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Subject: Re: Did they enjoy it?


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Sandra
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Date Posted: 20:54:19 05/25/25 Sun
In reply to: Marcey 's message, "Did they enjoy it?" on 05:44:41 05/25/25 Sun


My parents spanked out of duty but my Uncle R definately enjoyed spanking my two cousins, Kara and Dani. I saw him spank the girls a few times when they were 11 - 13 yrs old and he seemed very pleased to pull their panties down and take them over his lap. Especially when he spanked in front of me or others he’d look around the room like he enjoyed the attention.
And not only him staring at the girls’ bare buns wiggld as his hand smacked bright red but when the girls were kicking their legs up and down and wide open he would focus his eyes and the spanks on their thighs.
I felt embarrassed for my cousins knowing their dad liked such spanking exposer.

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[> Subject: Re: Did they enjoy it?


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Allison
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Date Posted: 11:33:54 05/26/25 Mon

When mom remarried - my new stepdad instituted regular punishment.. for her and I..

I did not understand till years later, that while the punishments were due to some issue, it did not take much on my part to be told i had punishment due.

What i always found odd was that after a hard punishment, when i was sent to my room... At first i was glad to be left alone as that gave me time to provide myself pleasure, offsetting my pain.

Why i found over time tho' was that after a punishment session, my stepdad took my mom to their bedroom for a bit of a punishment, and then more... It seemed as i got older, my punishment, my tears, were a bit of viagra to my stepdad.

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Marcey
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Date Posted: 10:17:24 05/27/25 Tue

I am sorry to hear about your stepfather misuse of spanking punishment.

I was lucky (perhaps) that I was never spanked when I did not deserve it. And I got away with a number of things that should have resulted in a hot bottom but didn't.

There is a fine line between authorizing or giving a spanking that is deserved and one that is strictly for the spanker's pleasure.

At my school the principal never gave you swats. He sent you to the gym coaches to administer the punishment. So he acted as a buffer against spankings that were not deserved.

But it was clear to me that the coaches clearly enjoyed paddling students. And they enjoyed it even more if a parent came to school to administer the punishment themselves, which was usually worse than what they would have gotten from the coach.

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Brett
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Date Posted: 17:52:52 05/27/25 Tue

In a non-consensual situation, like being punished by an authority figure, that would be a bizarre experience knowing they were sexually excited by it. I'm trying to imagine if I had had a stepdad, and I knew my spanking was part of foreplay for sex with mom. How could that possibly be a good learning experience for the child? What is the meaning of punishment? How could you trust that punishment was fair? How could you ever trust that parent?

I think a critical thing about a spanking is that the disciplinarian must be worthy of respect. If the one administering the punishment lacks integrity, then what moral authority do they have? Is spanking your stepdaughter as part of sex, and for your own sexual gratification, and not even caring if the stepdaughter knows that sex with her mother follows, an example of what a good person would do? Does a good person use a child's pain to fuel their own sex drives? What does it feel like to be used in such a way by such a parent?

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Marcey
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Date Posted: 10:14:19 05/28/25 Wed

Excellent response.

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