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Date Posted: 20:18:18 05/09/11 Mon
Author: Margaret
Subject: Re: If you are here still
In reply to: Ben to Margaret 's message, "Re: If you are here still" on 15:24:49 05/07/11 Sat

Hi, Ben,
thank you for answers. In our family live goes wavy, Jack's behavior sometimes better, sometimes worse. You know, I had to be a few days out of home. I decided, Jack is old enough already for independence under Nancy's observation. It was my mistake. Jack have done wrongdoings many enough, and this Saturday ( May,7) was day of reckoning for him. He got good spanking in front Nancy and Mike (Mike was spanked by Nancy too), despite his protests that he is 16 already and too old for such punishment, but after punishment his bottom cheeks were dark-red and he cried the same as Mike. If it's interesting for you, I may write more detail.

Ben, about our previous topics.

" - Did you use "diapering position" or only
>>standing with spread bottom cheeks?
>
>I used both. There wasn't a system." - which position did you use more often, when children were older 15? Jack doesn't like "diaper position" but it's maximally convenient for me for evening checking.




>
> "- Did Mark's mother checked him separately or in
>>front twins too?
>Also in front twins and other guests." - Were twins checked by you and Mark by mother simultaneously, ore one after other and both other could saw it?




"6-3). How old were you, when mother trusted you to
>>wipe your bottom independently (I understand that
>>control of wiping is possible for more older boys too,
>>but my question about wiping)
>
>I was 17, nearly 18." - Ben, were there control wiping only, or mother wiped you after each pooping till this age? Did you have to call her in bathroom after pooping or she watched you on toilet-tube? What you do when pooped in school toilet? Did your friends had problems with wiping, when were in teen age?



"6-4). When you were 12-17, where mother did the
>>exam - in your room or bathroom?
>
>Both, there was no system. Sometimes also in the
>living room or dining room." - Did you ought to take off everything in your room or right here, where was exam. How many minutes your mother spend on exam?




"Who presence was most embarrassing for
you?
>
>Any presence out of my mother. I tried to resist
>sometimes when my sister was present, but mom slapped
>me and explained, that Sue (my sister) should learn
>how dirty boys should be disciplined. " - Ben, I understand, presence of your sister was embarrassed for you, however, you mother was right, and for girls, as mothers in future, it's useful lesson. Was your sister observator only or mother permitted her to help? How old were you when started your modesty be naked in front sister? Was she embarrassed when saw your nudity during puberty or it wasn't big deal for her?



"Was she examed by
>>mother too or it was "boy's privilege" only?
>
>She had a short "dirty phase" with 15. I was glad that
>she was also checked, but she learned it in only a few
>months. Then she was a good girl again." - Were you checked by mother together then or sister was checked separately? If together, which was your reaction? Which problems had your sister with cleanliness then?







"6-10). Did you have ever lost semen during exam
>>and, if yes, how old were you when it happened the
>>first time?
>
>It happened 5 - 10 times a month when I was 14 - 16. I
>got extra face slappings for that, also paddle hits
>for my balls and penis. It sounds severe, but it was
>okay." - Ben, when you had lost of semen, did you cover your penis by hands or it was stream?



"6-12). Was any from your friends checked the same
>>in his family? Did your friends know about your
>>mother's control?
>Yes, two of my friends. They knew about it, others not." -
- Were they witnesses of your checking? Did you yourself see their checking? How old were they, when parents stopped to check them?


"6-13). Ben, now you understand that your mother
>>was absolutely right and used this understanding for
>>raising your excellent "trio", however, can you tell
>>me honestly, what did you think, when were 16 and
>>mother examined you so?

>Mother let me know that she had absolute power. I was
>often stubborn and naughty to provoke her to show me
>my limits.
>I slowly began to understand that I needed her power
>to be kept in line." - Ben, it's psychological portrait of my Jack!!! Really, boys are boys!



>> - Ben, Jessica is very smart and clever girl. He
>>has 2 youger brothers and, as I know (we spoke with
>>her a few times), she understands parents' problems
>>with growing boys. I hope, she will have good
>>influence for my Jacky.
>
>I hope it, too. But her influence may be greater and
>more usefull when she knows about her problems with
>her." - I think so too, and, perhaps, I'l realize this possibility..


Ben, I have 2 additional questions for you, OK?

1). You told that your mother used regular enemas for you. How she did it?

2). Your mother used face slaps for you, but did you get usual spanking? How she did it?


Best wishes to you and your family. How about Wanessa? When you will be granddad and Kevin uncle?

Margaret

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