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Subject: "The girls that are normally accused of being rude are the ones you say terrible things about." Not the own you think it is. Author: No name [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 21:03:38 07/04/22 Mon [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Don’t think that was meant to be “an own.” It’s just a statement of fact. It’s hard to be fake nice for a week with people that you think are saying bad things about you. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:21:41 07/06/22 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: OMG- Maybe the reason certain girls are called out as rude is because they are rude. Maybe certain girls get a bad reputation is because they've earned it. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:11:47 07/06/22 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Defending these girls by saying it's hard to be "fake nice" is admitting to and condoning being fake. How adults (and those ready for a state title) handle themselves is by being polite and professional, not fake. A judicious communicator knows what to say and how to say it, especially in uncomfortable or difficult situations. A critical skill set judges are looking for in a titleholder. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:23:16 07/06/22 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Do you get a girl who - 'thinks', presumes, assumes, speculates, theorizes, suspects, guesses, imagines, invents, concocts, manufactures, contrives - the volunteers are saying bad things about her is errant? She's making things up in her head and using that voodoo to decide how she'll behave towards them. She speculates they are talking behind her back, can't manage "to be fake nice for a week", so treats them rudely, then blames it on the volunteers! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:43:25 07/06/22 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Pageant week is a test to see how girls operate everyday, so the org will know how they'll operate all year. So even if a girl knows for sure somehow that a volunteer is badmouthing them, her response to them shows how she would respond to a member of the public badmouthing them- astute, polite, professional or unable to handle it and is rude to them. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:45:07 07/06/22 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]