally see you again but I don't feel like we got to talk too much. I did have a really good time though. I got to watch Mark run four times!

Here's some shots from Friday night...






[> [> [> [> Subject: It's been crazy!!


Author:
Jenn
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Date Posted: 12:42:56 09/20/04 Mon
Hey Stacy. Sorry it took me soooo long to write back I haven't been feeling to well lately had a bad episode on Friday & I'm going to the Drs.today. I will let you know the verdict!!
Dana enjoyed the track she gets bored quick but Dave is taking his car up this Friday so as long as I'm feeling ok I'm going to take her with me. Sorry I didn't get much of a chance to talk to you or say goodbye we really weren't there very long if you & Mark go up Friday I'll chat with ya then.I'll write you tonight after I get back from the doctors. Take Care & Send some prayers my way...
Subject: MORE PRAYERS


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 15:51:39 09/17/04 Fri
I learned today that we need more prayers for my mother's side of the family. My 25 year old second cousin David died unexpectedly last night. He is my mother's sister's (Aunt Jo) grandchild. My deepest sympathy goes out to Valerie (David's mother, Brandi (David's sister), my Aunt Jo and the rest of the family. I am praying for strength and peace of mind for them.
Subject: HEALTH UPDATE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 09:08:23 09/17/04 Fri
Once upon a time, a girl named Stacy had to have an unexpected CT scan. So sit back and relax and enjoy the story.

Not so long ago, in the kingdom of Doncaster Village, I had started walking for exercise. I had been walking about every other day for a little over two weeks. Then this passed Tuesday it was exceptionally humid but I went ahead and walked anyway. Boy it was pretty hard on me. I was huffin' and puffin' A LOT more than I usually do. Well that night my back started aching just like it did when I started having problems last year. Then the next morning I started coughing up traces of blood. Definitely not a lot but I don't ever like to see blood from coughing. My back was aching so bad that I didn't get much sleep since I couldn't find a comfortable position.

I started the next round of chemotherapy on Thursday but I had to be examined by the doctor first. I told him what had been going on and I wondered if it was from expanding my lungs so much more than usual when walking. He wanted me to have a CT scan this week but fortunately I was able to get one scheduled for this passed Friday. In the meantime my doctor said I could keep walking.

I went ahead and had my chemo. Unfortunately I had to have that painful shot again in my belly. This time my nurse, Jeanette, wondered if I put ice on the area first and numbed the skin.... just maybe the needle would be less painful.


Sounded good to me so I put ice on my belly until the skin was numb then she gave me the shot. YYYEEEEOOOOOOOUUUUCCCHHHHHHH!!!!!! DAGGONE!! I wasn't expecting it to be painful but it was AND it was more painful then usual!! We both kinda laughed and she said "guess it doesn't work". Well now I have a bruise there. That hasn't happened before. Well needless to say we won't be trying that method again.


I went in for my CT scan on Friday. As usual the nurses had a hard time getting the needle in to inject the dye into my system.

Well they finally got it in my hand. Again... YYEEOOOUUUCCHHH!!

The scan itself went fine. It only takes a few minutes. Then came the fun part of the story....

For the first time ever, I reacted to the dye they inject. As soon as she removed the needle from my hand my legs started itching. In a very short time my entire body was blood red and covered with hives. Fortunately it didn't affect my breathing. I couldn't stand laying there anymore so I sat up. They went to get the radiologist to have him evaluate me. He determined immediately that I needed a shot of Benadryl. While they were searching for a small needle I felt like I wanted to crawl out of my own skin. MAJOR ITCHING!!!! And I got real hot. Again I had to move so I sat on the chair instead of the table. It felt like forever but he finally came in and gave me a shot in the arm of Benadryl.

That's the first time I've ever had a shot in the muscle in the arm and it didn't hurt.


It took a while but the Benadryl started working. Eventually after about 2 hours I was pretty close to being back to normal. Since they were afraid of the Benadryl starting to wear off and the reaction could start all over again, they wouldn't let me drive so Mom had to come get me. They also didn't want me to drive since the Benadryl makes people sleepy. Of course I have to be different so I don't get sleepy from it... I get happy. But they wouldn't let me drive anyway. Thanks for coming MOM!!! And thanks to your boss Heidi for letting you!! What a life saver!

We finally got to leave there and I took my films over to my doctor so he could read them.


I dropped off the films at the front desk and went to sit in the chemo room with Tracey, my other nurse. I wanted to be in there in case I needed more Benadryl but fortunately I didn't.


After just a few minutes Dr. Hahn walked into the room smiling. I love it when he comes into the room and says "Stacy, you're still boring". He said that my cancer looked the same if not better. Whatever is causing the pain and blood is not from my cancer. I guess I'll wait to see what the radiologist sees other than the cancer but it's probably just from changing my routine and walking. THANK GOD my cancer isn't any worse!!

The good news about having the reaction to the dye is... my doctor said I can get away with having the CT scan without the dye so in the future I won't have to have that needle!!!! Thank YOU LORD!!

After that, we went back and picked up my truck and we went home. I ended up hanging out with a girl friend that evening and we watched movies. All in all not a bad day, just very eventful.

And they all lived happily ever after...

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[> Subject: I have to say it.....


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:05:06 09/06/04 Mon
Well, Stacy, I guess you were just ITCHIN' to get that scan!!!!!!!!!!! I'm glad to hear that the results were good. Sorry to hear about the hives--I know that can be serious sometimes. Patrick had a reaction to an antibiotic once--doc wrote a prescription for Prednisone and said told me to give it to him ASAP, before his airways swelled up. I can only imagine the itch--must have felt like hundreds of mosquito bites at once.

Keep sharing more GOOD NEWS!!!!
[> [> Subject: ALLERGY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 10:21:50 09/09/04 Thu
Mom had an allergic reaction to Amoxicillin a couple of years ago that sent her to the hospital in an ambulance. She turned blood red and in a very short time she went into convulsions. She was at work. I was on my way to pick her up and take her to the hospital when her boss called me back and said they had to call the ambulance, they couldn't wait for me. Fortunately they did because she went into convulsions while the paramedics were there. I wouldn't have known what to do if that would have happened while she was in the car with me. THANK GOD they were there with her. They said she could have died.
[> Subject: Hello


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Bonnie
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Date Posted: 08:41:31 09/08/04 Wed
Hi Stacy, I have been reading your site, but it has been a long time since I have sent a message. One thing for sure you still have that great spirit and attitude! It is wonderful the way you can make "lemonade from lemons"--that is a very, very good thing!!

As you know I have another friend that is in remission from lung cancer, and she too, shares your great spirit and attitude. Like you she goes through these terrible stressful moments, but like you she too, has a wonderful spirit.

Since Jack's cancer (it was 5 years yesterday)I have read and read and read about the disease. I have learned that a positive attitude with lots of laughing is important to remission. Therefore, everytime I read your creative and funny emails about a stressful and hurtful ( I can't imagine the pain with those injections) time I appreciate so much your attitude! I know that it is something that must be worked at, but I believe that it is helpful with healing since laughter releases endorphins-nature's own painkillers-and that helps the body heal. The Ancient Greeks knew this a long time ago as they built hospitals next to amphitheaters to benfit patients. I find that amazing!

I guess I just want you to know that I continue to cry out to the Lord for your good health, and I give prayers of Thanksgiving when you have good news. I have added Tina Schmidt to my prayer list.

Also, you have a wonderful family. Everyone should have a brother like Mark. I enjoy your animals too!! Sending our love and prayers--Bonnie and Jack
[> [> Subject: HI BONNIE


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 10:49:52 09/09/04 Thu
So great to hear from you!! I was just thinking about you the other day wondering if you all were okay since I hadn't heard from you.

Congratulations to Jack for reaching his five year survival date!! That is wonderful! Did you do anything to celebrate?

I have such a wonderful support group with all my friends and family that I can't help but have a positive attitude. Everyone is so supportive and positive! I am so blessed to have extraordinary people in my life! I've made new friends recently and have been enjoying the heck out of them. It's funny to me, when I try to think of adjectives to describe how I feel about the people in my life, they just don't seem to describe them well enough. Extraordinary, wonderful, fabulous, amazing... all these words aren't strong enough!!

I love my life more now than I ever have. I don't think it's because I've been facing my own mortality, I think it's because I am able to do so many things that I've wanted to do. I am on my own schedule spending time with all those that I love including my "children". I get to spend each day either outside or inside looking out the windows just thoroughly enjoying God's wonderful work. I can't explain the joy that I have inside me other than to say it tickles my inners and I have butterflies so often. It's sheer happiness. I am so blessed and I know it!! And I thank God every day for all his blessings in my life. Even on rainy days I'm happy, I know all the life outside needs a drink too.

I'm so happy to hear that your friend has a positive attitude also. It makes living life so much more delightful.

Thank you so much for adding Tina Schmidt to your prayer list. I haven't heard any more news about her, I pray that she is doing well.

I got to see Greg recently out on 895. He was sitting there in the median when I drove by. I didn't have enough time to cross all the lanes of traffic safely to stop to talk. So I drove down the road and saw another cop at the salt dome. I stopped and asked him to radio Greg and ask him if he could drive down there. So he did. It was great to see him. It's been so long. He always looks good, especially in his uniform. I was sorry to hear about his iguana though. Please say hello to him and Stephanie for me.

I continue to keep you and Jack and the rest of your family in my prayers.

Yes I do have a wonderful family. I completely and unconditionally love my family. My Mom and Dad are my foundation and that cannot be shaken. I thank God everyday for giving me the parents that I have. They "fit" me perfectly.

I 100% agree that everyone should have a brother like Mark. I absolutely adore my brother. Wow, I'm just sitting here getting teary eyed thinking about how much I love that guy!! He is so amazing to me. I pray for peace of mind and happiness for him, I want him to be as happy as I am. I can't imagine having anyone else in this world any better for a brother. I have so much pride in him. When I'm with him and I get to stand back and watch people gather around him or when I watch him in his cars... my head is held up high and my chest is bursting with pride. I am the ONLY sister in this whole world that can say "THAT'S MY BROTHER" and be talking about Mark!!
[> Subject: Health Update


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Rhea
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Date Posted: 09:09:40 09/08/04 Wed
Well Stacy, I was able to get to your site today and Wow was I impressed. You could have a career in web design! Glad to hear cancer is not growing nor causing your bleeding. I give you credit for getting out and taking those walks. I have my sneakers under my desk but haven't taken a walk since early spring.

I have a shellfish allergy and am told it is probably the iodine that I react to. Do you have problems with shellfish?

Well, I just wanted to let you know that I visited your site and as always have you in my thoughts. Thanks for sharing your news. Wish I had the time to spend on the website.

Hope to see you Sept 17th for Zhongting's luncheon.

Love, Rhea
[> Subject: the simple life


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Patty
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Date Posted: 11:55:56 09/08/04 Wed
Ok... is anything with you ever simple??? LMAO!! You need to call me so we can hook up for lunch and I can fill you in on what has been goin on here lately... ugh :(
[> [> Subject: WHO ARE YOU KIDDING??


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 19:02:42 09/09/04 Thu
Simple? Yea right!! LOL!! I guess you forgot that I'm still married to Mr. Murphy of Murphy's Law firm.
[> [> [> Subject: Murphy's Law...


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Patty
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Date Posted: 21:42:03 09/14/04 Tue
All I have to say is YOU LAWBREAKER YOU!! Had to stop back in to check on you :) Hope all the tests you have turn out to be good. You know you never have been normal SO WHY START NOW???? LOL Work is a pain in the backside (cleaning up the language for anyone else who might be reading) but.... (^^$(*&_)*(&%^%#%^$E*_)(*&)(*&%*@!#$@$#@^#!%#@!%#@^$@#%$ and that about sums up how I have been feeling about the job lately... that opening you sent me sure sounds interesting :)
Hugs :)
[> Subject: Hi there


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Terri
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Date Posted: 22:55:24 09/08/04 Wed
Stace - Just checked your web site after you sent e-mail stating it had been updated, and have to tell you I'm amazed. You do have quite a thing going on here.

I also have to echo your friend Bonnie's sentiment. Your resilience and attitude have been so positve throughout your treatments that it can can only mean good things for your recovery. You are a role model to all of us.

Anxious for the next good news.

Love ya cuz,

Terri
[> [> Subject: HI TERRI


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 19:43:27 09/09/04 Thu
Thank you so much for the kind words about the role model. That's very sweet of you.

I really enjoy working on this web site. I just wish it had more going on. I would love it if more people would post messages about anything they want. I want this to be an interactive site, not always just about me.

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I am sending my deepest sympathy and love. Here's some photo's that I found of your Mom and Dad at Aunt Betty's family reunion that I think you'll enjoy.







