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Subject: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Andy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:08:03 11/20/25 Thu I閳ユ獫e been curious about this question for a long time: In different families, cultures, or regions, do girls get spanked more frequently than boys? I閳ユ獫e read some discussions online but haven閳ユ獩 found a consistent answer閳ユ敃ome say parents are stricter with girls due to traditional gender expectations, while others argue boys are more likely to be disciplined this way for being "more mischievous." [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Brittney [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:22:13 11/20/25 Thu I definitely get way more spankings than my brother! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:36:23 11/20/25 Thu How old are you Brittney? Also, what type of offenses are you spanked for? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:41:07 11/21/25 Fri Possibly depends on whether it is real or fantasy spanking. It is impossible to count the number of spankings that girls get in fantasies that are presented as real because there must be millions of them. Girls getting spanked is way more popular than boys getting it. FWIW, where I grew up, the reality was that both boys and girls got spanked but, as far as I could tell, boys got it much more. I didn't want it to be that way, it just was. These days, I'm not sure, but I wouldn't consider spanking forums to be a reliable source of trusted information. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: johnny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:01:49 11/22/25 Sat I hate to agree with you, but I do. :) We rarely heard of girls being spanked, and boys didnt want to talk about their experience, but sometimes I'd hear "I really got it last night". And boys constantly made trips to the school office./ I've read some scientific studies, of course avoiding the biased writings of educational institutions. Among the studies on hundreds of kids were things I didn't at all expect! 80% of spankings are boys. One study said 85% of parents use corporal punishment. I doubt that, but abolitionists admit to 67%. And number/rate of spankings stays consistent age 8 to age 15, then gradually declines through age 17, which is as far as they went. I think most people will disagree with all of this, and fine with me. But I want people to know that spanking is all around, and a few might find something in there that they want to latch onto. My apologies to all. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: ts92 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:03:35 11/22/25 Sat I think boys might get spanked a bit more when they're younger but once older, especially nearing and during teenage years I have no doubt girls are spanked much more often. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:19:53 11/26/25 Wed Greetings ts92. You might be right in thinking that girls get it a lot more than guys. Could that be true just because parents are scared of the bigger guys? Much more cooperation is required when spanking a large teen male. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Anna to Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:37:02 11/26/25 Wed Hi Alfred22, My son is 15 years old and is about 2 inches taller than me and a lot stronger than me. He still goes over my knee when a spanking on his bare bottom is needed. He knows that if he resisted that I would call his uncle and he would come down and strap him then stand and watch while I paddle his bare bottom. That actually goes for all five of my kids. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:34:18 11/26/25 Wed When I was 15, I could have resisted a spanking, but I never did. We were trained to obey our parents. It would have seemed too wrong to resist. Boys got more spankings than girls. It was a psychological submission. Physical dominance was never needed at home or at school. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Alfred22 for Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:47:52 11/28/25 Fri Resistance is never a good idea, even if there is no helper to come and make you submit. The educational function requires a fair serious submission. How often would a helper be called upon to actually intervene? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Anna to Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:31:47 11/29/25 Sat Just knowing that their uncle would come and strap them and then get a spanking from me is all that is needed. My brother-in-law was called only once. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Alfred22 for Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:10:22 11/30/25 Sun I suspect that all the young people in your house can recount a version of your Brother-in-law's visit! What did he use on them that time? Some implement he brought with him? Did you really give a dreaded "Second" right on top of the spanking from him? Anyone who has really actually had a second spanking knows just how "influential" they are! In my scouting days, a kid refused a second beltline run and forced the rest of us to run, claiming that someone deliberately him in the front. Of course, no one did it on purpose but as you no doubt know, doubled belts wrap around and it was just an accident, IF, and it is a big "IF", it happened at all. The kid who made this claim then proceeded to quit the group. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Anna to Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:16:44 11/30/25 Sun Alfred22, My oldest boy when he turned 13 was when he resisted and fought me over getting a spanking. I called my brother-in-law and he came and scolded him and gave him 5 swats with his belt on the bare bottom. He stood and watched me give him the spanking he deserved with hand and paddle. He told all the kids if they resist and fight me over a spanking, he will gladly come over and whip their butts with the belt then get their spanking from me. It has not happened since the first time with my son. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Tim [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:58:47 12/01/25 Mon According to the internet yes but most of that is just fetishist narrative and not factual. In real life boys get it more because we aren't as well behaved as girls. In real life there aren't many spankings period. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:40:09 12/02/25 Tue Also take into consideration that, for people who are not kinky about spanking, hitting a girl is a less natural response due to traditional feelings about masculinity and femininity. Old-fashioned ideas about boys are that they are or should be tougher and better equipped to absorb hard physical contact. Parents and schools that use corporal punishment tend to be old-fashioned in their feelings about things. Would not be surprising then, if boys still get spanked more often than girls like it was years ago. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Alfred22 to Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:02:58 12/20/25 Sat It is a good thing that their uncle by law was able to come over and assist you. It is quite amazing how just five belt licks on the bare bottom could make such a powerful impression on your whole family! I hope you went easy on him when it was your turn. A second spanking on an already red and sore bottom always feels so unfair and, of course, it hurts so much more. Did you ever get a second right on top of your first? The sting is so magnified by having spanks land on an already spanked bottom. What did you think of when each spank's sting sank into your mind and onto your bare, red bottom -- no matter where it landed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:14:32 12/28/25 Sun I think boys might get it more for some of the reasons noted. But I would guess that girls are more likely to get spanked as teens. Do others agree? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: johnny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:53:27 12/29/25 Mon Certainly not around here. A study showed 4 out of 5 in USA are boys, which shocked me of course. But many girls babysit, boys get spanked. The government keeps figures, and report a steady spanking rate for all from ages 8 through 17. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Marla to Johnny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:55:42 12/29/25 Mon Oh really? SHOW US. Put a link here to those supposed government figures. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: johnny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:54:52 12/29/25 Mon I'm not saying I believe them, or claim them. I'm just throwing them out to present a contrary opinion. I'm not on the net to research pages, I'm not a student or scholar. I recall the federal government has a family survey that includes spanking. Whenever i say something I get challenged by other opinions, but that's fine, I'm not trying to win. The part about sitters and boys is from my neighborhood, though. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:27:35 12/30/25 Tue I think the Health and Human Services department put out a survey. But the last one was in 2011. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Are Girls Spanked More Often Than Boys? Author: Bonnie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:14:46 01/06/26 Tue I am from a mid size town in the midwest19 still living ve at home while going to culinary classes at a near by technical school I never left home but do not need it that much my parents have sr a school type paddle over my panties same as my tween and teen under 18 years I know it helps my be a better person I know a have not fully matured yet and I need a sting in my sit upon as my grandma calls a spanking [ Post a Reply to This Message ]