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Subject: MEN UGH!!! Saggy Baggy

Author: Anonymous

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 14:26:07 03/14/07 Wed Ok men take no offense to this please. I refuse to believe ANY of you would behave in this way... But I just need to vent! Ok so yesterday my honey sends me a text and asks if he can borrow $60. I say thats fine. He asks me if I can deposit it into his account I tell him I dont have time to do it then but will do it tomorrow. So moving on to today I go to the bank and deposit the money into his account. Now first of all while I was there they had a question so I tried to call him. He didnt answer. Yeah so hes at work maybe he cant answer whatever. So then I get it into his account and send him a text telling him its in there. An hour and a half later no text response back, no phone call back nothing. So me being who I am send him another text saying "Youre welcome" He then responds to that one saying "Give me a chance to say thanks" So I responded back saying I am sorry I didnt realize it took over an hour. And he has the nerve to be upset with me Did I miss something here??? I just walked half a mile with a child who isnt feeling well in 40 degree weather to put 60 of my hard earned dollars into your account and then take the time to send you a text message telling you its there. And over an hour later your telling me that I need to give you the chance to say thanks? And are upset with me for waiting over an hour for a simple thank you. You couldnt take five seconds to send a text saying thank you, three seconds to send one saying thanks, even two seconds to say tnx??? But I am the one in the wrong!!! UGH-MEN LOL! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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i swear there is a disease going around rendering all men retarded. I had the same issue with mine. I come home from work at 1045pm to the kids running through the house and being in the bathroom. He's knocked out in the bed. I tossed him the 4th bottle of cough medicine that he begged me to pick up on the way home and put the kids backt o bed after I have been at work late. Did I get a thank you? Nope. Not even "how was work"? By the way, I still have that cough but he seems to have the baby version although he is definitely being a baby about it. ~*Navy Lady (NT)	Anonymous	02:10:04 03/15/07 Thu
Maybe with the warm up after the big freeze-it is melting their brains!!! Saggy Baggy (NT)	Anonymous	11:50:33 03/15/07 Thu
Right now I'd just be happy to see my dh for more than 5 minutes. His work schedule for the next couple weeks is crazy (in at 5:30 am home at 11:30pm) and both kids have the flu.....~tiggerrrt (NT)	Anonymous	15:04:14 03/15/07 Thu
I call that the "twist" My ex did that all the time. If you did him a favor, he'd twist it to make it look like he did you a favor. In this instance he'd probably say how great he was for getting me out of the house and getting some exercise. Doggy momma (NT)	Anonymous	08:09:56 04/29/07 Sun
In his defense - maybe the text was slow in going through. I sometimes get messages that were sent hours before. Just curious though - if you are married why is it "loaning" him money? (NT)	Anonymous	09:43:12 04/29/07 Sun
Since they obviously use different banks I assume they aren't married. That may be a big mistake in itself.."loaning" money. I have NEVER had anything but bad luck with that. They always wind up being jacka$$es after! (NT) -- Anonymous, 11:17:27 04/29/07 Sun
Re: MEN UGH!!! Saggy Baggy	Anonymous	01:58:54 04/30/07 Mon
Again, in his defense.... you did wait till the next day to (loan) him the money!!!!! (NT) -- Anonymous, 01:59:28 04/30/07 Mon Ok you just really got under my skin with that one....click in From Saggy Baggy (who had totally forgotten about this by the way) -- Anonymous, 13:01:15 04/30/07 Mon Totally understandable, however.... click in -- Anonymous, 20:39:14 04/30/07 Mon
Re: He is at work. Maybe something came up. Just like you couldn't drop everything you were doing and go make the deposit, maybe he couldn't to say thanks. Sounds like it was very grudgingly given. (NT)	Anonymous	21:08:39 05/01/07 Tue
Ok I keep trying to let this drop but some people just obviously do not want it to be. So let me say a couple more things. He works at a school and it was during his free time first of all. If he can take the time to send me a text and tell me he didnt have enough time to say thanks it takes longer to type "you didnt give me enough time" then it does to say "thanks" If waiting a day was an issue then he shouldnt have told me it was ok to wait a day. I have no problems with giving him money. BUT nobody wants to feel unappreciated. I needed to vent excuse me for being human. Its real funny to me that someone brought it back up a month after the situation LONG after I had even forgotten about it. I mean totally forgot about it to the point I had to read the whole thing over again to remember the circumstances. Saggy Baggy (NT) -- Anonymous, 09:07:09 05/02/07 Wed