And one of you and Greg


[> Subject: Hi Stacy


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Al R
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Date Posted: 14:11:01 09/09/04 Thu
Whew what a scare with the blood thing! Glad that wasn't serious. Mom had a reaction to the dye once too, and Benedryl was the cure all for her. Glad you are doing well.....see ya up at the lot!
[> [> Subject: HI AL


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 19:54:40 09/09/04 Thu
Fortunately it was only traces and it was only for three days. I haven't seen any more since. BUT my back still hurts some. It is definitely unsettling to see blood after coughing.

I think that was the calmest I've ever seen you when I saw you at the lot a couple weekends ago. And you were actually sitting down!! Everything ok?
[> [> [> Subject: Yea I guess........


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Al R
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Date Posted: 09:08:23 09/17/04 Fri
Just been in a real funk lately, hopefully it will wane soon. Life is too short to be upset. You on the other hand are lookin good, were ya out on your saturday night walk?
Subject: CT SCAN


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:23:46 09/10/04 Fri
While I was at my 40th chemo treatment today, I received a copy of CT scan report from this passed Friday. I was slightly disturbed when I saw that the reading said that there was a tiny increase the mass from the last scan in March. It went from 8 millimeters to 10 millimeters. However the scan did also read that it could have been from a slight difference in the position of the scan and that follow up is recommended. I saw my doctor today around the office but I didn't have an appointment with him. If it were something to be concerned about I'm sure he would have said something. I'm just hoping it's nothing to be alarmed about. I should be getting another scan in December. We'll see how that one looks
Subject: WOW!!


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 10:16:31 09/09/04 Thu
I was just looking at some of my photos and was amazed at how fast my hair is growing!! When you look at yourself in the mirror everyday you don't notice much difference. Thought I'd share....

MARCH 2004



APRIL 2004



AUGUST 2004


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[> Subject: tyler


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Patty
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Date Posted: 19:37:15 09/08/04 Wed
OMG!!! just finished looking at your new pictures.... I can't believe how big Tyler is getting. He looks like he is still full of mischief. Call when you can. :)
[> Subject: Nice hair!


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:29:36 09/08/04 Wed
So much more time will it take until it's down to you BUTT??
[> [> Subject: HAIR


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 10:16:31 09/09/04 Thu
TOO LONG!!!

Subject: Hey Girl!!!


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Jenn
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Date Posted: 15:42:19 09/08/04 Wed
Hey Stacy!! Sorry it's been so long since I wrote we have been really busy & we just got back from the beach in NC on Thursday night we were there for a week visit.... It was soooo nice did you get the pics I sent ya? WOW!!! You did some pretty good burnouts!!! You Go Girl!!! Looks like you guys had a blast! Dave & I will have to try to get there next time. Didn't want you to think I forgot about you. So how have you been these days? Hope all is well. Talk with you soon....
[> Subject: HI JENN


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 10:01:45 09/08/04 Wed
I guess you got back in town before the hurricanes were in the area, huh? I got your pics, they were so cute.

I had a blast doing the burnouts!! I just wish we knew someone that took pictures or video. There were a lot of people out there taking them but it was late in the day and I think all Mark's friends were gone. So, I don't think we knew any of those people. It would be nice if they read Mark's web site and knew we wanted copies!!

I guess one of these days we will actually catch up at one of these outings!!
[> [> Subject: No Rain, No Wind!!!


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Jenn
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Date Posted: 15:42:19 09/08/04 Wed
No Hurricanes!!!! Thank Goodness!! I would have been heading back to MD REALLY QUICK. The weather was beautiful when we were there it didn't rain until we were pulling out of the driveway. That was just luck!
We will catch up with each other soon, I hope. Would love to see ya! Take Care & our thoughts & prayers are with you!
Subject: NEED MORE PRAYERS


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 10:38:11 09/08/04 Wed
We just recently found out that my Uncle Pat (on my Mother's side) has two primary cancers. He has prostate cancer and he has lung cancer that has spread to the paratracheal lymph nodes. That's where my cancer is that is in remission.

Uncle Pat will be starting chemotherapy soon although we don't have an exact date yet. He and his wife live on the Eastern Shore. I wish they lived closer so he could see my doctors. I hope that he has wonderful doctors and nurses like I do and get's the same results that I have so far.

I am asking everyone keep him in your prayers. Thank you!


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HAPPY LABOR DAY


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:09:49 09/06/04 Mon

Subject: August 19th Chemo and update


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:48:35 08/31/04 Tue
My chemo on Thursday, August 19th was my 8th treatment. It was a milestone to me since it represented one chemo for each year I've been alive. It was also the last treatment in that round so this week is a break week.

I have been sleeping better but I'm still pretty tired. My Uncle Anthony was here from Thursday through Monday visiting from Missouri. He is my Mom's brother. We did a lot of running around together and I really enjoyed his visit. He is still in the area and plans on visiting again before returning to Missouri.

This Wednesday, the 25th is my Mom's birthday. We will be going to dinner with a real good friend.

These are some photos my Uncle took from my 38th chemo... THANKS UNCLE ANTHONY!!

SIGNING IN


ME AND BETTY (A PATIENT) IN THE CHEMO ROOM


DR. HAHN AND MY NURSE TRACEY


HAVING BLOOD TAKEN


READING BLOOD RESULTS, THEY LOOK GOOD

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[> Subject: THERE you are!


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 00:20:00 08/25/04 Wed
I've been wondering where you were! Glad to hear you're doing well, and having fun. Looks like you have plenty of hair growing--just need a little time to let it get long again! How are all the critters doing? Say hello to the pups for me!
[> [> Subject: HERE I AM


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 20:52:58 08/25/04 Wed
I've been doing a lot of things lately but I've also been pretty tired. When I'm not on the go I'm napping. Fortunately I am able to get to sleep these days. Still having hot flashes but I can sleep.

I went in today to get my blood counts checked. They were borderline so the nurse left it up to me whether or not I got that shot. I chose not to. I'll wait until next week to see if they look better on their own since this is my break week.

How is your father doing now that he's off chemo?

Yea my hair is growing but it's also getting more and more curly. It will be interesting to see if it continues to get curlier as it gets longer.

Check out Mark's burnout videos!!
[> [> [> Subject: GEEZ!


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:34:50 08/25/04 Wed
Was there any tire left after those burnouts??? Very impressive! I can imagine how much you enjoyed riding along on the second one! Judging from the audio, at least one of the spectators was very impressed!

My mom called today with good news. They got the results of my dad's MRI today. The tumor in his lung is down to just a little spot--which the doc says might just be scar tissue. He won't have to go back on chemo now. He'll get an x-ray each month for the next 3 months to make sure nothing is still growing. His hair is coming back, and there has been a lot of improvement in his feet in the past week and a half. He's now getting around in the house without his walker. So we're all happy right now.

Yes, I noticed your curly hair! You might end up with a new look.....
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Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:28:03 08/29/04 Sun
Does this answer your question? LOL!!



This is the tach from when I did my burnouts! Impressive, huh>!?!?



That is wonderful news about your Dad! I bet he's quite ready to just get on with his life now!! I am SO happy for you and your family!!

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[> [> [> [> [> Subject: D*mn!


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:48:35 08/31/04 Tue
8400 rpm, and the tire is down to the cords.... How much will new tires cost--cuz the one in the picture looks like it's ready for a trip to the recycling plant!

My dad was told at the beginning that there is no "cure" for the cancer he has. They just try to put it into remission, and if it comes back, they hit it again. (Sound familiar?) But right now, things are going as well as we could hope for.
Subject: Some recent family photos


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:10:02 08/29/04 Sun
UNCLE ANTHONY, MARK, ME, AND DAD 8-19-04



ME AND TYLER at Mom's birthday picnic on 8-22-04



ME AND DAD on 8-19-04



CHESSIE KISSING ME AND TYLER WATCHING 8-23-04



MOM AT BILLS TERRACE INN FOR CRABS 8-19-04


Subject:
AWESOME VIDEO


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 02:06:51 08/25/04 Wed
Click on photo below to see the AWESOME VIDEO of Mark's burnout at the car cruise last weekend. It takes a while to load so be patient. IT'S WORTH IT!!!!


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[> Subject: MORE WHERE THAT CAME FROM...


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 02:06:51 08/25/04 Wed
THIS IS THE SECOND BURNOUT WITH ME AS A PASSENGER...



To see more, visit Mark's web site by clicking on link below!!!!

Subject: GREAT TIME


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:39:49 08/17/04 Tue
I went to a car cruise/car show this passed Saturday with my brother and had a GREAT TIME!! This cruise/car show had a "burnout box" where the drivers got to compete for the best burnout. Mark won it hands down TWICE!! I rode in the car with him for his second burnout. That was COOL!!



[> Subject: Looks like fun!


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 01:39:49 08/17/04 Tue
Looks like you were having a good time! I assume you're the one giving the "thumbs up" in the 3rd picture. I was visiting my folks in western NY last week. My dad is doing pretty well. The doc took him off chemo. He has an MRI scheduled for this week, and their hoping they won't see any cancer, so he'll STAY off chemo. The taxol had caused numbness in his feet, and the doc didn't want to continue giving him that, BUT the taxol was working very well against the cancer. So they had him on taxotere for a little while. Apparently the numbness in his feet could last for months. But his hair is coming back in.

The weather was crappy up there last week. I took Patrick to the local water park on the one and only day it was warm enough to do that. We got some fishing in--caught a lot of largemouth bass. And we had a hole in the clouds Wednesday night (and the sky is VERY dark at night there), so we saw some of the meteor shower. Mostly, though, we just relaxed. But now I'm back to work! And my system was down until almost 11:00 this morning--that's NOT the way to get back into the swing of things.

Hope you're feeling good!!!!!!
Subject: ?????K


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:25:51 08/16/04 Mon
HELLOOOOOO????? ANYBODY OUT THERE??????????????
[> Subject: I"m here


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Nancy Buscarino
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Date Posted: 13:51:02 08/13/04 Fri
Hi Stacy, It was so good to get your

messed up scoll down to get my note. Love you.








Dear Stacy, It was good to hear from you today. I enjoyed looking at all your critters, especially Charlie the Great. I was wodering how long it would take the eggs to hatch. That would really be cool if they did. Your lizards and Gecko are cute. You sure were lucky in that accident. The pictures of your SUV are something. Did they fix everything on it yet? I hope you are not still having back and neck pain. I'm sorry you are having to get those shots again but so glad to hear that you are in partial remission.I sure miss you and your Mom. Joe called today. He is still working up in the mountains. He said to say hello to you and your Mom. I will close for now. Thanks for writing. Love always Aunt Nancy
[> [> Subject: Don's Place!


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Mark
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Date Posted: 22:18:37 08/15/04 Sun
Had a ball yesterday! I'm glad you went up there with me & drove the Wagon! I hope somebody got video footage & pics.
It was a good show & turn out! The pitbeef wasn't bad either! I liked Georges mud buggy! That thing sounded wicked!
[> [> [> Subject: ME TOO


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Lil Sis
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Date Posted: 00:25:51 08/16/04 Mon
I got a few shots of the mud buggy. I'll send them to you now.

I had a blast driving RATTRAP!! Makes me want to drive it some more!
Subject: TINA SCHMIDT NEEDS YOUR PRAYERS


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 08:36:01 08/08/04 Sun
TINA SCHMIDT NEEDS YOUR PRAYERS...

A friend of my brother's emailed me this message, please keep Tina in your prayers. Thank you!

My name is Rich Halsey. I am a friend of your brother Marks and I visit his page many times a day although I never post. Anyway I have been to your voy site as well and Know your battle with cancer. I am writing you this email because my sister was diagnosed with lukemia almost 3 years ago. She spent many many months in hopkins taking chemo and luckily we had a bone marrow match in the family so she had a bone marrow transplant. She was written off as 100% "cured" and has been gaining strength ever since. Last week she went to the doctors with what she thought was a common cold and after some blood tests, it was discovered that the luekemia is back again. Its a new mutation that they have just discovered in the past few years and now the battle begins again. I wanted to ask you to mention her name on your board and ask that as many people as posibble please pray for her and put her on as many prayer lists that we can. Her name is Tina Schmidt, she is 38 years old and has a 14 year old daughter that needs her very much. Please keep her in your prayers and I thank you in advance.

Rich Halsey
[> Subject: Tina Schmidt


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 08:36:01 08/08/04 Sun
Rich,I wish her the best and hope for a speedy recovery!
Subject: Stop By!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 08:31:46 08/08/04 Sun
Stacy,Good mornin'! If you and Mom are out-N-about today & get up this way........stop in! I got something here for Mom!
Subject: CHEMO...


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 18:10:19 08/05/04 Thu
I start the next round of chemo tomorrow. I am so glad I was on a break this week, I really needed it. I have been so tired but I'm having trouble getting to sleep. I went to bed around 10:30 last night and laid awake for HOURS. At 4:00am I decided to just get up and "putsy" around the house. At 8:00am I laid down for about two hours until my phone rang and woke me up. I refused to lay back down just hoping that I will actually be able to get to sleep tonight.


