I know this isn't fair, but you have to realize that it's hard for a new director to think of everything, even though it seems like a no brainer. Maybe she felt you weren't 'hers'. That's ashame. Did you know there would be an announcement? If so, you should have contacted her. If not, you're going to have to chalk it off and get over it. She goofed or she really wasn't worried about you. Perhaps she was afraid you'd ask for perks - hotel, travel. Who knows, but it does suck. Many of us have been screwed out of our farewells, trust me. -- Ms. & Mrs. Pageants

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Subject: I know this isn't fair, but you have to realize that it's hard for a new director to think of everything, even though it seems like a no brainer. Maybe she felt you weren't 'hers'. That's ashame. Did you know there would be an announcement? If so, you should have contacted her. If not, you're going to have to chalk it off and get over it. She goofed or she really wasn't worried about you. Perhaps she was afraid you'd ask for perks - hotel, travel. Who knows, but it does suck. Many of us have been screwed out of our farewells, trust me.

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Date Posted: 03/26/14 Wed
In reply to: surprised they did this 's message, "the new 2014 Mrs NC United States was crowned at the Miss NC US pageant without the 2013 Mrs ever being told or invited since the new queen was chosen at large (director resigned). If you were the 2013 queen, what would you do?" on 01/25/14 Sat

>Without a director she had no farewell but the new
>queen is not a runner up so neither knew the other
>whrn this happened. Should formers reach out to the
>new ones or do you think its the other way
>around...the new queens at large should extend the
>invitation to connect?
>
>my thought is you never know who the next director
>might be. Did the live pageant crowning her have an
>obligation to invite the reigning to give up her title
>and have her farewell? I think that may have been the
>right thing to do rather thsn find out from a friend
>your year is now over. Thoughts?

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Who was crowned? Nothing on U.S. site yet (NT) Wondering! 03/26/14 Wed

I'm also curious..... (NT) NC girl 03/31/14 Mon

just Google. Stephanie Butler is Mrs NC US 2014. (NT) -- you can Google a title and usually find who has it, 03/31/14 Mon