Last week I went in to the doctors office to have my blood counts checked. They were the lowest I've ever seen them. So I had to get that shot. It's starting to get fairly painful even in the tummy. I asked my nurse to give it to me on the right side of my tummy and it still hurt. She said the next place we could try would be the fatty area below my hip. Yikes! But if it gets bad enough, I'll try it!


My chemo treatment tomorrow will be the 36th treatment I have received.

[> Subject: KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!


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Mark
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Date Posted: 18:51:33 08/04/04 Wed
Hopefully your next few weeks of chemo won't drain you so bad or lower your blood count! remember,you've got to drive RATTRAX to the car show next weekend!How are all the newest arrivals doing!I still need to get down there & see them!
Good luck tomorrow! Ilove you!
[> [> Subject: CHEMO TODAY


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 18:10:19 08/05/04 Thu
I found out today at chemo that one of the people that I enjoyed talking with died from his cancer at the end of June. I hadn't seen him in a while but I figured it was because I switched from Friday's to Thursday's. What a shame, he was such a nice man.

Chemo went well, my blood counts were back up. I do have a headache though. The doctor prescribed Ambien to help me get to sleep at night since I've been having so much trouble. He also prescribed something for all my HOT FLASHES!! I dropped off the prescriptions but I won't pick them up until tomorrow. I was too drained to wait for them. I am just so tired. I really need some sleep.

Mark, come hell or high water, I will be driving RATTRAX!! That is just so much fun for me, I wouldn't miss that for nothing. Unless you change your plans I have every intention on being there!!

All the arrivals are doing well. One of my female turtles has laid two eggs. I don't know which one yet. It would REALLY be cool if they hatched. Supposedly it's really tough to hatch turtle eggs in captivity. I won't know for about 100 days if they hatch or not.

Come down anytime, remember to let me know so I can get some chicken for you. By the way, I got a new stereo system that I need your help with. It's four different units plus two speakers that all need to be hooked up together. I'm not good with that stuff and I know you are. So whenever you can get down here, would you please help me with that?

Love you too!!
Subject: UPDATE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:20:52 07/30/04 Fri
I started my next round of chemo this passed Thursday. I asked my doctor about how I would know if I was in remission. He said I already am in a partial remission since the lymph nodes are undetectable. I suspected that but it was really nice to hear those words come out of the doctors mouth. It's one thing to think it but it's another to hear it from the horses mouth.

He also said that there isn't much cancer left to go into remission. The mass in the lungs in only 9 millimeters in size. That tumor is considered "inactive" right now. For now we are trying to control it so it doesn't get any larger. We are looking for it to become undetectable as well but as long as it is contained like it is now, that's a real good thing!!

I asked him about another PET Scan. That is a scan to detect cancer in other areas of the body. He said since I have responded so well on this drug, if the tumor in my lung isn't growing then chances are it isn't growing anywhere else either. SO... unless I become symptomatic or the tumor increases, I won't have that test. However I will continue to have periodic CT scans to check the progress of the tumor in my lungs.

Without coming right out and saying it, he did remind me that this is still very serious and it could take a turn for the worse at any time. I AM stage IV which is the worst stage but I have mastered the success of the category I am in. Meaning I am doing exceptionally well.

For now we will continue the same regiment of chemo once a week for three weeks with a break week in between the following three weeks and so on... And I will remain on the same drug.
[> Subject: Good to hear


Author:
Eric
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Date Posted: 16:37:36 07/22/04 Thu
Stacy,
I hope you are getting good news each week. Impressive XTerra pictures, I'll be sure not to tailgate them. Where'd you get the Bench seat Racing sticker? I had a near miss a few weeks ago myself, I was waiting for a diagnosis on PNH tests, and like so many conditions it I could check "yes" for 7 of 10 symptoms, fortunately the entire staff of UPMC is still stupified & mystified, no PNH. I'm going to try getting off medrol the next doc's visit. If there's no diagnosis, maybe I shouldn't be on the drugs...
Keep an eye out for Jennerstown Speedway on dodge weekly racing, that's my current home track. E
[> [> Subject: Close call


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:40:07 07/26/04 Mon
Hi Eric! I'm glad it was just a close call for you.

I got the Bench Seat Racin' sticker from my brother. That's his web site. Check it out some time. Lot's of photo's of cars and links to cool web sites.

Thanks for stopping in, it was good to hear from you!
[> Subject: Updates


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 00:20:52 07/30/04 Fri
Geez, I've been busy lately, and haven't had much chance to get to my computer. Patrick was in WV, visiting his mom for a week, so I wasn't home all that much while he was away. (Spent a lot of time on your side of town!) And I've been working a lot of extra hours. So, let's see......

First of all, I'm glad to hear that the treatment is going well! I know that the situation could change, but it sounds like you're doing as well as anyone could have hoped. But please TRY to avoid those trucks on the Beltway!!!!!!!!

My dad is no longer on Taxol. I guess the doc figured that the numbness in his feet was enough reason to discontinue that drug. So he's on something else now, though I haven't been informed of exactly what it is. His feet are still numb, so he's still using his walker to get around. Hopefully they'll return to normal before TOO long. My folks were somewhat disappointed, since the Taxol seemed to be working so well against the cancer. I'll be going up there a week from Saturday, staying a week, so I'm sure I'll find out more. I've passed along information that you've given me--my mom says it has been helpful, and accurate, and "That Stacy is quite a gal!"

Michelle and I went to Ocean City last weekend. The weather wasn't too good, but we had a good trip anyway. We did go swimming for a little while, but we also walked on the beach, hit the amusement park on the pier, took a speedboat ride (saw dolphins up close), and we went parasailing! Neither of us had done that before. We have pictures from our trip (mixed in with pictures from the trip Patrick and I made to OC earlier this month) on our photo web site (http://www.mshipke.com/photogallery).

Continued success in your treatment! One of these days, I'll have to buy you a fuzzy navel (with grenadine) somewhere.....
Subject: EASTERN COLLARED LIZARDS


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:55:29 07/29/04 Thu
I just had to post some cute pictures of my EASTERN COLLARED LIZARDS...










[> Subject: Are they talking to you?


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 23:17:46 07/27/04 Tue
All of Stacys pets really love her! I wouldn't be surprised if they actually talk to her!Kinda looks like its singing or talking to you!

Did you say fried chicken??hummmmm,I'll have to get down there very soon now!
[> Subject: The Zoo


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:55:29 07/29/04 Thu
I heard about the Baltimore Zoo getting rid of its reptiles. I just don't recall hearing that they would all be going to YOUR HOUSE!
Subject: Get out the life jackets!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:41:10 07/28/04 Wed

Subject: CHARLIE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:35:15 07/26/04 Mon
Here are some photo's of CHARLIE the turtle...

CHARLIE AND A TOAD



CHARLIE FANNING (showing the girls what he has to offer...)



MATING WITH GERT



MATING WITH LOUISE



RELAXING



THIN LIZZY

She is an Eastern Collared Lizard


[> Subject: this place is a zoo


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 13:02:15 07/24/04 Sat
hey when did this become a porno site??.........LOL!
I'll have to stop & check out the reptile collection soon!
[> [> Subject: LOL!!!


Author:
Lil Sis
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Date Posted: 23:35:15 07/26/04 Mon
Ever since I got Charlie!!! It is almost a daily occurrence with him! If it isn't Gert then it's Louise. Or both in one day!!

Come down anytime! If you let me know ahead of time I can fry up some chicken fer ya!

This is Sketti. I found him outside eating spaghetti sauce that I had thrown out. Him and Charlie don't get along too well so I have to keep Sketti in a different aquarium.


Subject: Encouraging News


Author:
Jo Andrews (Aunt Jo)
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Date Posted: 23:30:23 07/26/04 Mon
Dear Stacy,
Your note on the 10th sounded very encouraging. You have shown so much courage and spirit. I do not think I could be so brave. We played rook at Toni's last night Aunt nancy was partners with Evelyn, so naturally they won most of the games. I was partnered with Nadine. Everyone says Hello to you. I love you, take good care. Aunt Jo
[> Subject: HI AUNT JO


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:30:23 07/26/04 Mon
I am so jealous!! I wish I could play Rook more often than I do. Especially with all of you!

Thanks for the words of encouragement. It hasn't been too difficult walking in my shoes. There have been so many positives that have come out of it. I have my moments but only from discomfort from the chemo. Like this passed chemo has caused A LOT of pain in the joint in one of my fingers. It's nerve pain and boy it hurts like crazy for a few seconds then it goes away. Then it will come back then it goes away. I couldn't stand it if it were constant pain but thank GOD it's not!! Aleve really helps it.

Other than a few problems with chemo, it's really been a positive experience for me. I've made some wonderful friends, I've met some really cool people, I don't have to work anymore, I don't have THAT stress anymore, I get to be in my garden whenever I want, I have time to spend with all of my four-legged children, when you and Aunt Nancy come up I have a lot more time I can spend with you, I can go have lunch with Mom whenever I want, I get to watch my soaps when I make the time, and so on and so on!!! Thank GOD I have excellent benefits from Verizon Wireless. A lot of things are possible for me with them. It may have been an extremely stressful job but it did give me great benefits. There was a reason to endure all that stress.
Subject: MY TRUCK...


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:45:56 07/20/04 Tue
Isn't it amazing??? This is the damage to my truck after being rear-ended by an 18-wheeler!!!! It was an empty 48 foot covered wagon (for hauling gravel, sand...) not including the cab! Nissan makes one heck of a truck!








I had an estimate done on it and the cost is about $1200. So far it's considered an open estimate because they couldn't open the back hatch. Once they get it in for repairs they will put it on a lift and also get the back hatch open to see what other damage could have been done. I also can't move my seat back -n- forth.

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[> Subject: Heres the back of mine........LOL!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 21:45:56 07/20/04 Tue
Don't get rear-ended by this one!.........LOL!

Glad you've got a tough X~Tera !
Guess the man upstairs is still watching your...pardon the pun...rearend!
Subject: BLESSING


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:56:59 07/19/04 Mon
Here she is, the infamous Gecko that was riding in my truck at the time of the accident. I named her "Blessing" since it was such a blessing that we both made it out of the accident so well!!
I need to get a better picture of her, this one doesn't show off her beautiful eyes.
Subject: THE LATEST...


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:24:15 07/15/04 Thu
Just thought I would share with everyone that I was in an accident today... I drive a Nissan X-Terra and I have to say that I am shocked at how well that truck held up in the collision.

I was rear-ended by an 18-wheeler today on 695 going eastbound right after the on-coming ramp from Dulaney Valley Road. A small car, actually a Cooper, was coming off the ramp and was attempting to get into the slow lane even though a large truck was there. The roads were wet, he may have been sliding. Anyway, the large truck was laying on his horn and was trying to avoid hitting the Cooper but he couldn't go anywhere because I was there in the middle lane. Suddenly a piece of metal flew out in front of my truck and I slowed to avoid hitting it. I was already slowing down since I was afraid the other two vehicles would wreck. Evidently they did and the metal came from the Cooper. Well as soon as I saw the metal I slowed down and then KAABAAAMMMM!! The 18-wheeler behind me slammed into me. I pulled off the road and he pulled up behind me. When I got out and saw the damage on my truck I was amazed. There is damage but nothing like you would think it would be with a big truck hitting your vehicle doing at least 40 mph. This is what kind of truck it was:



There was actually minimal damage on his truck from MY X-Terra. Once again, the BIG MAN upstairs was sitting on my shoulder. I sure hope HE doesn't get tired of watching out for me. That could have been a nasty accident. I asked the truck driver if the truck was loaded and he said NO. That was actually the reason he hit me. Since he was empty when he hit his breaks he slid right into me.

Fortunately, other than back and neck soreness, wrist aching, and a headache I'm fine. THANK YOU LORD!!

Well here's the funny part of the story... I was actually driving home from a reptile store. I had just picked up a Gecko. So I was driving home with a Gecko in my car which reminded me of the Geico commercial... "everybody was Kung Fu fighting".


I went to Good Samaritan Emergency Room just to get checked out especially since I had the headache. Since I didn't get the chance to go home first, I took the Gecko with me. And I took her into the ER with me. She was in a box so no one could see her. Well when I went into Triage, the nurse asked me what was in the box. I showed her and she fell in love with my Gecko. She had quite a few nurses come in to see her. I've never had such quick service in an ER before. I was in and out of there in less than an hour!! And I believe it's because everyone wanted to be near the Gecko to see it. The Physician's Assistant that was caring for me was telling one of the doctors about the "Gecko Girl" and her Gecko so I asked the doctor if he wanted to see my Gecko. He smiled, said "yes I do" then when he came into my cubicle he said "but that's supposed to be my line". I cracked up!

[> Subject: Glad you are OK!


Author:
Jenn
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Date Posted: 08:35:40 07/13/04 Tue
Hello! Glad you are Ok.. Those accidents can be pretty nasty I'm glad no one got hurt. Was the weather bad when the accident happened? I know up here in Cecil County it was quite horrible all day! Can't wait to see some pics of your Gecko!! Talk to you soon....
[> [> Subject: HI JENN


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:15:38 07/13/04 Tue
I heard on the news that it was real bad in Harford and Cecil counties. Did your place get flooded? I hope not!!

When I was in the accident the roads were damp. It had rained about an hour before that but it wasn't raining at the time of the collision. At least I didn't have to stand outside in the rain exchanging information!!

I'll be taking pictures as soon as I can catch that Gecko out of her hiding place. They are nocturnal so unfortunately I don't get to see much of her. I'll probably be developing pictures this weekend. I'll be posting pics of my Collared Lizards too!
[> [> [> Subject: No More Rain Please!!!


Author:
Jenn
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Date Posted: 12:21:14 07/14/04 Wed
Gosh another rain maker today too... Imagine if all this was snow! No we had no flooding. Thank Goodness! It is getting pretty ugly around here now I guess the weather is on its way!
How were things at your house? Hope everything was ok.
Can't wait to see the pictures of your little critters, I think they are so cute!
Take Care....
[> [> [> [> Subject: WEATHER


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:22:08 07/15/04 Thu
We didn't have the real bad weather here like you guys did. THANK GOD!!

I still haven't had time to get my pictures developed. Hopefully by Sunday I'll have them so I can post some.
[> Subject: Whew!


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 16:52:02 07/14/04 Wed
Wow, I'm glad to hear that you're ok. I guess I missed the excitement here. Patrick and I were watching the Weather Channel in our room in OC last night, and we heard about the rough weather up in Cecil County and in Delaware. We heard there could be more today, so we headed straight home after we checked out of the hotel this morning. I heard something about a possible tornado in Harford County this afternoon. I hope everyone is ok.
[> [> Subject: Ocean City


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:24:15 07/15/04 Thu
I was wondering how the weather was for you two in Ocean City. At least it was a vacation from work!
Subject:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CLIFF!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 16:46:54 07/14/04 Wed
I'm an hour late but I haven't been home. Sorry!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CLIFF!!


[> Subject: THANKS!


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:15:01 07/07/04 Wed
Thanks for the birthday wishes! I'm sorry I didn't write sooner--I've been having computer problems here at home.

I had a nice weekend--we checked out the tall ships in the harbor. Unfortunately, one of my relatives in western NY died Sunday morning. It was a bit of a surprise--she was 86 years old, and she'd been in a nursing home, but she wasn't "sick" at the time. I drove up there today for the viewing, and came back this evening (640-some miles round trip). It's been a long day!
[> [> Subject: YOU'RE WELCOME


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:16:44 07/10/04 Sat
Would it be safe to assume that the computer problems are corrected now?

I'm sorry to hear about the death in your family. Is she an aunt? That was a long trip to make in one day!

How are you doing otherwise? Still liking the "new" position? I guess it's not so new anymore but how is it going?
[> [> [> Subject: I may be welcome, but I'm also ugly.....


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 16:58:58 07/11/04 Sun
I'm having different computer problems now. Something's up with my anti-virus program--it's keeping Windows from starting. I can start my computer step-by-step IF I don't start the virus program. I need to talk to my engineer brother-in-law about it....

The death in the family was my dad's cousin's wife. She was the "matriarch" of the western NY branch of the family. We've been close to that side of the family for years. That's where my parents moved when they retired--Dad's cousin sold them a portion of his property, and they built their house there. I've gone up that way almost every summer for 30 years now. Yes, it was a long drive--645 miles, round trip. I left at 6:50 a.m. and got home at 9:30 p.m. My NY cousins had heard that I would be making the trip in one day, and they all made a point of thanking me, so I was glad I went.

I'm on vacation this week. Patrick and I are leaving tomorrow morning for a couple days in OC. Hopefully the weather won't be too crappy--doesn't look like it's going to be perfect.

How about a Taxol question for you? My dad is having problems with numbness in his feet and weakness in his legs--to the point where he is using a walker. The docs did a bone scan and an MRI, and didn't find anything, so they think it's the drug. They gave him 2 weeks off instead of just 1, and he says it feels a little better. He's going back this week, and they may consider a lower dose, or a different drug. My parents aren't too thrilled with the idea of a different drug, since the current program has been fighting the cancer very effectively. Have you ever heard of that side effect?
[> [> [> [> Subject: TAXOL


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:10:34 07/11/04 Sun
Hi Cliff. About the numbing from Taxol... that is a very common side effect with Taxol. I had numbing and tingling BIG TIME in my hands and feet. It was so bad in my feet that I about busted my tail getting in the shower. I'd have a hard time "feeling" the floor so I would slip. Fortunately I never fell. My hands were so bad that I had to stop all crocheting and other crafts. It was very difficult to write and/or type too. With each treatment, it got worse and it went higher up my arm. Fortunately I only had four treatments but I suspect it would have gotten worse. Once I went off the drug all numbing and tingling wore off but it took a while.

Tell your Father that it's a common side effect but a huge nuisance. It will wear off after he's off the drug but it may take a while. If they keep him on the drug long term it can cause some nerve damage meaning he wouldn't get complete feeling back. Suggest a lower dose. He could also try Aleve to help.

Another side effect that he may encounter could be nail loss on his fingers and his toes. That may or may not happen. If he starts having problems with his nails, get a small bottle of Tea Tree Oil. I found it to be the cheapest at Safeway. It's not cheap, particularly at GNC. Anyway, just use a Q-tip or cotton swap and smear it on his nails. It stinks but it really helps the nails. I didn't have that problem on Taxol although a lot of people do. I did have the problem on Taxol's cousin Taxotere. My chemo nurse suggested the oil and I tried it.

Have a wonderful time on vacation with Patrick! I did hear it's supposed to rain Monday. UGH!
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: THANKS!


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 16:46:54 07/14/04 Wed
Thanks for the info. I've passed it along to my parents--hopefully they'll find it reassuring.

The weather wasn't too good in OC, but we still had fun--still got out in the water!
Subject: REDNECK VIDEO GAME


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 12:40:06 07/11/04 Sun
Click on mosquito below to play a fun and addicting REDNECK VIDEO GAME. Once at game, use left click on mouse to play. HAVE FUN!!


Subject: SURVEY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 10:56:29 07/11/04 Sun
YOUR OPINION POLL

Please respond


Which background do you prefer, the paw prints or the roses I had originally?


OR





My web site has slowed down quite a bit, I'm getting very few hits. What can I do to make this site more interesting and motivational for people to visit and add posts? What would you like to see?
[> Subject: reply


Author:
aunt nancy
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Date Posted: 05:16:07 07/02/04 Fri
Hi again, I like the roses. I find your site very interesting. I don't know of any changes you could make. Maybe people are to busy. Keep on trying. Love you and I enjoy your web site. Love Aunt Nancy
[> [> Subject: paw prints


Author:
kim
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Date Posted: 15:23:20 07/02/04 Fri
Hi Stacy,
I like them both, and agree with the others, the paw prints got my vote :)
love
kim
[> Subject: survye


Author:
Jean
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Date Posted: 08:05:37 07/02/04 Fri
I like the paw prints. With all your new citters I think the paws definately fit you best! Hope all went well with the scan - I've been praying for the good outcome I know you'll get.
[> Subject: survey


Author:
Gillian
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Date Posted: 09:27:21 07/02/04 Fri
I LIKE THE PAW PRINTS!!!!!!
[> Subject: survey


Author:
Jenn
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Date Posted: 10:12:56 07/02/04 Fri
Hey Girl!! I love the paw prints & with all your little critters I think it matches you well. I'm sure your doggies like the paw prints best too! How ya doin these days? Hope all is well...
[> Subject: WOW...


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:37:46 07/03/04 Sat
Thanks to everyone who responded!! It seems that the majority likes the paw prints so I guess I'll keep 'em!

Anyone else that wants to add an opinion, PLEASE DO!!
[> Subject: opinion Poll


Author:
Jack
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Date Posted: 21:36:03 07/04/04 Sun
Stacy Definitely like the paw prints better, especially if they are PUG prints!! LOL

Jack
[> Subject: Doggies Rule


Author:
Varinia
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Date Posted: 11:14:34 07/05/04 Mon
Hi Stace,

You're looking good. I hope that the treatment is going well for you.

I love the pictures of your dogs in the tub. Chuk and I just got two Akitas, and I'm amazed and impressed that you were able to get them to stand still, side-by-side like that.

I vote for the paw prints. Keep up the good work!

Varinia
[> [> Subject: Hi Varinia


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:22:54 07/10/04 Sat
All the dogs were just standing there looking at me while they were getting a bath. Fortunately my camera was in the next room so I was able to hurry and get it. I didn't have to get them to pose or anything, they just stood there like that hoping it was time to get out.

Are the Akita's puppies? They are gorgeous dogs!
[> Subject: I kinda like this one....LOL!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 14:01:12 07/05/04 Mon

[> Subject: Opinion Poll


Author:
Rob
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Date Posted: 10:56:29 07/11/04 Sun
Hi Stacy,
Paw prints and the dogs who make them RULE!!!!!
I'm glad to hear everything is going so well with your treatment. You keep fighting and I'll keep praying.
Subject: SELF ADVERTISING


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:28:07 07/11/04 Sun
I left a flier at my doctor's office hoping to generate conversation about cancer with people that need or want to talk about it. I am re-posting some of topics of the flier below. Several friends and family members have been telling people they know with cancer about this site so I'm hoping to hear from them.

For newcomers, please feel free to express anything you need or want to. There is a lot of things on this site that isn't about cancer so don't feel like your posts wouldn't be appreciated. Cancer related posts are MORE THAN WELCOME!! I really want to try to help with advise or in any way I can or at least I can lend an ear.

A DIFFERENT KIND OF MOUNTAIN
By: Stacy R. Preston

Do you have cancer? Or does a friend or family member?
Patients, Caregivers, Friends and Family members alike, we all need support from time to time.

This web site is based on my journey through cancer and how I'm living my life with it. Friends, family, and myself post messages about whatever is going on in my life and/or theirs, my cancer updates, the trials and tribulations of side effects and humorous items. It is NOT a chat room, it is forum based.

If you or someone you know is walking in cancers shoes, I am willing to try to be supportive. I have stage IV metastasized breast cancer to the paratracheal lymph nodes and right lung. I am currently undergoing chemotherapy on the drug Gemcitabine (aka Gemzar). I was on Taxotere first but I was switched to Gemcitabine. I was initially diagnosed with breast cancer in the left breast and one axillary lymph node in July 1999. I was diagnosed with the recurrence in July 2003. If it matters, I am 38 years old. In 1999 I was on the drugs Adriamyacin and Cytoxin then Taxol. And I went through 6 weeks of radiation. I have had eight surgeries and I have a port-a-cath for the chemo IV. I am Dr. Davis Hahn’s patient; he is out of Good Samaritan Hospital. I am hoping you could benefit from my experiences.

Do you need to vent? Do you just need to talk? Do you have a funny story? Do you want to tell your story about how cancer has touched your life? Do you want someone that is going through cancer to give you insight? Do you have questions or concerns? I am hoping I can provide some kind of support for you.

Sometimes we laugh, and sometimes we cry, but through it all we have a different kind of mountain to climb. I am someone that truly understands all that is behind the word cancer, from day one and the overwhelming time of hearing the word cancer, through the waiting for results period, to the treatments, and recovery periods and the recurrences.

All cancer patients, caregivers, friends and family members are welcome.

I will respond to all posts and messages. If you're not comfortable posting messages here, please email me!

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[> Subject: One more thing...


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:28:07 07/11/04 Sun
If you want to email me, please click on the "mailbox" close to the top of the web site. Thanks!
Subject: EVER WONDERED HOW THEY FLATTEN THE HAMBURGERS AT MCDONALDS?


Author:
Curious
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Date Posted: 00:08:50 07/10/04 Sat

Subject: Things to think about...


Author:
AMUSED
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Date Posted: 23:46:10 07/09/04 Fri
I used to eat a lot of natural foods until I learned that most people die of natural causes.
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Gardening Rule:
When weeding, the best way to make sure you are removing a weed and not a valuable plant is to pull on it. If it comes out of the ground easily, it is a valuable plant.
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The easiest way to find something lost around the house is to buy a replacement.
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Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway.
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There are two kinds of pedestrians -- the quick and the dead.
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Life is sexually transmitted.
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An unbreakable toy is useful for breaking other toys.
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Health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die.
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The only difference between a rut and a grave is the depth.
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Always get the last word in: Apologize.
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Give a person a fish and you feed them for a day; teach that person to use the Internet and they won't bother you for weeks.
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Health nuts are going to feel stupid someday, lying in hospitals dying of nothing.
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Have you noticed since everyone has a camcorder these days no one talks about seeing UFOs like they use to?
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Whenever I feel blue, I start breathing again.
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All of us could take a lesson from the weather. It pays no attention to criticism.
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Why does a slight tax increase cost you two hundred dollars and a substantial tax cut saves you thirty cents?
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In the 60's, people took acid to make the world weird. Now the world is weird and people take Prozac to make it normal.
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Politics is supposed to be the second oldest profession. I have come to realize that it bears a very close resemblance to the first.
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How is it one careless match can start a forest fire, but it takes a whole box to start a campfire?
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AND THE # 1 THOUGHT FOR THE DAY:

You read about all these terrorists --- most of them came here legally, but they hung around on these expired visas, some for as long as 10 -15 years. Now, compare that to Blockbuster; you are two days late with a video and those people are all over you. Let's put Blockbuster in charge of immigration.
Subject: BIG BROTHER 5


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 13:50:55 07/06/04 Tue
I am a BIG BROTHER fan and I'm thrilled to say that BIG BROTHER 5 premiers tonight!!!!

Subject: Hi Stacy, Did you ever find Mark? It was good seeing you again.


Author:
Nick
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Date Posted: 13:13:27 07/06/04 Tue
[> Subject: HI NICK


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 13:13:27 07/06/04 Tue
It was good to see you too. I would have stopped but I was getting aggravated with the "traffic" situation there. I hadn't moved for a while, everyone was waiting for someone to move that Explorer. That's when I got out and hollered over to you.

I found Mark the next day. I didn't see him that night. I had a delivery to make to him but I just waited until I saw him on the 4th. I just went on home. I've gotten hooked on almonds and I wanted to get to the store to get some.
Subject: YIPPEEEE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 05:11:34 07/04/04 Sun
I CAN'T WAIT!!

MY NEW WASHER AND DRYER IS BEING DELIVERED TODAY (FRIDAY)!!!!



[> Subject: washer & dryer


Author:
buscarinonancy
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Date Posted: 05:04:07 07/02/04 Fri
So happy for you. I bet you can hardly wait. I love and miss you.I can't hardly wait for your Mom to get here either. We should have a good week together. Then I get to come see you.How is your yard looking? Good I bet. Guess I get to see all your new critters. You have a great day. Love Aunt Nancy
[> [> Subject:
HAPPINESS


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:31:19 07/02/04 Fri
I LOVE MY NEW WASHER AND DRYER!!


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[> [> Subject: HI AUNT NANCY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:49:36 07/03/04 Sat
HI AUNT NANCY!! Mom is excited about coming down to North Carolina to see you! I picked up Annie this evening AFTER Mom and I went out for steamed crabs. YUMMY!!

My yard looks GREAT in my opinion! A lot of neighbors have made special trips around the back and side of my building just to see what I've done. Everyone says they love it and that it looks beautiful in comparison to how it looked before.

A lady in another building asked me to come clear away the brush and weeds from behind her building too. AND SHE WAS SERIOUS!! I told her not to be too surprised if she sees me over there. She told me I could have some of her ground cover plants too. I feel so good when I get to be outside gardening. I've lost a few pounds out of it so that's always a good thing! I end up with more energy when I'm out there. I haven't been able to tolerate the sun since I had chemo in 1999, I'm so glad that I'm able to tolerate it now.

I can't wait for you to see it. I planted some bulbs recently for flowers that come up in the fall. I had to plant them in May or June to be able to see them in September. I'm looking forward to seeing how they do.

My petunias and marigolds haven't done too well. It's because something has been eating the leaves and te flowers. I'm afraid to put a bug killer down since some of the neighbors let their cats run around outside. I don't want to make any animals sick or kill them so I'll just know not to plant them next year.

I can't wait to see you!! Of course, I'm looking forward to playing Rook so don't let the ladies make Mom sick of it. LOL!!

I'm looking forward to you getting to meet all my new critters. I'm having a lot of fun with them! I think Mom is too. She comes over after work to pick up Annie and sits upstairs with me watching them.

I love you and I'm happy that I don't have to miss you too much longer!

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[> [> [> Subject: Happy 4th of July


Author:
Aunt Nancy
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Date Posted: 05:11:34 07/04/04 Sun
Happy 4th of July Stacy. Your yard sounds beautiful. I guess you have used your washer and dryer by now. Your Mom was telling me how bad your old ones were. We all had a nice time at Evelyn's last night. Your Mom and Debbie beat Evelyn and I 2 out of 3 games. Your Mom is sleeping right now. She was very tired after trip and us sitting up and talking. I sure hope she is sleeping well. So good to see her. I can't wait to see you soon. It won't surprise me if you go over and do that lady's yard for her. We were talking about your critters last night. Sounds like they are ver interesting to watch. I know your Mom already misses you and her Annie but seems to be glad to be here. She said you took her out for crabs the night before she left to come here. She said they sure were good and how much she enjoyed being with you. That was so nice of you. We don't know what we will be doing today yet. Hve to wait to talk with your Aunt Jo. You take care. Love you and miss you, Aunt Nancy
Subject: HAPPY 4TH of JULY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:41:29 07/03/04 Sat
HAVE A SAFE AND WONDERFUL HOLIDAY!








Subject: NEWS...


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:27:41 07/02/04 Fri
I took my CT scan films over to my doctor today. He said there is NO CHANGE. That's great news because that means the lymph nodes are still undetectable and the mass in my lung has not grown any. He said that we will continue on the same regiment and the same drug. YIPPEE!!

This is my doctor... Dr. Davis Hahn, Oncologist at Good Samaritan Hospital:


My blood counts looked good enough that I didn't need to get the Aranesp shot. All in all a good day at the doctor's office.

Thanks for all your prayers! Keep 'em comin', they're working!!!

SEEK MY FACE by Danny Hahlbohm

Subject: STORMS


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:48:15 07/01/04 Thu
BOY, those were some nasty storms that rolled through this evening.


I live right on the border of where the tornado warning was.


Sure hope everyone made out okay and was safe if you were on the roads!
Subject: CT SCAN UPDATE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:32:36 07/01/04 Thu
I had my CT scan today. All went well other than they collapsed a vein when they stuck me. That's not unusual with my veins. They are very delicate after having chemo.


I don't know my results yet and I haven't really looked at the films. I'm too nervous to. I'm supposed to see the doctor next Thursday, July 8th but I'm a little too impatient to wait that long. So I'm going to try to get in to see him tomorrow to see if he has time to read them for me.


Since I have been SO tired lately, I need to go in tomorrow to get my blood counts checked to see if I need that shot. It's been two weeks since my last one. My nurse told me last week that if I was real tired to come in and get checked this week.


I'm hoping to have news tomorrow to post.
Subject: Stacy?....STACY?


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:22:48 07/01/04 Thu
Hey girl, whatcha been up to lately? How was your week? Michelle and I took a cruise from the Inner Harbor to Annapolis on Wednesday. The weather was crappy, but it was a fun trip. Patrick's birthday was Thursday--but I did his "birthday dinner" tonight, since it involved cooking out on the grill. Made his cake myself, too (with a little help from Duncan Hines). How are things going with you?
[> Subject: HI CLIFF


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 09:51:04 06/28/04 Mon
That cruise sounds like a good time. I did something like that YEARS ago out of the inner harbor but it was a huge sail boat.

Tell Patrick Happy Birthday for me. Yea, all my cakes are compliments of Duncan Hines or Betty Crocker too.


I have been so incredibly busy lately. I've done more clearing out back and more planting. I've extended the planting passed the lady's place that is in front of me. I've had another neighbor ask me to clear out behind her place. She said I can have some of the ground cover plants that she has. I told her not to be surprised if she sees me back there.


I am now the proud owner of several different kinds of reptiles. I found a male box turtle one day while clearing and the family has grown since.


I've also found two female box turtles. "Charlie" has been mating with one of them (Gert) in the last week so I'm expecting her to lay eggs within a couple weeks. I have two Eastern Collared Lizards, several Anoles, American Toads, Fire-Bellied Toads, and Green Frogs. All of these critters are in three different tanks. One tank is for moist conditions, one is for desert conditions, and the last one is for natural conditions. It's been a lot of fun. "Charlie" LOVED the cicada's when they were here. Unfortunately for him now he has to settle for beetles and crickets. It sure was a lot easier for me to catch the cicada's then anything else. AND cheaper. I've been spending all of my evenings at dusk catching lightning bugs for the toads. Then after dark, I've been going under all the lights in my unit catching beetles for the toads and the turtles. All my neighbors probably think I'm nuts. It's funny though, one of the lady's that knows what I'm doing has been out catching lightning bugs for me!! I must be bringing out the kid in everyone around here!! It's been fun.



The dogs have been highly entertained by all the new critters. Chessie especially. It's fun watching her bark at them and watching them through the glass.

I'm in the process of trying to refinance my house so I've been doing leg work for that.

I finished this round of chemo this passed Thursday and this week is my break week. I've had a fair amount of nerve pain with this round in my arms and hands. I took the Aleve for it but it didn't help too much like it did before.

I have my CT scan this coming Thursday to check progress.


How has your Father been doing lately?

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[> [> Subject: You Have Been Busy!!


Author:
JENN
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Date Posted: 13:59:55 06/28/04 Mon
Gosh Girl you have been busy.how are things going? hope all is well. Dave & I are heading up to the track on Saturday. Hope you & Mark can make it. Would love to see both of you. Talk to you soon.
[> [> Subject: How'd it go?


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:22:48 07/01/04 Thu
HOW DID THE SCAN GO TODAY?
Subject: Top Fuel racer Darrell Russell fatally injured!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 10:25:59 06/28/04 Mon

Top Fuel driver Darrell Russell was fatally injured today as a result of a crash during race eliminations at an NHRA National Event at Gateway International Raceway.

Russell, 35, of Hockley, Texas, was competing in the second round of eliminations when his dragster went out of control and crashed just past the finish line. Russell was extracted from his dragster by NHRA emergency services officials and transported by air to the St. Louis Medical Center where he was later pronounced dead.

Russell, driver of the dragster owned by NHRA legend Joe Amato, was the event's top qualifier and was coming off a victory recently in Columbus, Ohio. During his four year career he had earned six victories in 17 final rounds. He posted a career-best fourth place points finish in 2003 and was currently fourth in the Top Fuel points standings.

NHRA deeply regrets that this tragic accident occurred and sends its thoughts and sentiments out to the Russell family.

Subject: LATEST UPDATE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:35:01 06/21/04 Mon
I started my third round of the new regiment of chemo last Thursday.


Things went pretty well. I took some Advil before I went and fortunately I felt better after getting the saline flushes. Hopefully that will help in the future. I also didn't get a headache this time.

Fortunately my blood counts all were within normal range so I didn't have to get that shot.


I asked my doctor about getting a CT scan soon. He was going to hold off until late in the summer but I expressed concerns that he considered good points so I will have a CT scan on July 1st.

[> Subject: Good luck!


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:55:07 06/15/04 Tue
Good luck with the scan! (Yes, I KNOW it's over 2 weeks away, but I didn't want to forget!)
[> [> Subject: WELL HELLO STRANGER


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:46:30 06/16/04 Wed
WOW!! Haven't heard anything out of you in a while. Been busy??

Thanks for the encouraging words about the scan. I'm a little nervous about this one. I always worry about having to go on another drug that would cause me to lose all my hair AGAIN!! But we'll see. Hopefully this one is STILL doing the job.

Whatcha been up to?
[> [> [> Subject: Computer problems


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 00:35:01 06/21/04 Mon
Hey there, Stacy. I've been somewhat out of touch with the world, or at least with part of it. Had a problem with my system here--something, somehow, got into my Internet Explorer program and f***ed it up. I had trouble accessing a lot of sites, including e-mail. I had "expert advisors" in the family giving me suggestions, but tonight I decided to ignore them and try my own idea. I uninstalled I.E.6 and reverted to the prior version--and it worked. So here I am....

I talked to my dad today. He's doing well. Having a week off from chemo every 4th week seems to work well. It gives him a chance to recover somewhat from the fatigue, to get his blood counts up, and to put a little weight back on. He said he still has a little hair, and he hasn't lost his mustache!

Patrick is out of school for the summer. He's ready to be LAZY--which means he won't be too happy when I assign him more chores! Tomorrow he has a choice: he can cut the grass. (That's his only choice.) I have a few other things in mind for this week also. I'm taking a day off on Wednesday. Michelle and I are going on a day cruise from the Inner Harbor to Annapolis and back. It's run by Harbor Cruises, and I assume it will be on the Bay Lady or the Lady Baltimore, the two big dinner cruise boats out of the Inner Harbor. It should be fun.

I hope the chemo is going well!
Subject: TO ALL THE DADS!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 10:49:32 06/20/04 Sun
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!


Subject: RUFF RUFF!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 23:01:49 06/17/04 Thu

[> Subject: I couldn't help myself!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:31:44 06/17/04 Thu
Ain't it cute?
[> [> Subject: YUPPERZ!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 23:01:49 06/17/04 Thu
Cute!...but then again,so am I .....LOL!
Think I'll be headed to Roy Rodgers tomorrow evening..
(6-18-04).weather permitting of course! I'm off tomorrow,3 day weekend.YEEEEEHAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!

Subject: Just for you Knif Knarf


Author:
Nails
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Date Posted: 21:39:24 06/17/04 Thu
JIMMY JOHNSON WINS POCONO 400


[> Subject: Am I lost


Author:
knif knarf
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Date Posted: 21:39:24 06/17/04 Thu
You mean DOMINATED Poconos!!!!! It's been awhile sinced I've been here. I'm back on the outside now and I've had to clean up a few cells. I'm work a night shift right now (6/17/04 into 6/18/04). The next time I go to AJ I'll let you know a couple days ahead of time, maybe we can meet for that lunch. I great to read that you are doing so well. I think of you all the time. Sorry I haven't gotten around to e-mailing or calling. You know my number!!! Take care of yourself.
Subject: Hi Stacy


Author:
Terri
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Date Posted: 13:37:35 06/16/04 Wed
Hey Stace - Have been really busy between work and all the work we've been trying to accomplish at the house. Plus Bob and I took a trip to Florida to check on both Dads. But, none is really a good excuse for not keeping in touch better.

I have appreciated you keeping me in the loop on your progress. Those are some really nice pictures of you and the family (even the doggy members!) Reminds me that while in Florida, Greg showed me that he had put all the old family movies on CDs, and we watched all the ones having to do with Christmas. There was one Christmas while we still lived in VA when all of Preston aunts, uncles and cousins came. You were just a toddler and Mark was pretty little. It was fun to remember just how we looked so many years ago!

My dad was not in good shape while we were there - but is just as stubborn (and sometimes just downright idiotic) as ever. He is still on dialysis, and probably will be for the rest of his life, 3 times a week. He looks very old for his almost 76 years (which isn't so old by today's standards). He fell over the curb the day we got there and it took Bob and I both to get him up off the sidewalk. He then proceded to get 3 skin tears the next day - who knows how, but I ended up washing clothes, blankets, the kitchen counters, etc. He does not remember to take his medicines on times, can't do his blood sugars, or see to draw up his insulin. His diet is a nightmare - nothing like any diabetic diet I've seen, tho' I tried really hard to keep him on track while we were there. It wasn't unusual for him to sneak into the kitchen and fill his robe pocket with donut holes when he thought I wasn't looking. The rest of the time he expected me to fix his meals, and generally wait on him hand and foot. I feel sorry for Greg having to deal with him now that I am back home!

Anyway, the rest of us are fine. The Bryan and Christian are working hard and trying to squeeze in a bit of fun now and then. I manage to see them about once a week. My grandaughter is a beautiful 1 1/2 yrs. now, and I just can't seem to keep from spoiling her rotten (oh, how my mom would tease me about that!)

Hope all goes well with this next CT scan, and while I know you like your long hair, your short "do" is cute!

Hang in there,

Terri
Subject: Going out on a limb here and posting this...


Author:
PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN
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Date Posted: 12:48:13 06/15/04 Tue


Apology to Arabs

(Author unknown - sentiment shared.)

For good and ill, the Iraqi prisoner abuse mess will remain an issue. On the one hand, right thinking Americans will abhor the stupidity of the actions while on the other hand, political glee will take control and fashion this minor event into some modern day My Lai massacre.

I heard some Arabs and Muslims are asking for an apology. I humbly offer mine here:

I am sorry that the last seven times we Americans took up arms and sacrificed the blood of our youth, it was in the defense of Muslims (Bosnia, Kosovo, Gulf War 1, Kuwait, etc.).

I am sorry that no such call for an apology upon the extremists came after 9/11. I am sorry that all of the murderers on 9/11 were Islamic Arabs.

I am sorry that most Arabs and Muslims have to live in squalor under savage dictatorships. I am sorry that their leaders squander their wealth. I am sorry that their governments breed hate for the US in their religious schools, mosques, and government-controlled media.

I am sorry that Yasir Arafat was kicked out of every Arab country and highjacked the Palestinian "cause". I am sorry that no other Arab country will take in or offer more than a token amount of financial help to those same Palestinians.

I am sorry that the USA has to step in and be the biggest financial supporter of poverty stricken Arabs while the insanely wealthy Arabs blame the USA for all their Problems.

I am sorry that our own left wing elite, our media, and our own brainwashed (from elements of our society like radical professors, CNN and the NY TIMES) masses do not understand any of this. I am sorry the United Nations scammed the poor people of Iraq out of the "food for oil" money so they could get rich while the common folk suffered.

I am sorry that some Arab governments pay the families of homicide bombers upon their death. I am sorry that those same bombers are brainwashed thinking they will receive 72 virgins in "paradise."

I am sorry that the homicide bombers think pregnant women, babies, children,the elderly and other noncombatant civilians are a legitimate targets.

I am sorry that our troops die to free more Arabs from the gang rape rooms and the filling of mass graves of Dissidents of their own making.

I am sorry that Muslim extremists have killed more Arabs than any other group.

I am sorry that foreign trained terrorists are trying to seize control of Iraq and return it to a terrorist state. I am sorry we don't drop a few dozen Daisy cutters on Fallujah.

I am sorry every time terrorists hide they find a convenient "Holy Site". I am sorry they didn't apologize for driving a jet into the World Trade Center that collapsed and severely damaged Saint Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church - one of our Holy Sites.

I am sorry they didn't apologize for flight 93 and 175, the USS Cole, the embassy bombings, the murders and beheadings of Nick Berg and Daniel Pearl, etc....etc!
Subject: RAY CHARLES DIED TODAY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 18:37:07 06/10/04 Thu
RAY CHARLES DIED at 2:35 p.m. ET, in Beverly Hills, California, his publicist said. The cause was of complications from liver disease.



Subject: Hi Stacy


Author:
Al R.
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Date Posted: 08:42:25 06/10/04 Thu
Well........lol...I think I have finally figured it outi came in the back way!...no smart comments now!the only way i can get in is www.voy.com/174856/?r=6937. I feel like i'm breaking INTO jail! Well at least i got in, baffles the daylights outta me.
[> Subject: HI AL


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 19:32:46 06/07/04 Mon
How in the heck did you figure out the back way???
[> [> Subject: Alfred=pie,M-c-Hammer^squared


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 21:25:40 06/09/04 Wed
Its all relative! After all,Al R. is a GENIUS! He is a member of MENSA!And Vice President of the "Mens Hair Club"!
[> [> [> Subject: Oh sure that would be me


Author:
Al R
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Date Posted: 08:42:25 06/10/04 Thu
Hair is highly overated!
Subject: COOL


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 07:52:49 06/10/04 Thu
COOL, I am visitor

2004!!



Isn't that ironic!?!?

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[> Subject: COOL MAN!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 07:52:49 06/10/04 Thu
I was Visitor 2000!
Subject: JOURNEY THROUGH LOVING EYES


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 15:30:17 06/09/04 Wed
A friend of mine named AL RITTER has written a book called JOURNEY THROUGH LOVING EYES. Click on book cover below to purchase or browse his book.



Journey Through Loving eyes, is a self help book for anyone with parents. Dealing with illness in a way, that leaves the reader with a sense of “inner peace”

Journey Through Loving Eyes is a sounding board for anyone with parents in either terminal care or a nursing home situation.

Author Alfred Ritter brings a valuable insight to parental care, in a loving way. He shows common pitfalls along with simple fixes for complex problems. The reader will no longer feel alone in their feelings of parental care.

Mr. Ritter will lead you through many situations, including:
Researching health care professionals
Picking your immediate care team
Choosing the style of care that is correct for your team
Dealing with the secretive parent
Care giving through love and not guilt
Care giving to radically different parents

Journey Through Loving Eyes promotes the celebration of love, as well as the care of loved parents.

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[> Subject: Hey Al


Author:
Mrs. Killer Z
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Date Posted: 13:11:19 06/03/04 Thu
Hey Al! I just purchased your book online. My father is very ill & I sure hope this can help me see the light a little. It's so hard to see your parents ill and I'm not sure what else I can do for him besides just being there. Looking forward to getting this... Stacy: thanks for posting this I would have never known about without your little advertisement!!! Stay Well & have a great weekend we are headed off to the beach in NC. tomorrow..
[> [> Subject: GREAT!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 16:28:40 06/03/04 Thu
I am so glad that I could help in some little way just by posting an advertisement! I hope your father will be okay, I'm sure that can be quite rough on you. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

Have a wonderful time at the beach you lucky dawg!!
[> [> [> Subject: Thank You


Author:
Jenn
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Date Posted: 07:31:36 06/04/04 Fri
My father has Parkinsons disease he is has the most quickest form of this disease. In the past year he has gotton really bad. He is unable to control his bladder & has a catheder has trouble walking & has to walk with a walker.You really cannot understand what he is saying he speech has dropped drastically in the past couple of years. I'm just thankful he hasn't given up. There is no cure for this disease. He has also had a few strokes with this which as you know doesn't help at all and all this and he is only 60 this all started when he was 52. So he is still very young to be in this condition & trust me this is unbearable sometimes to see him like this. I have faith that God will take care of him in the best way possible. Now that I've written a book. Talk to you when we get back have a great & safe weekend...
[> [> [> [> Subject: Sorry...


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 16:37:29 06/05/04 Sat
>I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad's condition. Maybe all the help and money that Michael J. Fox is giving to research this disease will ultimately help your father. Since you left this message I've been praying for you and your family. That has to be so difficult for you to see your father like that. I can't imagine what that's like. Be strong and just be there for him.

You mentioned "now that I've written a book"... you wrote a book also?? Has it been published?

I sure hope you had better weather at the beach than we've had here.

Al is having problems getting into my web site for some reason. We've been talking about it on Bench Seat Racin.
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: WE ARE BACK!!!


Author:
JENN
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Date Posted: 15:27:16 06/09/04 Wed
HEY STACY!! WE ARE BACK FROM NC GOT IN LAST NIGHT.. IT WAS SOOOOOOO NICE. IT WAS SUNNY & ABOUT 85-90 THE WHOLE TIME. MY MOTHER-IN-LAW HAS A BEACH HOUSE DOWN THERE SO WE REALLY DO ENJOY THAT I WILL SEND SOME PICS OF DANA ON THE BEACH. SHE LOOKED SOOO CUTE!
NO I DIDN'T WRITE A BOOK I WAS REFERRING TO ME WRITING SO MUCH THATS ALL.. I THINK IF I WROTE A BOOK IT WOULDN'T MAKE ANY SENSE ANYWAY.. I HAVE TOO MANY BLONDE MOMENTS! LOL! YOUR BROTHER KNOWS THAT! THANKS FOR THE PRAYERS WE KEEP YOU IN OURS!!
[> [> Subject: Hi Jenn


Author:
Al R
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Date Posted: 10:55:12 06/08/04 Tue
Hi Jenn,
I hope the book does help, we all need help from time to time from each other....How fast did Dave's car run with the new alcohol system?
[> [> [> Subject: HI AL


Author:
JENN
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Date Posted: 15:30:17 06/09/04 Wed
HI AL! SOMETIMES IT HELPS JUST KNOWING THAT SOMEONE ELSE HAS BEEN THERE TOO.. I'LL GET DAVE TO WRITE YOU BACK TONIGHT ABOUT HIS CAR.
Subject: Hey


Author:
Mark Choate
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Date Posted: 13:36:40 06/09/04 Wed
Hey Stacy! I hope all is well. It looks like you babies enjoyed the cicada's. It's a shame they aren't going to be around much longer. Yeah right! I just wanted to drop you a quick line to let you know I'm thinking about you and praying for you. Take care!
[> Subject: HI MARK


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 16:30:55 06/05/04 Sat
I think I'll be ready for them to leave when it's time. I'm glad they aren't here every year. Zoie has gotten to a point that she wants to eat them and I won't let her. She's managed to eat two of them so far that I know of.

I noticed your mom has her house up for sale. Where is she looking to move to? Is Kim moving with her?

Tell Bobby hello for me. It's been YEARS since I've seen him!

Thanks for dropping in and for all the prayers!
[> [> Subject: HOWDY


Author:
Mark Choate
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Date Posted: 13:28:42 06/09/04 Wed
[> [> Subject: Let's try this again!


Author:
Mark Choate
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Date Posted: 13:36:40 06/09/04 Wed
My son tried to eat one the other day. He played around with that thing for about a half hour and then decided he was going to try to eat it. He would walk away from it and come back, it was too funny! It's one of those things, I guess you would have to be there to appreciate. LOL!!!

Yeah, Mom is moving. She's not real sure where she's moving too, though. Kim moved out and is living in Fallston. I'll tell Bobby that you said hi. He's doing well.

No need to thank me for the prayers, they will continue to come your way.

Take care!!!!
Subject: HELLOOOOOOOOO


Author:
Curious Stacy
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Date Posted: 09:06:15 06/09/04 Wed
SOOOOOOOOO, how is everyone doing?
[> Subject: Helloooooooooo


Author:
Al R
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Date Posted: 09:06:15 06/09/04 Wed
Finer then frog's hair, any better and I'd be twins!
Subject: UGH


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:43:14 06/06/04 Sun
Getting tired of the rain on weekends!!


Subject: HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 15:14:32 06/05/04 Sat
HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY


I HOPE EVERYONE IS HAVING A SAFE AND FUN HOLIDAY!!


So far I've spent my weekend doing quite a bit. I played BINGO Friday night to help raise funds for the American Cancer Society. The nurses from chemo helped to sponsor it. It was a lot of fun but I didn't win a thing!





Then I went to my fathers house on Saturday and spent about four hours cleaning my X-Terra. Thanks to BIG BRO for helping out!





Today I did all my shopping with my mother.


Tomorrow I will probably spend the day cleaning or just hanging out at home since we are supposed to get some nasty storms in the afternoon.

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Subject: CICADA DAYS


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 12:06:43 06/05/04 Sat
I had fun taking these pictures...


Zoie and Chessie with a 17-year cicada


Zoie


Zoie


Sneakers


Pumpkin


Sneakers again


Chessie


Chessie

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[> Subject: HOW CUTE


Author:
JENN
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Date Posted: 12:23:22 05/22/04 Sat
Hey Stacy these pictures are too cute of all your babies. your "Sneakers" looks identical to our "Bandit" I'll send you a picture. They are really cute!!
[> [> Subject: HOWDY LIL SIS!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 11:37:46 05/24/04 Mon
Those dang bugs been keeping you awake at night? Noisey little devils ain't they!Had any cicada stew yet....YUMMY!
[> [> [> Subject: HOWDY BIG BRO


Author:
LIL SIS
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Date Posted: 21:18:47 05/24/04 Mon
They haven't been keeping me up at night from the noise, HOWEVER, they have been keeping me up from all the fun I'm having watching them molt! AND from catching hundreds of them off my front wall and porch. It's funny, my neighbor has started calling me the CICADA PAPARRAZZI (sp?). I've been taking pictures of them also but most haven't turned out since I've been getting too close to them.

I haven't had any stew LOL but I wouldn't be surprised if Dad wanted to try them!!

YES THEY ARE NOISY!! The internet says they don't make any noise at night, well I can say YES THEY DO!! Just not as loud. I didn't notice if there were any at your house when I was up there Saturday, are they "infesting" your place too?
[> [> Subject:
HI JENN


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 20:08:21 05/24/04 Mon
Sneakers is the coolest cat!! And he knows it too! He is huge and uses hi size to his advantage, he is now KING KITTY COOL and the alpha cat amongst the rest. I'd love to see a picture of Bandit! Please email me a photo.

This is Sneakers and Tyler when they were "teenagers" playing!



And this is Pumpkin and Sneakers playing when they were Kittens.


[> [> [> Subject: HEY STACY


Author:
JENN
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Date Posted: 21:42:10 05/24/04 Mon
HEY STACY!! I SENT YOU A PICTURE OF BANDIT JUST WANTED TO MAKE SURE YOU GOT IT IF NOT LET ME KNOW I WILL RE-SEND IT. THESE PICTURES ARE ADORABLE. YOU KNOW BANDIT KINDA ACTS LIKE THE KING OF KITTIES AROUND HERE TOO.. MAYBE THEY BOTH JUST KNOW HOW COOL THEY LOOK HUH??
[> [> [> [> Subject: NO


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:06:06 05/24/04 Mon
Jenn, no I didn't get the picture. Please try to resend it. Thanks!
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: PICTURE


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JENN
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Date Posted: 21:17:37 05/25/04 Tue
HI STACY!! I RESENT THE PICTURE LAST NIGHT JUST WANTED TO CHECK IN TO SEE IF YOU GOT IT.
[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Hmmm


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:21:49 05/26/04 Wed
No, Jenn, I still didn't get it. Hmm, I wonder why. How large is the picture?
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: THIS IS WIERD


Author:
JENN
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Date Posted: 10:07:24 05/27/04 Thu
HEY GIRL.. SORRY ABOUT ALL THAT IT'S WIERD WHY IT'S NOT COMING THROUGH I ALSO WROTE YOU THE OTHER NIGHT NOT SURE IF YOU GOT THAT ONE EITHER.. ANYWAY I SENT THE PIC. TO YOUR GOOD OL'BRO & ASKED HIM TO FORWARD IT TO YOU I KNOW PICTURES I SEND SEEM TO MAKE IT TO HIM WE MUST HAVE A LITTLE GHOST GOING BACK IN FORTH AT US!! HECK MAYBE IT'S BANDIT & SNEAKERS PLAYING TRICKS ON US!! LOL!! DO YOU KNOW IF YOU WILL BE AT THE TRACK ON SATURDAY YET??
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: FINALLY!!


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 17:26:34 05/27/04 Thu
Jenn, I finally got the picture from Mark! Thanks! Sneakers does look quite a bit like Bandit but I think Sneakers is a little darker and a lot fatter!

Here are your babies and my Sneakers....

LUKE



BANDIT



BANDIT


[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: MY BABIES


Author:
JENN
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Date Posted: 13:09:16 05/28/04 Fri
THANKS FOR POSTING MY BABIES. BETWEEN YOU & MARK THEY ARE BECOMING STARS!!! I ALSO HAVE A MINIATURE PINSCHER WELL ACTUALLY HE IS SO OVERWEIGHT HE KINDA LOOKS LIKE A FOOTBALL.. LOL!DAVE NICK NAMED HIM "SPALDING" LOL! I WILL SEND YOU SOME PICS OF HIM & MY OTHER KITTY.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Not Bandit


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 12:06:43 06/05/04 Sat
OOOPS, the bottom pic is SNEAKERS.
[> Subject: Molting


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Gillian
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Date Posted: 15:32:20 05/24/04 Mon
Love the pictures of your dogs!! They are great. Glad to hear you are having fun with the cicadas, I thought a car alarm was going off in the woods!!!

So what do they do at 10pm??? MOLT?? I will have to check it out.

Have fun and stay healthy!!

Gillian
[> [> Subject: Cicadas


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 19:45:40 05/24/04 Mon
My son tells me that the high school boys are grabbing cicadas outside, then bringing them into the school and turning them loose--or throwing them at people!
[> [> Subject: YEP, MOLTING


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:34:47 05/24/04 Mon
Hi Gillian! At least at my house I can find them outside molting. I've looked around 9pm and don't see as many. However I've noticed that there aren't as many now. Probably because so many have already gone through the process.
Subject: Lets see if this works!


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Mark
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Date Posted: 22:17:53 06/04/04 Fri

[> Subject: COOL


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Lil Sis
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Date Posted: 22:17:53 06/04/04 Fri
COOL!! IT WORKS!! Thanks!
Subject: CICADAS AND MY BABIES


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:50:59 06/03/04 Thu
More fun photos of my babies playing with the cicada's...


Chessie... notice her front feet are off the floor



A determined Pumpkin



Sneakers with Thomas O' Malley and Yoda watching



Cali picking it up



Chessie



Sneakers stretching to get to it



Thomas O' Malley



Yoda



Letting the 500 go



And last but not least... mating cicada's


[> Subject: PATRICK


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:45:25 06/01/04 Tue
I'm glad to see that PATRICK enjoys the cicada's as much as my babies!


[> [> Subject: Patrick


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:16:39 06/02/04 Wed
He can be a goofball sometimes! He wanted me to take a few pictures of him with a cicada. I suggested he put it on his nose--and he did! At least he didn't EAT it!
[> [> [> Subject: HMMM


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:50:59 06/03/04 Thu
Gee I wonder where he gets the goofball part from?
Subject: EMAIL


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:00:35 06/03/04 Thu
I now have two email addresses. Feel free to use either one. THANKS!

travistrittjunky@hotmail.com

or

SRPLILSIS@hotmail.com

Subject: lunch


Author:
Patty
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Date Posted: 22:09:36 06/02/04 Wed
Hey lady,
Just wanted to say I had a great time at lunch today :) we gotta do that again REAL SOON :o
[> Subject: Howdy Ma'am


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:09:36 06/02/04 Wed
I had a great time too. It was great seeing you!! Of course the cicada on the antenna added to the fun! I'll try to get down there again next week or the week after. Let me know when you're available. I know you have a class in June.
Subject: Howdy Miss Preston


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 17:38:53 06/02/04 Wed
My mom called me this evening. My dad had a scan on Friday to check the progress of the chemotherapy. The doc gave them the news today--and the news is GOOD! The main tumor has shrunk by about half, and the small spots that showed up previously are virtually gone. Obviously we're all happy about the news. My dad has been handling the chemo pretty well, so now they don't have to think about changing to a different drug that could have different effects. And of course, now he can go to his treatments each week KNOWING that it's working, instead of just HOPING that it's working. Mom said that Dad has been very optimistic throughout the treatment, and he said ahead of time that the scan would show that the chemo was working--and he was right.
[> Subject: THAT'S WONDERFUL!!


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 17:38:53 06/02/04 Wed
THAT'S WONDERFUL NEWS, CLIFF!! I am so happy for you and your family. Your father must feel so much relief. Even if he was optimistic I'm sure there still was a little fear that it wasn't working.

I couldn't respond to your email so I responded here. I'm having problems sending emails although I can receive them. I have this issue every once in a while and can't figure out the problem.

I posted Patrick's picture below the pictures of my babies. You'll have to show him. As much as I think they are interesting and don't mind them landing on me, I don't believe I could do what he did!!
Subject:
EXSITE SERVICES


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 17:28:44 06/02/04 Wed
A little friendly advertising for some of my friends...

If you need any general contracting work (i.e., HVAC, generators, electrical, plumbing, basic repairs, installations...) please contact EXSITE SERVICES.

These are the business cards of the two guys that have taken care of me and my Mom's air conditioning and heating problems at reasonable prices. They do excellent work. Both Scott and Stan were the maintenance engineers at Verizon Wireless and are highly respected.






EXSITE SERVICES
SCOTT MURPHY and STAN ALLEN


Me in the middle. This photo was taken at Scott and Stan's Farewell from Verizon Wireless luncheon. I don't work for their company nor do I get any proceeds for promoting their business.

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Subject: HAD CHEMO TODAY


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:49:02 06/01/04 Tue
I finished my last chemo of this round today. Next week is a break week. Today was also the day I had to get the shot in my tummy. It actually stung today. I wasn't too happy about that but I'm hoping if we switch to the right side of my tummy next time it'll be better. I wasn't expecting it to hurt today.


The last few times I've had chemo I've noticed that I'm starting to feel funky when the nurses flush my port-a-cath with saline solution. It's strange, when they flush it, patients can actually taste a metallic taste. I taste it real strong and sometimes can even taste it throughout the week. At first I thought it was the Heparin that was starting to bother me but we figured it out today that it is the saline. It doesn't really make sense since the chemo drug has saline in it also and it doesn't have the same effect on me. It makes my stomach burn a little bit, I get a little headache, and I just feel a little "fuzzy" for the rest of the day. I lose my appetite after chemo because the burning turns to a little bit a nausea. The nurse said she would keep an eye on it and if it gets worse she will ask the doctor if we can just use sterile water to flush the port. Always something....

The nurse also said that she wonders if part of the problem is actually psychological. There is a condition called "anticipatory sickness" that chemo patients can get. For instance if someone knows that the chemo drug they are on will cause them to feel nauseas, that person can start feeling sick before they even get to the doctors office. They may even vomit as soon as the needle goes in but before the chemo drug is administered. My nurse is wondering if psychologically (subconsciously) my mind is starting to get tired of going through chemo and my body is starting to react to it. I suppose it's possible. Today was my 29th treatment. One could get tired of it after a while. I don't want to get "tired" of it because I know it's my only hope for recovery and remission and I want to have the most positive attitude about the whole process that I can.

When I got home today I was really beat so I had to lay down for a couple hours. I'm glad that I will be on a break next week.

Ever feel like this?

[> Subject: HANG IN THERE


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JENN
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Date Posted: 13:13:54 05/28/04 Fri
HEY STACY!SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAD A TIRING DAY YESTERDAY. YOU ARE DOING GREAT KEEP YOUR SPIRITS HIGH & STAY STRONG. YOU HAVE A GREAT & POSITIVE ATTITUDE. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK GIRL!!!
[> [> Subject: YES I DID


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 19:07:05 05/31/04 Mon
You know, when I first read your message I thought it said I had a "trying" day, LOL. Well, it was both "trying" and "tiring".

Thanks for the vote of confidence. Usually I feel like I do pretty well but sometimes this whole thing can be a pain. Not knowing FOR SURE what the outcome will be. I have every intention of beating this thing!! On the other hand I like not having to go to work. Most people say "wouldn't that be okay though? If you have to work then you know you're doing really well." Well yes, I'd love to be really well but I don't want to have to work either. I've gotten pretty used to doing things in my time. Getting up when I want, doing what I want, when I want, and so on.... I'm not lazy nor unmotivated, I just really like the "retirement" life!! I'm sure it has a lot to do with my positive attitude.

How was the track? Got any pics you'd like me to post?
[> [> [> Subject: TRACK


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JENN
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Date Posted: 21:18:14 05/31/04 Mon
HEY GIRL... YES I HAVE A FEW PICS. I WILL SEND THEM NOW. LETS HOPE THESE MAKE IT...LOL!!!! HE HAD A LITTLE TROUBLE IN THE BEGINNING BUT FINALLY GOT EVERYTHING GOING THEN THE TRACK WAS AWEFUL NO ONE SEEMED TO BE ABLE TO GET TRACTION THE PLACE CLEARED OUT PRETTY QUICK BY THE TIME 2:00 GOT HERE THERE WASN'T MANY PEOPLE THERE AT ALL SO I DON'T KNOW IF THE TRACK CONDITIONS RAN THEM AWAY OR WHAT BUT I GUESS A FEW MORE TIMES OUT & HE WILL BE DOING WELL STILL GETTING THE BUGS OUT I GUESS..
[> [> [> [> Subject: KILLER Z


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:49:02 06/01/04 Tue
JENN AND DAVE'S KILLER Z AT CECIL COUNTY DRAGWAY THIS PASSED WEEKEND!





Subject: AMERICAN IDOL


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 13:16:03 05/28/04 Fri
For all you AMERICAN IDOL fans out there Fantasia Barrino won AMERICAN IDOL last night. Although I was hoping Diana Degarmo would win I do believe Fantasia earned it.



FANTASIA BARRINO HUGGING DIANA DEGARMO AFTER FINDING OUT SHE WON




FANTASIA BARRINO WINS



DIANA DEGARMO



DIANA DEGARMO (I sure hope she brings out an album)


[> Subject: Gotta love it...


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Diana Fan
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Date Posted: 23:52:01 05/27/04 Thu
Too funny!


[> Subject: FAN


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JENN
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Date Posted: 13:16:03 05/28/04 Fri
I AM A DIANA FAN MYSELF.. THOUGHT SHE WAS AWESOME
Subject: CICADA'S MOLTING


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:29:13 05/27/04 Thu
I'm really not turning this web site into a CICADA site but they are just so interesting to me...

Here are some photo's of cicada's molting for those of you that haven't seen it.





Photo's by Leanna Chamish

[> Subject: Cicadas


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:29:13 05/27/04 Thu
Since I work downtown, I often walk to the Inner Harbor at lunch time. I was sitting by the water today, and I saw dead cicadas floating in front of me--then a couple of ducks swam up and ate them!
Subject: Hi Stacy


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:23:27 05/27/04 Thu
Wanna come do some landscaping at MY house? With all that free time, maybe you could do some painting and wallpapering here, too!

Just thought I'd fill you in.... My dad is doing well so far with his chemo treatment. He's getting a bit more fatigued, but I know you said that it's something that builds up as the treatment goes on. He complained of headaches last week, so the doc ordered a brain scan. Fortunately, they found no cancer. (I heard a rumor that they DID find a brain.) He'll be getting scanned soon to check the progress of the treatment. My mom will probably be a nervous wreck, waiting for the results.

On the home front, Michelle and I went on a brunch cruise yesterday on the Clipper City, 2-masted schooner out of the Inner Harbor. We were out for 3 hours, though it didn't go too far--just looped around the Patapso off Ft. McHenry a ways. We actually SAILED. I helped raise the mainsail--geez, that was WORK. That sail--and the big fat wooden boom attached to the top of it--was HEAVY. The food was good, too. And there was a nice, cool breeze out there! We got a lot of good pictures.

Hope your treatments keep working!
[> Subject: HI CLIFF


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:37:51 05/25/04 Tue
Nah, I don't think so, LOL. Trust me, I have quite enough to keep me busy here, no free time here. Dad and Mark are the painters, not me.


I am so happy to hear that your father is doing well with his chemo treatments. I was really really really really nervous when I had an MRI on my brain to see if the cancer had spread there. THANK GOD it didn't!! I think that is the worse place to have it, just in my opinion. I would be so afraid of that. THANK GOD your father didn't have it there either. As for your mom being nervous, I really believe it is so much easier being the patient. I don't know how well I could handle it if it were someone that I love that had to go through all this. I'm sure she will be very nervous waiting for the results. How about your dad? Is he just going about his business living his life or has it really affected him emotionally?
[> [> Subject: Hi Stacy


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:28:53 05/26/04 Wed
My dad seems to be his usual self. A couple weeks ago, he came home from chemo to find a broken water heater, and he replaced it himself. Having a week off after every 3 weeks of treatment seems to help. After the third week, my mom has said he seems very tired. Then he perks up again. And he still seems to have his usual sense of humor! He's doing pretty well for someone 78 years old.
[> [> [> Subject: I'm so glad


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:59:17 05/27/04 Thu
I'm so glad that your father is doing well both physically and emotionally. Like my nurse says... "as long as you wake up on this side of the dirt today, it's a good day!" She also believes and so do I that cancer patients need to continue to "live" their lives. It really helps in their attitude.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Dad's chemo


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:23:27 05/27/04 Thu
My parents were upset that they missed my niece's high school graduation last weekend--their first grandchild to graduate. But that would have been a 300+ mile drive, and dad wasn't really up to it. But other than that, he's doing a lot of his usual stuff. I think he tries to pretend that there's a big "S" on his chest, and a cape on his back!
Subject: STORMS


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:32:35 05/27/04 Thu
Some nasty storms rolled through the area this evening. All my babies were huddled up against me including Mom's dog. So far it doesn't appear there was any damage here.


[> Subject: Storms


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 23:33:21 05/26/04 Wed
I lost power here last night from 8 to midnight. Then it went off again at 6 this morning, and was still off when I left for work! Oh well--power was out for 36 hours when Isabel came through last year, so I shouldn't complain now!
[> [> Subject: ELECTRICITY


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 21:32:35 05/27/04 Thu
Did you have your electricity when you got home from work this evening? I never lost mine. I think it's because our power lines are underground. Unless something happens to the main box I pretty much so get to keep it.

Go ahead and complain, it's still an inconvenience I'm sure!
Subject: THEY'RE HERE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:10:57 05/25/04 Tue

IT'S OFFICIAL... the cicada's have arrived in masses in my neighborhood as of today! I actually got watch one come out of its shell today and dry it's wings. Pretty interesting!
[> Subject: Cicadas


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:45:05 05/17/04 Mon
I still haven't seen any. Patrick said a kid had 2 or three in a jar on the school bus--and another kid ATE one of them, for $5.
[> Subject: Cicadas


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:50:38 05/17/04 Mon
I still haven't seen any. Patrick said a kid had 2 or three in a jar on the school bus--and another kid ATE one of them, for $5.
[> [> Subject: Cicadas


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 11:23:57 05/18/04 Tue
They are all over the place here! I've had a few land on me while I was transplanting a small maple tree out back. I got ot watch another one come out of it's shell today and do it's molting thing. I was able to get inches away from this one. It's pretty cool!
[> [> [> Subject: Cicadas here, cicadas there, cicadas in my underwear....


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 22:26:33 05/18/04 Tue
That's interesting--Michelle lives just a few minutes from you, and she hasn't seen one yet. BUT she said that one of her students (she teaches at Glen Burnie High) lives in Pasadena, and told her that they were all over her yard, and they're so loud that they keep her awake at night. Yet I haven't seen one yet either, and I'm not far from Pasadena.
[> [> [> [> Subject: WELL?!?!?!?!


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Stacy
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Date Posted: 00:23:42 05/22/04 Sat
HAVE YOU SEEN ANY YET!?!
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Cicadas


Author:
Rob
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Date Posted: 19:12:52 05/22/04 Sat
Stacy,
I just got back today from a week in Florida for training. There were just a couple when I left on Monday however, while I was away, the real invasion came. I remembered the distinctive sound they made from the '87 event, but I don't remember anything like what greeted me when I arrived home today. Maybe it's worse because I live way back in the woods like the toothless hillbilly that I am but I could actually here the sound of the cicadas once I departed the pavement and started back on the gravel lane toward my house. As I got closer, the sound got louder. When I actually pulled the car into the driveway and opened the door, the sound coming from the forest all around me was positively deafening. This is a really unique event but I hope they don't stay around too long. I've only been home a couple of hours and they're already driving me nuts!!! There is no escape from the noise. Even inside with all the doors and windows closed, I can still here them very well. Did I mention they are very LOUD?
Rob
[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: HI ROB!!


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 01:10:57 05/25/04 Tue
So how was training? It must have been really hot in Florida.

I live backed up to woods also and it is quite loud here too. The documentation that I've found on the internet say that the cicada's are quiet at night. WELL NOT HERE!! As I sit here at 2:07am, I am hearing them sing what sounds like "pharaoh" out my window. I've actually had them land on me and start singing.

So other than training in Florida, what else have you been up to?? Which office are you working out of? Are you still in Chantilly?
Subject:
Mark is 42


Author:
Lil Sis
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Date Posted: 22:40:05 05/19/04 Wed
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MARK!!!


[> Subject: THANK YOU!


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 22:40:05 05/19/04 Wed
Thank you Stacy! I hope 42 is the best year yet!
Subject: CICADA PHOBIA


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 22:31:24 05/19/04 Wed
Poor Tyler, he was so afraid of the cicada! He didn't want anything to do with it!



Look at that expression!

Subject: UPDATE


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 19:13:15 05/19/04 Wed
Mom had her surgery today at 9:00am. Me and my Aunt Nancy took her to Upper Chesapeake Hospital in Bel Air. She did really well with the anesthesia and the doctor said that when he did the procedure on her foot, the bones went into place just like he was hoping. He was correcting problems from her previous two surgeries. She has two pins in her toes; one in the big toe and one in the next toe over. She's having a little pain but it's tolerable she said. Keep your fingers crossed and pray that this time it was done right and she won't have to go through it again.


I started my next round of chemo yesterday. That went well and I even got to watch "THE PRICE IS RIGHT". My doctor seems to have decided that I'm going to get that shot once every two weeks instead of only if I need it. So needless to say I got that shot in my stomach. The ONLY thing I felt this time was the cold alcohol rub before the shot. Tracey, my nurse, is great at giving that needle!!


I talked to the doctor about how much I've been doing lately especially all the yard work. I told him that I've been feeling a lot better and less fatigued from it. He isn't putting me on any restrictions, he said I can do whatever I want as long as I feel up to it and I rest when I need it. Oh yea, he did put me on one restriction.... he said it's okay to go to the race tracks but it's not okay for me to race. LOL!! He said it's all I'd need is to wreck and make my white blood count go haywire. I laughed, I thought that was funny. I enjoy watching but I never race.


I also found out it's okay for me to be in the sun. Usually if you're on chemo you have to stay out of the sun. The specific drug that I'm on doesn't cause photosynthesis with the sun and cause me to burn any quicker or worse. The only concern they have, which they would have with anyone, is they don't want anyone to get skin cancer.

So I'm free to do what I want with the doctors blessing!!

[> Subject: Doctor's permission


Author:
Cliff
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Date Posted: 00:02:39 05/14/04 Fri
Did the doc give you permission to do the Mexican hat dance? If he did, I'd like to take some pictures.....
[> [> Subject: Well....


Author:
Stacy
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Date Posted: 23:05:27 05/16/04 Sun
Well.... he said I could do whatever I feel up to....
[> Subject: YOU NEVER RACE!!!


Author:
knifknarf
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Date Posted: 08:34:27 05/18/04 Tue
You never race at the strip. But on the highway, now that's a different story. Tell your mom I said hello, and I really hope that this is the last she has to endure. Glad to hear you're still on course with your health.
[> [> Subject: WHAT???


Author:
Nails
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Date Posted: 12:17:54 05/18/04 Tue
Are you implying that I race on the highway?! I do the speed limit at all times sir.


Mom says hello back! Are you going to be in the MTSO on Friday the 22nd?
[> [> [> Subject: Yeah Right


Author:
knifknarf
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Date Posted: 09:33:03 05/19/04 Wed
Then you must have a problem reading speed limit signs. As far as I know right now I'll be here Friday. It looks like by myself.
[> [> [> [> Subject: I've slowed down...


Author:
Nails
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Date Posted: 19:13:15 05/19/04 Wed
Since I haven't been working I'm not in a big hurry anymore so I really have slowed down.

Feel like company for lunch on Friday?? The 21st?
Subject: GO DALE EARNHARDT JR!


Author:
JUNIOR FAN
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Date Posted: 08:24:22 05/18/04 Tue
JUNIOR wins Richmond 5-15-04!





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[> Subject: Lil E


Author:
knifknarf
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Date Posted: 08:24:22 05/18/04 Tue
So!!!!!
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